It seems as if more and more people are arriving in Gilbert every day. With the population of the wider Phoenix area exploding, now is a great time to go out and meet somebody new. Whether you’re a recent transplant or an Arizona native, Gilbert’s best dating apps can put you in touch with the 38% of residents who are currently single. Given that the city’s population is over 246,000 people, that’s a whole lot of singles ready to mingle.
Unfortunately, Gilbert’s dating app market looks a whole lot like the city itself – crowded. It can be a pain sorting through all the different options just to find one that’s right for you. No one wants to waste time testing out a bunch of apps themselves, especially when some of the worst ones can expose you to spammers (or send you all the way up to Fort McDowell for a date). To make things harder, companies like to use buzzwords like “geolocation optimization” and “search aggregates” to try and reel you in. You shouldn’t need an advanced tech degree from ASU or Saint Xavier just to know how to work a dating app.
Luckily, we’ve put in the time and effort to cut through the BS, bringing you a list of Gilbert’s top dating apps. These are the ones we’ve dubbed “the best of the best”. They’re the apps we’ve had the most success with ourselves, helping us meet people from Tapestry Canyon to Superstition Springs. Give them a try and let us know about your luck in the comments section.
Hot Dating Apps In Gilbert Dating
To begin, we are going to go over several of the dating apps that are most effective for people with specific interests. If your desires align with what these apps have to offer you won’t find a better option in the area.
Guys interested in women over 35 and women interested in younger guys should try Cougar Life’s free trial first
The men in Gilbert are fortunate because there are actually quite a few attractive single women over 35. The problem is finding good places to actually meet them and strike up a conversation. These women tend to have busy lives and don’t hang out in the typical bars and clubs where you can meet women in their 20’s.
Instead, more and more often these women are using Cougar Life (which you can try for free here). When you think about it, it makes a lot of sense. What is more efficient than being able to meet other single people 24/7 while relaxing at home? When you have a career but still want a social life, you have to rely on technology to make it happen.
For guys in their 20’s and 30’s who are interested in dating older women Cougar Life is really the best option. They are the largest and highest quality app out there that is dedicated to helping women 35+ find success with online dating. There is a bit of a stigma against women dating guys younger than they are so an app like this that makes it easy and circumvents any societal judgments is amazing.
If you were hunting for the best cougar dating app in Gilbert, you’ve found it. We would know, every year we put together a compilation review of the best cougar dating sites and they have been the best for a while.
Elite Singles is amazing if you are really only interested in dating college grads
With quite a few colleges and junior colleges in Gilbert (and a large number of college graduates who attended school elsewhere) it’s safe to say that we are more educated than others might think. One thing that is fairly common among college graduates is a strong desire to date other people who also take their education seriously. That is where Elite Singles really shines.
This app is unique because over 85% of their members have college degrees and on average are doing WAY better for themselves than members of other apps. If you have already gone through the struggle of getting your degree and investing in yourself it makes sense that you would want to date someone who can also understand that.
Elite Singles is still one of the newer apps on the block but they are adding 500,000+ new members a month so the selection is actually pretty good around here. They are in that sweet spot where they are big but not “too big”. Give their free trial a shot and see what we mean. You might not see it in the Gilbert Sun but it is great!
The Gilbert dating app single parents are getting the best results with is eHarmony
Being a single parent is tough enough without throwing dating into the mix. How can you balance your busy schedule with finding someone that:
- You find attractive
- Isn’t married
- Is open to children
- Is actually good with kids
- Isn’t crazy
- Isn’t broke
It can be crazy hard in the best circumstances and feel outright impossible without a little help from technology. That is why we recommend eHarmony to the single parents out there.
There are over 12 million single parent households out there so you are not alone. The trick to finding dating success for single parents is taking a broader approach. That means using a dating app that has a lot of users. This allows for some sophisticated filtering and matching so that you waste as little time as possible.
Where eHarmony really stands out is their huge number of members (over 15 million) and their extremely unique sign-up and matching process. You will spend a little more time getting set up than with other apps but it is totally worth it in the long-run. By taking the time to fill out their initial questions you can tailor the matches you get better than anywhere else.
Most singles parents have very little free time. The last thing they want to do is waste that on a date with an obviously bad match. eHarmony eliminates a huge number of bad dates from your life so you find someone who checks all your boxes. Give their trial a shot!
If you’re fortunate to be a very attractive guy (we are talking 9/10 or better), or woman, Tinder is going to work pretty well for you
Tinder is extremely popular around here, especially with those 18-28, and for good reason. For the younger crowd it can work amazingly well, at least through your college years. Once you start hitting 23-24+ it really starts to taper off unless you are a very attractive guy or a decent looking woman. We put together a huge review of all the best hookup apps so we would know.
The problem with Tinder is that it has kind of become a victim of its own success. So many people use it now that the majority of matches that actually turn into something go to the best looking guys. Plus, a huge percentage of women use it only for self-validation. You hear a lot about people using Tinder but not a lot about actual successes.
No good list of apps that work here would be complete without Tinder, but if you’ve hit your mid to late 20’s there is a good chance you can do better elsewhere (even Dierks Bentley’s Whiskey Row).
Adult FriendFinder’s free trial is the best app for a quick hookup (unless you are an amazing looking guy)
There are a lot of apps out there that claim to be able to make hooking up easy. In reality, especially around Gilbert, there are only two apps that work. We already talked about Tinder and it’s limitations but Adult FriendFinder is really the app that is going to be most useful for the vast majority of people out there.
Adult FriendFinder isn’t the newest app around. Luckily, they have the huge benefit of being by far the largest app of its type (aside from Tinder) with over 25 MILLION visits a month. That’s a lot of people looking for hookups! This is the type of app that works all over the place and not just in NYC or LA.
Every year we put together a full review of all the best hookup apps out there and AFF has been the best choice for most people for a while.
These types of apps definitely are not for everyone. They are 100% focused on helping men and women find other people to hook up with quickly and easily. If you are tired of frequenting bars and clubs and just want to get down to business, check Adult FriendFinder out. All the other “hookup apps” are a complete waste of time.
If you’re a big and beautiful woman (or a guy who loves them) BBW Cupid is your spot
Typical dating apps can be unforgiving to women who don’t conform to standard ideas of what’s attractive. Women with a different look can be insulted or completely ignored on more general dating apps. This leads many of the BBW out there to completely avoid these apps in order to stay away from the negativity. That, in turn, makes it even harder for men who love BBWs to find them.
It’s a vicious cycle!
The solutions for Gilbert locals is BBW Cupid. They are the largest and most established app out there that is ONLY for BBW and the men that want to date them. There is no shaming here because everyone is on the app for exactly the same reasons. This takes so much pressure off both the men and the women and actual dating success is so much higher.
If you are a BBW (or admirer) that hasn’t had a lot of luck on other apps, do yourself a favor and give them a shot.
Christian’s have had the best success with Christian Mingle
Using a dating app to meet people as a Christian can be frustrating. It’s especially challenging if you don’t know where to start. It can be difficult to filter out people who identify as “Christian” from those that take their beliefs seriously. Not to mention the temptation of trying to convert that amazing guy or girl who just needs a little help from you to see the light!
Fortunately, we have Christian Mingle. The most popular Christian dating app (they have over 16 million members), it does an admirable job of attracting those whose faith is very important to them and a prominent part of their life. If that sounds like you, this is the app for you.
If you are looking for the best Christian dating app in Gilbert, this should be your first app to try.
Our Time is where the over-50 crowd has been having the best success
As dating apps become more and more mainstream, it’s only natural the over-50 crowd gets into the game. In fact, dating apps are surprisingly popular around here with folks you wouldn’t assume use their phone to meet singles..
Our Time has the largest number of users over 50 (they get over 7 million users a month). It also does a REALLY great job of making an easy-to-use app even if you’re not good with technology. If you have never used an app for dating and are nervous about the experience, they can help.
Finding attractive single people in your age range gets harder and harder as you get older, especially over 50. Our Time is the largest and best community for those with a little more experience who still have a lot of life to live. Give them a shot.
Grindr continues to be the top dating app for gay men in Gilbert while Pink Cupid has been solid for lesbians
Grindr is the ever-present dating app for gay men in most of the English speaking world. It’s still popular around here. It has been the go-to app for several years now but more competition is popping up every day. None of the new gay dating apps can really compete yet, but in a year or two that might change.
One call-out with Grindr is it tends to be very short-term focused. If you are looking for something more long-term you might do better on some of the more standard “dating” apps.
For the ladies, Pink Cupid has been rapidly rising in popularity. There hasn’t really been a clear winner when it comes to the best dating app for lesbians. That could be changing. Pink Cupid has been the favorite for lesbians in the area and they have had some pretty good things to say about it.
Long story short, lesbians around Gilbert should check out Pink Cupid and guys interested in the short-term always have Grindr.
General and Free Gilbert Dating Apps
Now we’ll cover a couple of the more general dating apps that have been working here for us. These are all broader apps that don’t target a particular group of people or interest.
eHarmony works best for people who are looking for actual relationships
With a massive number of people using it and a truly unique matching process, eHarmony is the dating app that leads to the most actual relationships. They are not the newest app around but newer isn’t always better. You’ve probably seen their commercials (they’re on all the time) so it shouldn’t be too surprising to see them here.
One thing eHarmony is very good at is getting their members to actually commit to the process of finding someone new. Their sign-up process is pretty intensive. It involves you answering a bevy of questions about yourself and what you are looking for. Then, they take your answers and use them to match you up with other people who you would be compatible with. It takes a little time but it is worth it.
This process is extremely beneficial for two reasons. First, it weeds out all the people who are just looking and not really committed. This allows for a collection of people who are actually motivated to take action instead of just looking at pictures.
Second, it saves you a ton of time mindlessly scrolling through hundreds of profiles. If you don’t have a ton of free time you don’t want to waste hours and hours reading through profiles of people you are not compatible with or worse, throw away time and money on bad dates.
eHarmony does a fantastic job of streamlining the process, matching you up with compatible people, and saving you a TON of time and money.
If you are looking for something short term or are low on funds OkCupid is the best free dating app
Okcupid is probably the most well-known and used free dating app out there at the moment. They have a huge number of users and their app is free to use. That is the good news.
Unfortunately, OkCupid suffers from all the same problems of other free apps, just more so. Any time you have a free app with a lot of users it becomes very competitive very quickly. Like Tinder, the vast majority of communication happens between the top 10% of men and the top 30-40% of women. That’s great if you’re a guy in the top 10% but it’s often underwhelming for the rest of us.
OkCupid can still work out for more normal people but you have to spend a LOT more time and effort. It becomes a numbers game. A significant amount of time is spent searching profiles, messaging people, and following up before anything real comes out of it. If you have the time that’s great. If you are busy it might not be a great fit for you and you should consider one of the other apps on our list.