Yonkers has tons of apps, websites, and hotspots that are supposed to make it easier to meet eligible singles. Unfortunately, not all of them are as successful as they promise to be. If you find yourself stuck in an endless cycle of swiping and are getting nowhere, it’s likely you’re just not using the Yonkers hookup apps and websites that draw the most singles.
Similarly, if your nights out have been habitually disappointing, it’s just because you’re not frequenting the hookup bars in Yonkers that are currently the most popular. If you are searching for insider information into the hookup apps, websites, and bars where single people in Yonkers are actually meeting, you’ve come to exactly the right place.
You won’t believe the people you’ll meet when you log on to hook up apps that actually work. Our local experts have studied the city from Getty Square to Northwest Yonkers and have determined which hookup apps and websites are going to get you the most action in the quickest amount of time. Whether you’re searching for a Sarah Lawrence grad, a successful Macy’s employee, or just a fellow Yankees fan, these hookup apps are where our city’s most eligible singles are having the most success.
If your social life only consists of occasional visits to Anytime Fitness and rocking out to WFUV, you’re also missing out on opportunities to meet attractive strangers who may have not otherwise crossed your path. That’s why it’s also a great idea to take a multifaceted approach and visit Yonkers hookup bars as often as possible.
If you’ve decided that this is the year you finally add some excitement to your life, we’re here to act as a friendly local guide. Our insider advice will take plenty of the guesswork out of finding other singles in Yonkers. This comprehensive list breaks down the most popular hookup apps, websites, and bars around.
Hookup Sites & Apps For Yonkers
We have had a lot of success recently with a few of the best hookup apps in Yonkers and they are worth checking out. There are a lot of sites that are a complete waste of time so using one that is proven to work is the smart thing to do.
We always encourage our readers to mix meeting people on hookup apps with meeting people when you are socializing around town. Still, we have yet to find a faster and easier way to meet a lot of other singles than the apps below. If you have not tried them out yet it is well worth the few minutes it takes to get up and running. We spend a ton of time putting together our review of the best hookup apps around so we know what we are talking about.
Uncork’d Wine Bar & Grill and other beer gardens work like magic
When you are looking for a good hookup spot in Yonkers you want a spot that has a good selection of booze and an environment that makes it easy to mingle with other people. Beer gardens are perfect for this.
Beer gardens are super relaxed and tend to have big crowds of single people standing around and talking. There are few places where it is easier to start a conversation with a lot of other singles and see how things go. Friday and Saturday nights tend to be best and you ideally should be there between 9 and midnight if a hookup is what you’re after.
Adult FriendFinder – The best hookup app in Yonkers for most
After a lot of research and experimentation, it became pretty clear that Adult FriendFinder was the most useful site in actually helping us find hookups. There are a few things that separate the best hookup sites from all the rest that we always look out for:
- How popular is the site – Are a lot of people in Yonkers using this app to meet each other?
- Quality of the users – Is it being used by people you would actually want to meet?
- Can normal people find success – Will someone who isn’t very good looking be able to be successful using this site?
- Trustworthiness – Have they been around for a while with a proven track record of success?
- Do they have a free trial – Any site that believes it can do what it claims will let people try it out for free.
As we used Adult FriendFinder and did more intense research we found a lot to like. They have a ton of active members (over 90,000,0000 and by far the most popular Yonkers hookup app with people 30+). The only real competition in terms of the number of users is Tinder and their users are almost all under 30. If you are interested in hooking up with anyone over 30, you’ll have way better success with Adult FriendFinder. They have a lot of people in their 20s as well so you don’t have to pick one or the other.
Another big benefit that this site has is it is much easier for people who are not in the top 10% in looks to find someone. On Tinder, the guys who are in the top 10-15% of attractiveness get almost all the attention. That is a rough experience for us guys who have something to offer but are not male models. Adult FriendFinder is much easier for more normal guys to get lucky. They’ve been around for nearly 15 years. You don’t stick around that long if you’re only helping out really good looking people!
Last but not least, they have a free trial offer (you can find it here) so you have nothing to lose by giving them a shot. If you are looking to have as many chances as is technologically possible for a hookup (and why wouldn’t you?) you need to check them out.
Cafe 28 and other relaxed coffee shops are surprisingly good places for a Yonkers hookup
Coffeeshops might not be a traditional hookup spot like a bar or a club but you can definitely find success here. Many of them are open pretty late and are especially popular with single women in the evenings.
We have had a lot of success meeting women between 7 PM and 10 PM in coffee shops and quickly turning that first meeting into a mini-date. Basically, after starting a conversation you ask if they would like to get a quick bite to eat or a drink and head out together. You will be surprised how often one thing leads to another and you end up at your place or theirs that same night.
Tinder – If you are particularly good looking and under 28 it’s great for a Yonkers hookup
Tinder is the Yonkers hookup app that just about every millennial has heard about and tried. It is all over the place with over 50,000,000 users around the world. If you happen to be one of the Yonkers locals that is very attractive and you want to only hookup with someone under 28, Tinder is going to be a great choice for you. It’s easy to use but you really need to have good pictures to be successful on this Yonkers hookup site.
For those of us that are honest enough to know we are not going to be on a billboard any time soon, Adult FriendFinder is probably going to work better. Tinder is extremely photo-driven and more and more often the women on the app are only there to get an ego boost from the attention they get from the guys. They can get dozens or even hundreds of messages a day and often don’t respond to any of them. It is basically an automated compliment machine for them.
Tinder has a free trial which is great and getting started is pretty easy. If you are a really good looking fellow or a girl who wants to get a lot of compliments, you are going to have fun.
Guys looking to hookup with older women (and vice versa) are going to love Cougar Life
Men in their 20s and 30s who want to hookup with women in their 30s, 40s, or even older are in a tough position. It can be really hard to tell if a woman is open to hooking up with a younger guy in Yonkers. The last thing you want is to spend time and money trying to attract a woman who doesn’t even consider you a possibility.
The same is true for women. There is a bit of a social stigma against women dating younger guys (which is crazy since it doesn’t apply to men dating younger women) which makes them less likely to be open with their interest. Fortunately, Cougar Life is a hookup site specifically designed to help younger guys connect with attractive women 30+. No other site is anywhere as good.
In terms of size, Cougar Life has over 7,000,000 members and all the women on the site are interested in dating a younger guy. One of the interesting things about this site is that the guys don’t tend to be quite as attractive as on Tinder or Adult FriendFinder so it can make things a bit easier for more normal guys.
Naturally, they have a free trial so you can check them out without risking anything. If you are a younger guy looking for some fun with a more mature woman, this is a great option.
Our Favorite Yonkers Hookup Bars & Other Spots
Now that we have covered the best ways to meet people for hookups 24/7 through technology, lets look at the local hookup bars and other spots where hooking up is easiest. This is our list of the five best bars and a few other places that are going to be well worth your time.
Yonkers’s best hookup bars & clubs
We are fortunate there are several good options around town for finding a quick hookup if you have some skills. If you are still working on that part, you might want to try a hookup app first before venturing out into the wild.
Below are our favorite hookup bars (not in order) for Yonkers. These are all places where a lot of single people hang out and the alcohol is flowing. They are also open late enough that it’s easy to make a smooth transition from the bar back to your place (or theirs) with a quick Uber ride. You don’t want to show up too early, though, as things usually don’t get going till at least 9 or 10.
Some of these you may have already tried and some may be new. All of them are solid places for meeting other singles who are looking for some short-term fun. Give them a shot on a Friday or Saturday night if you want to have the best chances and don’t be afraid to have a drink or two while you are there to loosen up first!
Grocery stores like Stew Leonard’s are great places to meet people for a hookup
At first glance, you might be wondering why we suggest a grocery store as a place to hookup with women in Yonkers. Fair question! Hear us out on this and you will thank us later.
There are few places where a guy has an easier chance of walking up to a woman and starting a conversation as easily as at the grocery store. This is especially true in the produce aisle where striking up a conversation couldn’t be easier.
If you go between 5 PM and 8 PM most days of the week, you are going to find a ton of single women pushing shopping carts around. It is extremely easy to walk up to a woman who is looking at produce and asking a simple question like “Do you know if these are in season?” to break the ice and get a conversation going. It really doesn’t get any easier.
Lesbians list Pink Cupid as their preferred Yonkers hookup site
Unlike for men, there isn’t one single hookup app option in Yonkers that gets all the attention. The closest thing there is at the moment is Pink Cupid. If you are a lesbian looking for some quick fun it is worth checking out.
From what we have seen ourselves, and heard from friends, this app is among the most popular apps out there for lesbians and is growing quickly in popularity. We will know more about them in a couple years, but they are worth taking a look at for sure.
Grindr is still the best hookup site for Yonkers’s gay men
We are probably not telling you anything new here. If you are a local gay man there is a 99.9999% chance that you have heard of Grindr and a 99.999% chance you have already tried it out.
When it comes to the qualities we look for in a hookup app, Grindr nails them all. They have a huge user base and a wide variety of men using it, they have been around for a while, and they offer a free trial. There really isn’t much more to say than that!
There are some other smaller apps that are popping up to try to take Grindr’s crown but we are still a year or two away before they really get big enough to recommend.