Charlotte is the largest city in North Carolina. Because it’s not a sprawling megacity yet, there’s a lot to see and experience, but you won’t get overwhelmed. We have a bustling culinary scene, lush parks and gardens, and—of course—attractive older women. So where can you go to meet these cougars in Charlotte?
The dating scene in our city is unique because most of the residents here came from somewhere else. There are also tourists and travelers passing by from the airport. Strangely enough, people are familiar with each other. A friend of a friend might know the Charlotte cougars that you were eyeing last night in Uptown.
Speaking of cougars, there are better ways to find them than resorting to people-watching at Yoga One or Earth Fare. We’ve compiled the best hotspots and cougar bars for you to check out. Head over to these destinations, and you’ll have a much higher chance of snagging a cougar. We’re excited to hear all about your experiences in the comments section below!
The Best Places to Find Cougars in Charlotte
We're sharing more than 40 cool spots for meeting and also dating, single cougars in Charlotte. But who am I kidding, not many readers will go through the entire guide just to look for a cool venue.
So we decided to make a separate, mini, list of the top four venues/dating apps that will get the job done and save your time, especially if you're in Charlotte for just a couple of days. Check them first and if you want more, you have the rest of the guide.
Let's begin with this cool bar:
Prohibition Bar is perfect for meeting single cougars in Charlotte
As with many cougar bars in Charlotte, Prohibition is all about fun and good times. The bar itself is actually constructed from reclaimed wood and tin from local North Carolina barns. With prohibition-themed memorabilia adorning every inch of the walls, you will really feel as though you have stepped back in time. Every inch of this place makes for a great conversation starter.
Here you can expect to find cougars in hordes, sipping on Moonshine and really getting into the swing of things. With entertainment from live bands to funky DJs, you’ll be dancing with your new friend a few drinks in. So prepare your best moves on the dance floor to impress her!
Where to meet cougars in Charlotte online
What's the easiest way to meet lots of single women? Instead of heading to a bar every single night, why not try your luck online where there are plenty of cougars around?
AFF is the top Charlotte cougar dating site if you want to jump into bed (try it free)
Finding a single Charlotte cougar who isn't looking for a relationship but still wants to have some fun isn't easy. There are a lot of apps that claim they can help, but in our experience, very few deliver.
We don’t recommend many sites or apps for guys who are just looking for some action, but when we do it’s usually AFF. With over 60 million active users, you know that this is a site that works. Add to that the fact that most AFF users are in their 30s or older and you’ve got the perfect site for meeting cougars for a bit of bedroom fun.
If you're not looking for a relationship and only want a cougar to take home there isn't a better option!
The best thing about AFF is that there’s no need to beat around the bush when it comes to your intentions. Everyone (and we mean everyone) uses this site to get laid. You won’t meet any hopeless romantics looking for anything serious on here. That also makes it so much easier for the cougars in Charlotte to look for a fling without all the ambiguity.
If all you want is to find a cougar who wants a hot evening with no awkward goodbyes, you’ll find her on AFF.
eHarmony is the easiest way to meet cougars in Charlotte when you want a relationship (try it free)
When it comes to meeting a lot of cougars in Charlotte quickly, especially those interested in dating younger guys, there isn't a better option than eHarmony. Older women are often just too busy to spend a lot of time in bars and clubs so many of them have been looking online to meet guys. In fact, a lot of them are ONLY looking online these days.
If you're not spending at least a little time on eHarmony you're going to miss out on a lot of opportunities!
There are a lot of dating sites and apps out there (and we've tried just about all of them in our cougar dating site review) but none of them really deliver as well as eHarmony does. Here are a few reasons why we think it works so well:
There are a lot of cougars in Charlotte using it
There are more popular apps and sites out there but they just don't have the cougars. eHarmony has so many older women who want a relationship. No need to sift through profile after profile of younger women just looking for something casual.
A really good mix of Charlotte cougars who are open to dating and serious relationships
Dating is a numbers game. So the more women you encounter, the better. When you use eHarmony, you'll likely women who prefer to go on a date instead of just the usual casual thing.
So if you want a relationship or are at least open to dating that's not too casual, eHarmony is your best bet.
Feel like dancing all night? Here are some nightclubs that are always full of single cougars!
Roxbury is the perfect place to go if you’re into a retro-themed nightlife
Roxbury Nightclub has been voted the best dance club in our city time and time again. What makes it so great is the retro theme of the club. The club boasts the 80s and 90s nightlife scene that really lives up to the hype. This is a super fun place to hang out on a Friday or Saturday night.
The nightclub features two levels and a large dance floor. So if you’re ready to dance with incredibly gorgeous women then this is the place for that. Even if you’re not into dancing, you can find something fun to do here. The nightclub also has a games room and a VIP area with a pool table. We’ve met incredibly fun women here that we’ve had flings with several times.
Top Charlotte Cougar Bars and Cougar Clubs
There's demand for cool bars and clubs in Charlotte. It's the biggest city in North Carolina and holds close to a million residents...so with many people looking for cool venues to chill out at, the demand must be served.
And rest assured it's pretty well-served.
Below are a few good bars and clubs where you can meet some of the hottest cougars in Charlotte. Make sure you check them out:
- Bradshaw Social House - 8440 Rea Rd
- Vibrations Night Lounge - 5237 Albemarle Rd
- Selwyn pub - 2801 Selwyn Ave
- Blackfinn Ameripub Ballantyne - 14825 Ballantyne Village Way #100
- Thirsty Beaver Saloon - 1225 Central Ave
- Thomas Street Tavern - 1218 Thomas Ave
- Coyote Joe’s - 4621 Wilkinson Blvd
- Napa on Providence - 110 Perrin Pl
- The Palm - 6705-B, Phillips Pl Ct
- Lake Norman Tavern - 1468 Brawley School Rd, Mooresville
- The Blue Parrot Grill - 169 Pinnacle Ln, Mooresville
We added a mix of cool bars, pubs, and clubs to the above list. But you probably noticed that some of these venues are 20-30 minutes outside Charlotte. That's because most cougars will no longer drive for an hour to party. They might do it on a special night or if the venue is too fancy for a "No", but most of the time they'll party in any average/good venue that is a few minutes away.
Age, responsibilities, kids...you name it.
So we highly recommend that you check the bars in your area first before roaming all over the city. You may find some hidden gems over there, and save yourself the time.
The Apps Dating Coaches Recommend Most To Meet Cougars
More and more older women are only using apps and sites to meet guys, especially younger guys. You need to be on at least one or two apps now if you want to get the best results you can. These are the apps that give normal guys the best success meeting cougars:
|Site||Our Experience||Our Rating||Free Trial Link|
Best Hookup Site Cougars
|Try AFF For Free|
Best For Relationships
2nd Best For Hookups
Meet Cougars in Charlotte During the Day
How does your normal day look like?
It probably revolves around work, the subway/parking lot, the gym, some grocery store or a mall, and the café/bar where you get your coffee from.
That’s how most people’s day goes, and that’s why you’re better off talking to women in gyms, malls, and cafes just like you approach them in bars. The competition is low, she’s not as stunning as she looks like on a Friday night, and no alcohol involved.
What a way to build your confidence? 😛
Here are a few really good places to meet cougars in Charlotte during the day:
- Charlotte Athletic Club - 101 S Tryon St #200
- Club Fitness - 11108 S Tryon St
- Charlotte Premium Outlets - 5404 New Fashion Way
- SouthPark Mall - 4400 Sharon Rd
- Starbucks - 8951-A, S Tryon St
- Be Yoga - 1247 East Blvd #250
- NoDa Yoga - 3201 N Davidson St ste b
Also, train yourself to be social on command, and practice talking to people everywhere you go; the subway, McDonald's, CVS..etc. It can be exhausting at times, especially if you're an introvert like me, but treat it as a skill just like using Excell or drafting emails. Not essential, but still good to have.
The Guide to Cougar Dating in Charlotte
We spent the past few minutes showing you where to meet cougars in Charlotte, and now is the time to show you where to date them.
This, however, can get a little bit tricky since not all cougars want the same thing - and men as well - so taking the woman out depends mainly on her blueprint plus your goal from the relationship.
Here's how to do it:
If you just want to keep it casual take her to a lounge
If casual is what you’re after then why not take her into a cool romantic lounge?
You can share stories, laugh without being interrupted by a DJ and hopefully spice it up a little with a kiss or two.
Some of these cool Charlotte lounges are:
- The Cellar at Duckworth's - 330 N Tryon St
- Nuvole Rooftop 22 - 220 E Trade St Suite 2200
- Rooftop 210 - 210 E Trade St b320
- Soul Gastrolounge - 1500 B Central Ave
- Alexander Michael's - 401 W 9th St
- Crepe Cellar - 3116 N Davidson St
If you're more serious about dating her try any of these Charlotte activities
If she wants to know you well before doing anything physical, then why not share a cool activity together. Anything from a walk in the park to a bowling night will help you take down her guards a little.
A few great places to take a Charlotte cougar on a date are:
- The Comedy Zone - 900 North Carolina Music Factory Blvd
- Freedom Park - 1908 East Blvd
- Bowlero Charlotte - 210 E Trade St D-164
- 10 Park Lanes - 1700 Montford Dr
- Romare Bearden Park - 300 S Church St
- The Evening Muse - 3227 N Davidson St
If she's very old school you can always do a dinner date
I don’t recommend dinner dates because you’ll be distracted by food and the fact that you have to cover your mouth each time you speak. Yet, some women love to do it, especially cougars.
So, if that’s your lady, then any of these romantic restaurants in Charlotte will get you covered:
- The Fig Tree - 1601 E 7th St
- McNinch - 511 N Church St
- Fahrenheit Charlotte - 222 S Caldwell St 21st Floor
- Heirloom - 8470 Bellhaven Blvd
- Bernardin's - 435 S Tryon St Ste 100
- Bentley's - 4620 Piedmont Row Dr #110
- Del Frisco's Double Eagle - 4725 Piedmont Row Dr Suite 170
A map of all the best cougar dating spots in Charlotte
We combined all our top spots for dating and meeting single cougars in Charlotte in just one map. Use it well and don't forget to email us your results.
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