The Expert’s Guide to Meeting Cougars in Charlotte in 2021 - Where To Go And How To Date Them

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Charlotte is the largest city in North Carolina. Because it’s not a sprawling megacity yet, there’s a lot to see and experience, but you won’t get overwhelmed. We have a bustling culinary scene, lush parks and gardens, and—of course—attractive older women. So where can you go to meet these cougars in Charlotte?

The dating scene in our city is unique because most of the residents here came from somewhere else. There are also tourists and travelers passing by from the airport. Strangely enough, people are familiar with each other. A friend of a friend might know the Charlotte cougars that you were eyeing last night in Uptown.

Speaking of cougars, there are better ways to find them than resorting to people-watching at Yoga One or Earth Fare. We’ve compiled the best hotspots and cougar bars for you to check out. Head over to these destinations, and you’ll have a much higher chance of snagging a cougar. We’re excited to hear all about your experiences in the comments section below!

The Best Places to Find Cougars in Charlotte

We're sharing more than 40 cool spots for meeting and also dating, single cougars in Charlotte. But who am I kidding, not many readers will go through the entire guide just to look for a cool venue.

So we decided to make a separate, mini, list of the top four venues/dating apps that will get the job done and save your time, especially if you're in Charlotte for just a couple of days. Check them first and if you want more, you have the rest of the guide.

Let's begin with this cool bar:

Prohibition Bar with lovely women on the dance floor

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Prohibition Bar is perfect for meeting single cougars in Charlotte

As with many cougar bars in Charlotte, Prohibition is all about fun and good times. The bar itself is actually constructed from reclaimed wood and tin from local North Carolina barns. With prohibition-themed memorabilia adorning every inch of the walls, you will really feel as though you have stepped back in time. Every inch of this place makes for a great conversation starter.

Here you can expect to find cougars in hordes, sipping on Moonshine and really getting into the swing of things. With entertainment from live bands to funky DJs, you’ll be dancing with your new friend a few drinks in. So prepare your best moves on the dance floor to impress her!

Where to meet cougars in Charlotte online

What's the easiest way to meet lots of single women? Instead of heading to a bar every single night, why not try your luck online where there are plenty of cougars around?

AFF is the top Charlotte cougar dating site if you want to jump into bed (try it free)

Finding a single Charlotte cougar who isn't looking for a relationship but still wants to have some fun isn't easy. There are a lot of apps that claim they can help, but in our experience, very few deliver.

We don’t recommend many sites or apps for guys who are just looking for some action, but when we do it’s usually AFF. With over 60 million active users, you know that this is a site that works. Add to that the fact that most AFF users are in their 30s or older and you’ve got the perfect site for meeting cougars for a bit of bedroom fun.

If you're not looking for a relationship and only want a cougar to take home there isn't a better option!

The best thing about AFF is that there’s no need to beat around the bush when it comes to your intentions. Everyone (and we mean everyone) uses this site to get laid. You won’t meet any hopeless romantics looking for anything serious on here. That also makes it so much easier for the cougars in Charlotte to look for a fling without all the ambiguity.

If all you want is to find a cougar who wants a hot evening with no awkward goodbyes, you’ll find her on AFF.

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If you actually want to meet single cougars who are more interested in fun in the bedroom than a long-term relationship you need to check out AFF's free trial with this link. We've spent many months testing out 100+ different sites and apps to meet cougars and AFF has consistently been the easiest way for most men.

 

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eHarmony is the easiest way to meet cougars in Charlotte when you want a relationship (try it free)

When it comes to meeting a lot of cougars in Charlotte quickly, especially those interested in dating younger guys, there isn't a better option than eHarmony. Older women are often just too busy to spend a lot of time in bars and clubs so many of them have been looking online to meet guys. In fact, a lot of them are ONLY looking online these days.

If you're not spending at least a little time on eHarmony you're going to miss out on a lot of opportunities!

There are a lot of dating sites and apps out there (and we've tried just about all of them in our cougar dating site review) but none of them really deliver as well as eHarmony does. Here are a few reasons why we think it works so well:

There are a lot of cougars in Charlotte using it

There are more popular apps and sites out there but they just don't have the cougars. eHarmony has so many older women who want a relationship. No need to sift through profile after profile of younger women just looking for something casual.

A really good mix of Charlotte cougars who are open to dating and serious relationships

Dating is a numbers game. So the more women you encounter, the better. When you use eHarmony, you'll likely women who prefer to go on a date instead of just the usual casual thing.

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So if you want a relationship or are at least open to dating that's not too casual, eHarmony is your best bet.

Feel like dancing all night? Here are some nightclubs that are always full of single cougars!

Charlotte cougars partying with drinks at Roxbury Nightclub

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Roxbury is the perfect place to go if you’re into a retro-themed nightlife

Roxbury Nightclub has been voted the best dance club in our city time and time again. What makes it so great is the retro theme of the club. The club boasts the 80s and 90s nightlife scene that really lives up to the hype. This is a super fun place to hang out on a Friday or Saturday night.

The nightclub features two levels and a large dance floor. So if you’re ready to dance with incredibly gorgeous women then this is the place for that. Even if you’re not into dancing, you can find something fun to do here. The nightclub also has a games room and a VIP area with a pool table. We’ve met incredibly fun women here that we’ve had flings with several times.

Charlotte cougars on a night out in a sports bar

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Top Charlotte Cougar Bars and Cougar Clubs

There's demand for cool bars and clubs in Charlotte. It's the biggest city in North Carolina and holds close to a million residents...so with many people looking for cool venues to chill out at, the demand must be served.

And rest assured it's pretty well-served.

Below are a few good bars and clubs where you can meet some of the hottest cougars in Charlotte. Make sure you check them out:

We added a mix of cool bars, pubs, and clubs to the above list. But you probably noticed that some of these venues are 20-30 minutes outside Charlotte. That's because most cougars will no longer drive for an hour to party. They might do it on a special night or if the venue is too fancy for a "No", but most of the time they'll party in any average/good venue that is a few minutes away.

Age, responsibilities, kids...you name it.

So we highly recommend that you check the bars in your area first before roaming all over the city. You may find some hidden gems over there, and save yourself the time.

Four Charlotte cougars hanging outside the Gin Mill South End

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Meet Cougars in Charlotte During the Day

How does your normal day look like?

It probably revolves around work, the subway/parking lot, the gym, some grocery store or a mall, and the café/bar where you get your coffee from.

That’s how most people’s day goes, and that’s why you’re better off talking to women in gyms, malls, and cafes just like you approach them in bars. The competition is low, she’s not as stunning as she looks like on a Friday night, and no alcohol involved.

What a way to build your confidence? 😛

Here are a few really good places to meet cougars in Charlotte during the day:

Also, train yourself to be social on command, and practice talking to people everywhere you go; the subway, McDonald's, CVS..etc. It can be exhausting at times, especially if you're an introvert like me, but treat it as a skill just like using Excell or drafting emails. Not essential, but still good to have.

Charlotte couples hanging out over drinks on a rooftop bar in Charlotte

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The Guide to Cougar Dating in Charlotte

We spent the past few minutes showing you where to meet cougars in Charlotte, and now is the time to show you where to date them.

This, however, can get a little bit tricky since not all cougars want the same thing - and men as well - so taking the woman out depends mainly on her blueprint plus your goal from the relationship.

Here's how to do it:

If you just want to keep it casual take her to a lounge

If casual is what you’re after then why not take her into a cool romantic lounge?

You can share stories, laugh without being interrupted by a DJ and hopefully spice it up a little with a kiss or two.

Some of these cool Charlotte lounges are:

If you're more serious about dating her try any of these Charlotte activities

If she wants to know you well before doing anything physical, then why not share a cool activity together. Anything from a walk in the park to a bowling night will help you take down her guards a little.

A few great places to take a Charlotte cougar on a date are:

If she's very old school you can always do a dinner date

I don’t recommend dinner dates because you’ll be distracted by food and the fact that you have to cover your mouth each time you speak. Yet, some women love to do it, especially cougars.

So, if that’s your lady, then any of these romantic restaurants in Charlotte will get you covered:

A map of all the best cougar dating spots in Charlotte

We combined all our top spots for dating and meeting single cougars in Charlotte in just one map. Use it well and don't forget to email us your results.

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