Our 9 Legit Single BBW Cougar Scenes to Meet a Lady In 2020

BBW cougar smiling on a bedDo you find yourself most attracted to older, big beautiful women? (BBW) If so, there are plenty of places to meet a BBW cougar in your area if you know where to look.

We have spent a lot of time looking for these lovely ladies and have put together a list of our suggested locations. Give them a shot and improve your luck!

Where We Have Met a BBW Cougar

Plus-size Clothing Shops

Older, heavy women love to shop as much as anyone else. You can often find them in plus size shops, as these stores cater to larger women. Next time you're in a shopping mall, browse through a plus-size shop. If you see an attractive lady, don't be shy to chat with her about her purchases, or tell her which color you think would look best on her.

Try a plus-size shop that caters to sophisticated women, not a shop that markets toward teenagers. You can typically tell which kind of shop you're scoping out based on the clothes you see in the shop window. If the clothes are all skinny jeans or cheaper-looking fabrics, then you know they probably cater to teen girls. Skip that shop and hit the classier one elsewhere. The shop you're seeking is for mature women. If you see blouses cut from expensive-looking fabrics in the window, you're in the right place.

Large department stores also have a plus-size section, and you typically find older, larger women shopping in them. Next time you're in a department store in the mall, glance over at the plus-size section to see who is searching through the racks. Stroll by and smile at the BBW cougar who has caught your eye. Start a conversation with her by asking where the men's section is, or ask if she knows a good coffee shop in the area.

Meeting BBW cougar on eHarmony is almost too easy (try it here)

Homepage for eharmony.comIf you’ve been having a hard time meeting cougars out in real life, you’re definitely not alone! Single older women are very busy when you factor in things like careers, active social lives, hobbies, and family, so they’re not just hanging out around bars or clubs in their spare time.

When they’re looking for guys, they tend to ONLY make time to look online and if you haven’t tried online dating yet (or it’s been a while), you’re missing out. But where should you be looking?

We test out a lot of different dating sites and apps, and the one we’ve found to be the most effective (by a long shot) for meeting women ages 35+ who want relationships is eHarmony. eHarmony’s signup process is a little longer than it is on other sites and apps, but this is a good thing. It weeds out the women who are only mildly curious, while those who take their dating lives a little more seriously tend to stick around.

To drive the point home further (in case you need more convincing), just consider some of these figures:

  1. eHarmony has been around for nearly 20 years and they’ve been fine-tuning their algorithm ever since, so when it comes to matching compatible singles, they’ve got it down.
  2. There are TONS of cougars on the site! Over 33 million active members are on there and 15 million matches are created on a daily basis. A good portion of these members are ages 35+
  3. 75% of ALL marriages that start online start on eHarmony, so if it’s something long-term you’re after, no other site can come even close to this.

We could easily continue to share stats and even success stories with you, but the best way for you to experience eHarmony’s effectiveness is to try it out for yourself. There’s also a great trial that you can check out here and maximize your chances of meeting compatible single hotties ages 35+ near you fast!

Hair and Nail Salons

Many older BBW like to pamper themselves. Because they often feel insecure about their weight, rather than shop for new clothes they go to the hair or nail salon instead. There is nothing so precious as a pair of chubby, painted toes. So if you're looking to meet a cute BBW cougar in your area, try going to a nail salon or hair salon, which is a great additional to the long list of proven places to find a single cougar.

Though many men think of hair and nail salons as strictly for females, this is certainly not the case. Go to a hair shop that also houses a barber. This way, you won't feel awkward about hanging out there, and you can get your own hair done while scoping the scene for a pretty BBW cougar. If you opt to visit a nail salon, consider getting a pedicure. Pedicures are quite relaxing and have never been strictly for female clients. And who knows? Maybe you'll be seated next to a cute BBW while you're getting your toes done.

Traditional apps are time Killers when you just want sex, use BBW Match instead

Guys, if you’re looking for some action in the bedroom with a BBW cougar, you need to try BBW Match. It’s the best option we’ve seen for people who just want sex, and we think you’ll agree.

We know the dating app market is saturated with options, and you might even have a few (or more) on your phone. Sure, some of the others are good, but if you’re just looking to get laid, traditional dating apps can be a big waste of time. All of the users on BBW Match want sex, so you don’t need to second guess other users’ intentions.

You might be thinking, “isn’t Tinder great for casual sex?” It can be, but we’ve noticed that there are a lot of young users on Tinder who don’t really know what they want. We’ve also seen quite a few 20-something females on there who just want attention or validation and nothing more (the vast majority of which are super skinny). With BBW Match, all the women are exactly what you are looking for and down to head home with you. You also won’t find a lot of game playing. It’s specifically geared toward people who want something short-term and physical, so it really is the best option we’ve seen out there for sex alone.

A Cooking Class is a great place to meet a BBW cougar

Check with the community colleges in your area for an evening cooking class or culinary school. Enrolling in such a class will help you meet older women in the area, and it will also help you learn a thing or two about cooking. This is especially helpful if you already enjoy cooking. The sort of women you meet in these classes will not only be interested in cooking and homemaking, but they will generally be older women, especially if you're taking an evening class. Because career-minded people often work during the day, they have nights free, which is when they attend classes.

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Taking a culinary class will allow you to see your BBW cougar several times per week during class, which will give you numerous opportunities to approach her. Sit near her for a few class periods before you make your move. This will allow you to get some idea of what her personality is like before you approach her. Listen to what she says to others and how she behaves in class. Is she someone you'd like to pursue? If so, don't be shy to ask her over for a home-cooked dinner some night.

Cougar Life makes meeting a BBW cougar super easy for young guys

Because so many women date almost exclusively on online dating sites, you're missing out if you aren't online. This is even more true for older women who have a lot going on and don't have a lot of time to spend in a bar or club.

We have found Cougar Life (which you can try for free here) to be the top site for cougars who want to meetup with guys (both younger and older). If you go to another popular dating site, the singles you meet there may not be cougars and they may not be interested in younger men.

You would have to wade through dozens of profiles looking for the sort of woman you want, and once you find her she may not be interested in a guy who dates cougars exclusively. But if you go to Cougar Life you're instantly in contact with hundreds of cougars who are all looking to meet men who favor cougars.

Each year we review and compare all the top sites to date a cougar and Cougar Life has been the best around for a while. They have both the highest number of cougars and, in our experience, the most attractive. Give them a shot and see for yourself.

The Gym

Because so many cultures put pressure on women to be thinner, many BBW spend time at the gym. Older women can also be found in gyms, too, as they want to tone up and improve their fitness. Therefore, a good way to meet an older BBW is to get a gym membership. Because a gym is such a relaxed environment, you should have no trouble approaching women at the gym. Offer to spot her on the weight machine, or choose an exercise bike next to hers.

BBW Singles Parties

Some large cities have BBW parties or mixers during which men can mingle with BBW. These parties are not found in every city or town, but if you make use of the internet you can search for these parties. You may have to drive a couple of hours to attend one, but it would be worth it if you found the woman of your dreams.

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Dress well to attend a BBW singles party. Dress as though you were going on a date. You'll find BBW of all ages at these parties, and be prepared to take the names and contact information of several women. Remember that when you approach a BBW, she may be turned off if you treat her like a fetish. Don't ogle her or give a lame pickup line about her breast size or weight. Instead, just ask her name and ask about what sort of things she enjoys in her free time. Talk to her as you would a friend. Don't sound predatory.

Specialty Shoe Shops

Because larger women often have wider feet, they sometimes buy their shoes from specialty shoe shops. These shops sell comfort footwear and arch supports, which is good for heavier women who put a lot of weight on the bottoms of their feet. Older women are usually more financially stable because they've been in the workforce longer than younger women. For this reason, older BBW are often the women you see shopping at specialty shoe stores, which sometimes have slightly higher prices than regular footwear shops.

Go to one of these stores and browse the men's section as you check out the lovely ladies. As you walk by them, you may even get the chance to watch them try on shoes. Give that special lady a thumbs up on a pair you like. Ask her opinion of a pair you're considering for yourself.

Buffet Restaurants

Many BBW cougars can be found eating with friends or family at casual dining restaurants, especially buffets. Go grab a table and a plate. Sit and watch the women walk by. The good thing about an all-you-can eat buffet is that you can keep getting in line. Take advantage of this. Sidle up to that cute BBW cougar and ask her about herself. Maybe she knows which lunch items are tastiest. Or, ask for her opinion on the dessert buffet.

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If you are a foodie, meeting a woman at a buffet is a good opportunity to talk with her about the sorts of foods she enjoys. She may love to eat as much as you do. Ask her to recommend a bakery or another good restaurant in the area. Who knows? You just may end up cooking together some day.

Your Circle of Friends

Someone in your friend group probably knows a BBW cougar that you would be attracted to. Ask your friend about her. Does she enjoy the same interests that you do? Once you have probed your friend for information about her, ask if he or she will set you up on a date with that BBW cougar. In fact, many people meet their current love interests through mutual friends. Think about it, your best friends know you better than anyone else. Of course they'll be able to tell you if you're a match for that BBW they know.

The key to finding the BBW cougar of your dreams is to be persistent. If you try one or two key locations and they do not work out the first time, consider another of the above locations. Don't give up until you find what you're

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  • graff

    I need to be contacted by big beautifull women

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