There’s more to the City of Fountains than just barbecue. Here you’ll find some of the finest cougars in Kansas City who love to kick it with some younger gentlemen. If you know where to go, you can find attractive older women in the many solid bars and hangout spots in our city.
Take a trip to one of our many suburbs like the Prairie Village, Overland Park or Leawood to meet the cougars of Kansas. If you want to get out and about you can find hot older women in Kansas City cougar bars scattered all over the city.
The Best Places to Find Cougars in Kansas City
We listed +30 venues to help you meet and date cougars in Kansas City. Pubs, bars, clubs, and restaurants, different venues for different tastes. But we know that not every reader is willing to dive into a 4k-word guide just to find a place to spend the night. That's why we made you a shortlist of our top four selections.
They're a mix of bars and dating apps that we know are loaded with single women of different ages and types. Begin with them and if you like what you see, you can move to the rest.
Here they are:
Meet a mysterious Kansas City cougar on the prowl at Manifesto
This hidden basement bar in the Reiger Hotel serves some of the most unique cocktails in the city. Its refined, upscale decor attracts cougar with a taste for fine things. Along with its low-light, intimate setting, and its secret location, you can find lots of Kansas City cougars who just want to unwind inside a classy bar.
Keep in mind that the prices are pretty steep. But since the place is always full of cougars (both local and out-of-town), you know that those cocktails are worth it! A visit to Manifesto will not only fill up your belly but also your sight as you watch countless cougars come and go.
If you want to fool around, AFF is the Kansas City cougar dating site you need (try it free)
If you just want to fool around with a Kansas City cougar without all the hassles of a relationship, use AFF (which has a great free trial). No other site will introduce you to so many cougars who want to get down and dirty.
We know that many sites that promise to get you laid may seem sketchy. But get this: AFF has existed since 2006. In all those years, AFF manages to match up singles who want to dance the horizontal tango. And with a user base of millions, you know you’ll find your perfect partner.
This is our favorite way to meet cougars to take home around the city!
You might be wondering why we’re not recommending that popular app that rhymes with “hinder” instead. Well, on that app, you’ll find that a lot of users are in their 20s. On AFF, however, users tend to be in their 30s or older. That means more cougars and more chances of meeting up with one.
AFF's free trial works for anyone--young, old, hot or average. No doubt it will help you meet the Kansas City cougar of your sexual fantasies!
eHarmony is the unbeatable way for most guys to find cougars in Kansas City (try it now)
There are several great options to meet cougars in Kansas City when you're going out but you only have so much time and money you can spend. If you REALLY want to meet a lot of single cougars you need to be smart and efficient with your time. That means checking out eHarmony's trial.
A lot of cougars have stopped spending time in bars and clubs and ONLY meeting single guys online. They're busy too and being able to connect with men, especially when they want to date younger guys, makes their life (and your life) a LOT easier.
If you haven't tried out online dating yet to meet cougars you're missing out on a TON of opportunities!
There are a few reasons why we've found eHarmony to be the best option for most guys and why it's at the top of our rankings for the best cougar dating apps and sites:
You won't find more Kansas City cougars on any other site or app
There are other options out there that have more people using them but actually finding single cougars can be very time-consuming. Even if you find attractive women over 35 using them you never really know if they're interested in dating younger guys.
With eHarmony, every woman using it is VERY open to dating both younger and older guys and they aren't afraid to show it! No other option out there has more REAL COUGARS that you can actually meet up with.
These women actually want to meet up and there's a great variety
It doesn't matter how many people are using an app or site if all the women are just there for attention. Most of the bigger free apps out there are filled with time-wasting women who just want to collect compliments.
In our experience, the women on eHarmony are MUCH more engaged and actually want to meet guys in person. Why else would they use such a specific site? There is also a great mix of women who want short-term fun and those who want an actual relationship. You can pick and choose.
If you haven't tried out eHarmony's trial offer you absolutely should. It's a great experience for most guys and a combination of time spend in our favorite places on this list and eHarmony is a recipe for success!
Enjoy Spanish dishes with wild Kansas City cougars at La Bodega
This classy tapas bar is a well-known cougar haunt. If you want to meet an art-loving cougar in Kansas, start here. You can enjoy a brilliant menu of excellent tapas dishes while admiring the cool artwork on the walls.
Great cocktails are another pull for the cougars who tend to flock here in groups. Spot her sipping on a violet lavender daiquiri at the bar. Offer to buy her another one as you engage her in some witty conversation.
Top Kansas City Cougar Bars and Cougar Clubs
The dating scene in Kansas City is light-hearted and fun. That gives you many opportunities to meet the perfect older lady for you.
Allow us to make that happen by giving you a list of the best places to spot a Kansas cougar. Every venue we chose receives love from locals and tourists for its relaxed, friendly atmosphere. And above all, they are all packed with hot single cougars.
Here they are:
- Harry’s Bar and Tables - 501 Westport Rd
- Margarita’s - 2829 Southwest Blvd
- Side Pockets - 600 NW Englewood Rd
- Twin City Tavern - 1815 Westport Rd
- Brewtop - 8614 N Boardwalk Ave
- Harry's Country Club - 112 E Missouri Ave
- Nick & Jake's Parkville - 6325 Lewis St #110, Parkville
- Voltaire - 1617 Genessee St
- The Ship - 1217 Union Ave
We mentioned a good mix of bars and clubs in the above list. It's your job now to get good results.
Make sure to bring your A-game to the venue. Dress sharp, look good, have good eye contact, and be fun but also collected. Cougars are mature and experienced. They've been with men before and they will tell if you're fake or the best deal.
Expect to be teased as well. It's their way of figuring you out. She may pick up on your age, looks, or salary. Be cool when it happens. Act as if she's your brat little sister and don't explain yourself. That's the best way to win a cougar.
The Apps Dating Coaches Recommend Most To Meet Cougars
More and more older women are only using apps and sites to meet guys, especially younger guys. You need to be on at least one or two apps now if you want to get the best results you can. These are the apps that give normal guys the best success meeting cougars:
|Site||Our Experience||Our Rating||Free Trial Link|
Best Hookup Site Cougars
|Try AFF For Free|
Best For Relationships
2nd Best For Hookups
Meet Cougars in Kansas City During the Day
Gyms, cafes, grocery stores, and shopping malls.... Cougars visit these places daily without expecting to be hit on by men.
That's your opportunity.
Increase the number of women you encounter by approaching them during the day. The competition from other men is close to zero and - if you do your job right - you'll give her a cool story to share with her girlfriends.
These are our top spots for meeting cougars in Kansas City during the day:
- Crown Center - 2450 Grand Blvd Suite 200
- Country Club Plaza - 4706 Broadway Blvd
- Whole Foods - 301 E 51st St
- Yoga Patch - 7235 Central St
- Onelife Fitness - 1261 Main St
- Made in KC Cafe - 1114 Baltimore Ave
- Dance Fit Flow - 1700 Locust St #300
The Guide to Cougar Dating in Kansas City
Now that we've told you where to meet hot single Kansas City cougars, it's time to show you where to take them out.
The first date with a woman sets the tone for what's coming next, especially cougars. They're specific and know what they want - be it a fling or a ring - and may cancel you too early if they think you don't match.
So where to take them on dates?
The answer will depend on her blueprint, and what you want from the interaction. Here's how:
If you just want to keep it casual take her to a lounge
If you want a fling then why waste time. Take her out to a cool, nearby bar or lounge where you can build comfort and sexual tension with your woman. Tease her, be assertive, share cool stories and keep good eye contact. Once you feel the spark, you can take it to the next level.
A few cool lounges and bars for dating Kansas City cougars:
- Tannin Wine Bar & Kitchen - 1526 Walnut St
- Percheron Rooftop Bar - 2101 Central St
- Novel - 1927 McGee St
- Chaz on the Plaza - 325 Ward Pkwy
- Green Lady Lounge - 1809 Grand Blvd
- John's Big Deck - 928 Wyandotte St
- Trezo Mare Lounge - 4105 N Mulberry Dr
- Grünauer - 101 W 22nd St
If you’re more serious about dating her try any of these activities
Some women aren't just going to sleep with you on the first date. Especially if she's looking for something long-term. She can be shy, conservative, or just not sure about her feelings for you.
If that's your woman, then you can lower her guards with a fun activity together in any of these spots in Kansas City:
- Ward Parkway Lanes - 1523 W 89th St
- Main Event Kansas City North - 8081 NW Roanridge Rd
- Penn Valley Park - West 29th Street, Broadway Blvd
- Jacob L. Loose Park - 5200 Wornall Rd
- Old Red Bridge - East Red Bridge Road, Minor Park North Entrance
- Improv Comedy Club - Zona Rosa Town Center, 7260 NW 87th St
- Legoland Discovery Center (No kids allowed night) - 2475 Grand Blvd
If she’s very old school you can always do a dinner date
I don't recommend you chew while talking to someone, so I'll never recommend dinner dates unless necessary. However, some cougars are deeply into fine dining. It's safe and gives them something to brag about with their friends. So, why not?
If that's your woman, then you take her out to one of these Kansas City romantic restaurants:
- Le Fou Frog - 400 E 5th St
- Eddie V's Prime Seafood - 700 W 47th St Ste 115
- Piropos - 4141 N Mulberry Dr
- Osteria Il Centro - 5101 Main St
- Jasper's Italian Restaurant - 1201 W 103rd St
A Map of All the Best Cougar Spots in Kansas
We combined our favorite bars, restaurants, and bulbs in just one map to help you meet and date cougars in Kansas City with ease. Use it well and don't forget to email us your results.
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