If you’re on the lookout for sexy and successful older women to hang out with, the Mile High City is the best place to hunt them. Our city has slowly become an exciting place for young men in search of cougars in Denver.
And why not? We have some awesome Denver cougar bars, restaurants and coffee shops where you can spot mature women hanging out. Our city is also popular for its cougar neighborhoods like the Cherry Creek and the Golden Triangle area. Many of the hottest cougars in Colorado reside in these neighborhoods, so it’s not impossible to bump into one of them.
Do you want to meet successful, divorced or happily single women who know how to take control of their relationships? Our city has a lot of them!
We took it upon ourselves to do the legwork and put together an excellent list of places where you can meet a single older woman. Before going anywhere else, spend some time at these locations to find the hottest Denver cougars.
As always, if you think we’ve missed a few cougar hotspots, let us know which places we should add in the comments below!
What's the one place in the city that's always full of single older women? We know one club you should check out.
Located at 1037 Broadway, Bar Standard is a popular hangout place for singles. The affordable price of the drinks is one reason lots of people flock here. Plus there’s no cover charge for the rooftop section where most of the single ladies hang out.
Bar Standard is admittedly a place for the slightly younger crowd. But you’ll always find a handful of cougars here. These cougars are usually the type who want to meet younger guys. And what better place to meet them than at a bar where the younger crowd hangs out. So while every other guy is trying to score with the twenty-somethings, you’re there making eyes at the hottest cougar in the club.
Not a fan of going out every weekend? Meeting mature women online is so much easier now!
We have always been big fans of taking a combined approach to meeting cougars in Denver. You want to spend a little time in the various cougar bars, clubs, and other sports but also a little time online. This approach has delivered the best results for us.
It’s hard NOT to recommend that guys at least check out Adult FriendFinder (you can try them for free with the links above after all). We have seen a lot of guys find success using it and most of those guys have been pretty average in the looks department. With that kind of success and how little time it takes to use there really isn’t a downside.
As we talked about above, Cougar Life is solid if you are more relationship-minded. But if you want sex and nothing more, Adult FriendFinder is the better option in Denver.
This is our top-notch way to meet cougars to take home around the city!
Denver cougars seem to prefer Adult FriendFinder over any other app when they want a quick fling, especially with a younger guy. Of the few apps that actually work only AFF has a seriously large number of cougars using it (good luck finding many women 35+ on Tinder).
AFF has been around a long time, so they’re pretty much the most established site when it comes to meeting cougars for casual meetups. Check out the Adult FriendFinder free trial and see the women available near you.
When it comes to meeting a lot of cougars quickly, especially those interested in dating younger guys, there isn't a better option than Cougar Life (which just so happens to have a free trial). Older women are often just too busy to spend a lot of time in bars and clubs so many of them have been looking online to meet guys. In fact, a lot of them are ONLY looking online these days.
If you're not spending at least a little time on Cougar Life you're going to miss out on a lot of opportunities!
There are a lot of dating sites and apps out there (and we've tried just about all of them in our cougar dating site review) but none of them really deliver as well as Cougar Life does. There are a few reasons why we think it works so well:
There are more popular apps and sites out there but they just don't have the cougars. Cougar Life has over 7 million active members and EVERY SINGLE WOMAN on this site is a cougar. There is no reason for a non-cougar to even consider signing up!
Instead of scrolling through hundreds of profiles hoping to find an attractive single cougar, especially one interested in dating both younger and older guys, they are all right here. It saves so much time and frustration!
If you've spent any time on other apps you know that a lot of the women that use them are really just looking for attention. They don't want to really meet a guy in person but they're happy to collect compliments and stroke their ego.
When you use a more specific option like Cougar Life you avoid a LOT of those time-wasting women. You only use a site like this if you're serious about meeting guys and not just leading people one.
It makes a huge difference in the response rate from your messages and the number of dates you can actually setup.
Cougar Life does a great job of attracting women interested in both short-term fun and a real relationship. The other top sites out there can be great but tend to attract a very specific type of woman.
If you haven't tried it out yet give Cougar Life's free trial a shot. You have nothing to lose and you can't expect to get new results without changing up your approach. Guys who really want to find a cougar aren't going to be able to do better elsewhere (in our experience).
Want the ultimate list of bars where you can easily meet mature women? Here you go!
Downtown is always full of hot older women who might just be single. Here's where you'll find them.
Located in downtown Denver, Union Lodge No. 1 is one of our favorite spots to grab a drink. This bar is known for serving up some pretty great craft cocktails. The spot features a Prohibition-era aesthetic that draws in some of the sexiest Denver single women. Lots of women come here to partake in the drinks and the atmosphere.
The bar happens to be on the smaller side, which can actually work to your advantage. Order a drink by the bar and then make your way over to the single woman who’s caught your eye. The place is cozy enough to create an inviting atmosphere for mingling. We highly recommend this place for a weekday stop.
Looking for a classy place with exquisite food, expensive wine and sophisticated cougars? Corridor 44 is the place for you. There are a lot of options where you can find a cougar to date and this is near the top of the list.
It boasts a great selection of wine, champagne, and cocktails. Based on experience, any place with wine and bubbles is going to attract a cougar demographic. The ambiance of the place is also very romantic. The booths are dimly lit and cozy—perfect to set an intimate mood with your cougar date!
The place is easy to access since it’s in downtown Denver. You can also ride a Lyft or Uber to the bar. That way you don’t have to worry about driving home after a few drinks.
Those who enjoy burgers, beer, and fries with a side of sexy cougar will find luck at Lodo’s. If you’re into dining outdoors, you’ll love the place’s rooftop seats.
Lodo’s is also a cool place for sports lovers. You can watch the latest sports events on the numerous TVs placed around the bar. It’s a great conversation starter with a sporty, like-minded cougar.
Enjoy the sunset view at the rooftop and strike up a conversation with an older woman at Lodo’s. Drink ‘til midnight on a Friday or Saturday and enjoy their huge selection of affordable beers!
Looking to get away from the Downtown area? Our suburban bars are also popular among older women!
When you visit the well-known Irish dive bar, finding a cougar in Denver gets so much easier. This neighborhood tavern has tons of pub staples such as shepherd’s pie, corned beef and fish and chips to share. And they’re all reasonably priced too.
Grab a seat at the bar or the heated patio. Order their beer or liquor of the month. And just wait until after dinner. That’s the time when most cougars go to The Abbey Tavern to knock back a post-workday drink.
Winston's Pub & Grill brings out the sexiest ladies in their late 30s to early 50s for a night out with their friends. Ask anyone who lives near the area, and they’ll agree that Winston’s Pub and Grill is one of the best places to find cougars in Denver.
Drop by every Friday or Saturday to catch a live band performance. Watch the hottest cougars sweat it out on the dance floor to 80’s music. Winston’s house band is pretty awesome too. So you’re sure to have a lot of fun with the sexy Denver cougars.
If you love good food, wonderful ambiance, great music and gorgeous older women, make Winston’s Pub & Grill your first stop.
If you love tacos and margaritas, you need to go to Machete Tequila. And do you know how else loves tequila shots? Cougars in Denver!
Grab a bite to eat before you head out to the patio to mingle with fellow singles. If you’re feeling a little generous, buy a round of Cazadores for the group of single cougars in the other table. That’s one sure way to get their attention. Their happy hour promos vary from location to location. But they all end at 6 p.m. So if you want to get your drinks for cheap, get started early!
La Rumba’s sounds of Salsa, Merengue, Bachata, and Reggaeton attract ladies who want to bust a move. This bar not only plays some of the sexiest Latin beats but they also give free dance lessons. Even if you’re not that confident with your dance moves, you can learn a lot at La Rumba. Lots of older women go here to learn too. And they’re just looking for the right salsa partner who can sweet them off their feet.
Our city has so many nightclubs that it can be overwhelming. Let us help you pick the ones that are popular among mature women.
If you’re looking for a fun place to dance with gorgeous women, then head to Milk. Milk is a 21+ dance club that features two underground nightclubs in one. You’ll discover a Clockwork Orange-inspired Milk Bar and a retro Jazz Room. The bar has an eclectic crowd that is always down to have a good time.
We’ve come across some of the sexiest women in the city while partying here. There’s tons of room to dance here, which isn’t always the case at other clubs. Along with that, you’ll find different themed rooms in the club. Prepare to meet people dressed up according to the theme in areas like the Goth Room. You could meet a pretty cute chick who happens to be into some pretty interesting stuff!
Bar Standard is by far one of our favorite places to go dancing in the city if you enjoy techno or Latin music. You get the option of both here, depending on the night you head out to the spot. The dance club often hosts some pretty awesome DJ acts, so you’ll be sure to have a good time here. The women who party here are gorgeous! You can expect to meet the sexiest Denver cougars at Bar Standard.
We recommend grabbing a drink and making your way onto the dance floor. There will be plenty of dance partners that you can easily approach. Once you’ve made a connection, ask her to head up to the rooftop deck. It’ll be real smooth sailing from that point on. Bar Standard is the one night club that we suggest everyone head out to at least once.
Your dream date could be one of those ladies staying in the cozy couches of the Shag Lounge. Situated in Downtown, the Shag Lounge has a wide selection of cocktails that cougars love. It doesn’t hurt that the food and drinks are pretty affordable, too.
Show off your moves at the dance floor or opt for a more chill vibe at the heated patio. You’ll spot cougars hanging out everywhere. So go ahead and buy her a drink and she might just dance the night away with you.
If dancing is your religion and you want to be blessed by beautiful cougars, then the Church should be in your itinerary. And no, Church isn’t really a church but a nightclub with unique interiors. With tall ceilings and Gothic-Style stained glass windows, you’ll thank the high heavens for this snazzy Denver cougar bar.
Church is open from Friday to Sunday, from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m. Pre-game at Stoney’s across the street and get ready to dance all night with some of the city’s hottest cougars.
Gorgeous older women are like a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. Find your sunshine at these spots.
Green Valley Ranch Beer Garden is a true one-of-a-kind experience. The beer garden is in its very own park with more than 8,000 square feet of outdoor garden area. There are tons of outdoor activities that you can take advantage of to introduce yourself to someone new. This is definitely not the place to be shy!
On top of the enormous space, you’ll also find that the beer is fantastic. This place serves up some of the best handcrafted brews. You can also indulge in some pretty tasty locally-made gourmet brats and sausages. So grab a brew and make your way over to one of the many communal tables. You won’t find it hard to strike up a conversation with a Denver cougar here.
Tired of standing at the sidelines at the club because you feel unsure of your dance moves. Well, EVQ Elite Dance Studio offers dance classes for all levels. If you haven’t considered the option of taking dance lessons to meet women, then you’re really missing out. Lots of beautiful women take classes here. We’ve met some pretty fun and gorgeous women at the beginner’s hip-hop and contemporary dance classes.
Since you’ll be switching partners throughout the lesson, you’ll have the opportunity to meet lots of women. You don’t have to be an expert conversationalist to spark up a conversation here. You could end up walking away with a new skill and a new fling. So check out their class schedules and pick a dance style that interests you the most. You’ll have fun while meeting new and beautiful women.
Our city's nightlife is full of amazing bars and clubs. There’s simply no denying that you can have fun at night here. However, sometimes it’s fun to meet someone during the day and have a conversation. Little Owl Coffee is a true gem in Downtown. This cool spot offers up some delectable craft coffee options along with fantastic espresso.
The coffee shop has both indoor and outdoor seating, making it a great choice all year round. The atmosphere of the cafe is friendly and inviting. You definitely won’t find it hard to strike up a conversation with the cute girl sitting next to you. Take advantage of anything that she has with her, like a book or her laptop, to help start the conversation. We highly recommend checking out Little Owl Coffee.
Believe it or not, many older women in Denver are pretty tired of wasting time on bad dates. In order to avoid all of the dram1a, many of them are turning to speed dating. Lovebug Speed Dating is one of the best services in the city if you’re interested in meeting women in a fast and friendly environment.
You’ll have the opportunity to “date” each woman at the event for 7 minutes at a time. This gives you the perfect amount of time to quickly see if you vibe. There are multiple age groups as well. So no matter what kind of woman you’re looking for, you’ll be sure to find her at this local speed dating service.
Here are a few more worthwhile options for meeting cougars in our city. Check them out for a little change of pace.
Let the smooth jazz tunes from Dazzle’s daily performers set the mood for your cougar hunt. If you’re sick of loud clubs and crowded bars, then chill out at one of the city's most relaxed lounges. Dazzle always has a steady crowd of cougars enjoying the music with a drink in hand.
One of the things we love about Dazzle is that it’s perfect for those who like to end their evenings early. They close after each live performance, and that’s usually at around midnight. This is why lots of cougars love Dazzle. They don’t feel like they’re missing out even when they’re not partying all night.
Before you leave your place to hunt for cougars, check online first. eHarmony is the best site/app for meeting sexy cougars who want a good time and maybe a relationship we have ever seen. We spend a lot of time trying out all the top apps and sites out there to meet cougars and eHarmony is the reigning champ if you actually want results.
On eHarmony, you’ll find a good mix of women in their late 30s to 50s and even older if that's what you're looking for. They’re all looking for a guy that they can have fun with that can lead to something more. So if you want to meet a sultry older woman for a romantic encounter, this is the app for you. Both younger and older guys have a lot of success.
We’ve tried tons of apps and sites designed to help guys encounter cougars online. Not all of them are great. But there’s one thing we do know: you need to find a site that has both a ton of women and women that actually take action. eHarmony does an amazing job of filtering out all the women who just like attention and have no intention of meeting up.
Every guy needs to try eHarmony once if they want a long-term relationships. This is what online dating should be like everywhere!
Keep in mind that the ladies on eHarmony also have different wants. Some women want a relationship while others prefer short-term romance. The great thing is that with so many women on eHarmony, you’re sure to find one who wants exactly the same thing you do.
Give eHarmony's proven trial a shot and find the hot older woman who can make your dreams come true!
This five-star restaurant will set the tone of your search for a lovely lady with its impeccable service and inviting atmosphere. Share tender conversation over the exquisite taste of a well-executed dish such as bone-in filet, French beans, and heirloom tomatoes.
The Capital Grille will have you meeting classy cougars with expensive taste. This restaurant is perfect for mingling with the upper crust, especially if you’re over dive bars. So suit up, spritz on a bit of perfume and get ready to meet sophisticated older women with a taste for the finer things.
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