Sometimes it can feel like finding Boston hookups is impossible. This town is full of fit college coeds having the time of their lives on their parents' dime as well as tons of other single girls in their 20's and 30's. That doesn't make them easy to meet though!
We feel your pain. And we've done something about it. Our city is densely packed and that means your options are plentiful. The trick is knowing where to look. That's what we're here for--to help you get laid in Boston.
Whether you feel more comfortable in a quiet coffee shop or you'd rather hit up Boston hook up bars, we've got the tips to make your life easier. If you're a high-roller in West Roxbury or slumming it in Mission Hill, we can help. Even if you're out in Lowell, there are options for you. We'll even throw in a few tips our Allston friends studying at BU can use.
Keep reading our list of the best ways we've found to find hookups in Boston, and let us know how it goes in the comments. Have fun!
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A night out searching for a hook up can be fun, but far too often, the scene is too dead. That’s why we like to use these spots.
Venu Nightclub is where we love to go for late-night dancing and may just be the best hookup bar in Boston. The nightclub specializes in both hip-hop and Latin house music. It attracts a pretty attractive crowd as well. Single women in town love coming here to bust a move on the dance floor.
Between the music, the atmosphere and the hot singles, it’s easy to have a great time here. So come here on a Saturday night when the club is at its prime. Check out what events are happening each weekend and pick the one that suits you best. You’ll be sure to leave lucky with the number of hot women that come here. So put on your dancing shoes and get ready to sway to some Latin beats.
Adult FriendFinder is what Tinder used to be when it comes to getting laid in Boston. Even though it's been around longer it's still the best option for guys who want to skip the small talk and head to bed.
A lot of people come to us for recommendations on what to try first and we usually tell them Adult FriendFinder. Having a ton of users who are completely focused on sex (over 50 million) leads to getting good results. When even normal guys are getting good success you know you are in the right place.
On our annual list of the best hookup options, AFF consistently gets top marks because it draws in people from every demographic. For people in their 30s who feel intimidated by other Boston hook up options, know that AFF is as welcoming as they come.
The consistent success rate for users of AFF means that it’s likely to stay a top choice for those who want to get laid. If you haven't checked out their free trial below you're missing out. It has worked better than anything else we've tried lately.
These are the best bars in town for picking up girls who just want to have fun:
Backbar is one of the best-kept secrets for finding hookups in Boston . . . well, actually nearby Somerville. This hidden gem is perfect if you’re looking to meet some gorgeous single women. The bar offers up some pretty amazing craft cocktails that keep the ladies coming in.
The aesthetic of the bar is pretty eclectic, which attracts a cool crowd. Everyone is hip and ready to have a good time. Add to that the bar’s intimate feel, which helps with mingling. This is a great bar to kickstart your night.
The Patios is a laidback beer garden that we often frequent. This is a great place to grab a beer and relax. Unlike many of the bars or clubs, the women that come here to grab a drink are far more friendly and down to earth. That means that they’re also way more approachable.
The beer garden is one of nine custom patios in the main pavilion structure. There’s also a pop-up snack shop and mini-golf stations. So grab a beer and introduce yourself to one of the lovely ladies drinking by the sofas. Challenge her to a game of mini-golf and place a bet that you’re willing to wager on. You could wind up winning a bet that leaves you two taking an Uber back to her place.
If live music and dive bars aren’t what you’re looking for on a night out, head over to Noir Bar. This sophisticated cocktail bar draws a high-class crowd of good-looking people. The cocktails are a little pricey, but they’re also delicious and unique. This Cambridge lounge serves a wide-range of beers and does Scotch flights if cocktails aren’t your speed. This is also where you should go to meet visiting New York girls.
Navigating a hookup bar like Noir requires a little more skill than some other spots, but it’s well worth the effort. Sexy singles come out in swarms to Noir, which is why we had to include it in our list of favorite hookup bars in Boston. You’ll know why once you go.
If there’s one thing Bostonians love, it’s a place with history. Cantab Lounge has been around for generations, but that doesn’t mean it’s changed. It remains the quintessential dive bar in Central Square for live music, cheap drinks and a crowd of diverse ages and backgrounds. If you’re looking to mingle and more, this is where you can get laid in Boston.
Besides for bluegrass music on Tuesdays, you can check out open mic nights and even poetry slams. Whatever your taste in evening entertainment, you’ll find a lot to enjoy here and plenty of people who like to have fun. Come for the show and stay for the cozy company at one of our favorite Boston hookup bars.
It’s practically illegal to make a list of hookup bars and not include an Irish Pub. Good thing The Druid is a good enough spot to mention even without that law. This Cambridge bar offers a nice selection of rotating beers on tap, which you can enjoy at weekly Trivia Nights or during the nearly daily offering of live Irish music.
If you want more of a traditional club feel, Thursday nights involve a DJ spinning a wide range of musical offerings. People come here to get loose, have fun and meet somebody new. Show up ready to meet someone interesting and you could be heading home before the last record spins. This is what makes The Druid one of the best bars to get laid.
If you're higher energy and don't mind crowds check out these great spots:
Royale Boston is one of the hottest nightclubs in the city. The club has several levels to it, all playing fun dance music and it's easily responsible for a ton of Boston hookups that are happening. Everyone in the club is always dancing and having a good time. In fact, some of the hottest DJs around often come to Royale to host. You can expect a mixed age group filled with both women who just graduated from college along with some young professionals.
We highly recommend grabbing a drink and then making your way to the dance floor. You don’t have to be a professional dancer to make it work here either. Just sway along to the music and ask someone gorgeous to join you. We guarantee you won’t spend the night alone here, cause we never have. So quit sulking in the corner and get to dancing on the dancefloor!
We have to go with one more Cambridge hotspot for our list, but don’t worry, this place isn’t snooty. The Middlesex Lounge has been listed as the Best Dance Club and Best Bar almost too many times to count. Well, here’s another award: Middlesex Lounge is one of the best hookup bars in Boston. It's super similar to some of the top Buffalo hookup spots.
If you’ve heard of it and thought it’d be too crowded or too expensive to enjoy, don’t fear. This place is pure fun. For this city, the drinks are actually reasonably priced, but the best part is the music and the sexy crowds. People come to the Middlesex Lounge to get down in more ways than one. Wear something nice but light, because you’re going to sweat on the dance floor. Don’t worry, if the night goes right, you won’t be wearing your shirt for long.
If your evening hours are full but you still want some company these are some great options that don't get mentioned a lot:
There’s no better place to meet women than at your local dance studio. Dance classes are a great way to get to know new people in a short span of time. Everyone in the class is learning a new skill while mingling and having small talk.
Urbanity Dance features adult dance classes for all levels. So if you’ve never danced before, or have a set foundation, you’ll find a group to join. Swapping partners during dance classes means that you’ll be meeting a ton of single women seeking men. So don’t overlook Urbanity Dance as a great option.
Render Coffee is a lovely place to grab some coffee and meet some new people. Coffee shops are the perfect environment for meeting someone new. After all, unlike bars and nightclubs, women’s guards aren’t up as much. That means you’ll have much better luck striking up a conversation at Render Coffee.
This small local spot has a great outdoor patio that we love to take advantage of on warmer days. You’ll notice that the women who frequent this place are from all different ages. You’ll meet college girls studying for exams and older women on break from their high-powered jobs. No matter what you’re into, you’ll meet her here. So order a coffee and one of their breakfast dishes and introduce yourself to someone new.
No list would be complete without these last options:
Thanks to the presence of Berklee, this is one of the great music cities in America. There is always a show going on somewhere. Some of the best are at The Bebop off of Boylston. Whether it’s live jazz or a surprise drop in by Bruce Springsteen, people know this is the place to go for amazing music, delicious food, and a lot of people looking for Boston hookups.
For that reason, you’ll want to make a reservation or just pop into the bar and scout the talent. Believe me, there is talent to be seen. The atmosphere is amazing and people come to have a good time, which means if you play your cards right, you’ll be having a good time when you leave too. If your looking to find hook ups fast and easy this is a great place.
It’s pretty much impossible to live in town and not have heard of Tinder. This hookup option gets referenced in songs, TV shows and movies. It can be a lot of fun, and a nice distraction when you’re bored at work, but Tinder can also disappoint if you are only looking for some casual sex in Boston. Far too many people have tried it only to delete it in frustration (and then download it again a month later).
The fact is, Tinder works best for good-looking men whose pictures help them stand out. Guys in the top 10% of looks have all kinds of success on Tinder. People between the ages of 18 and 28 do even better, which is why Tinder is so popular at BU and Harvard.
Women on Tinder have even more fun because they have most of the control. The hottest women on Tinder rarely even use it to get laid in Boston, preferring to collect swipes from thirsty guys like they were collectible figurines. If that supermodel matched with you, don’t be shocked if she never responds to your charming “Hey.”
There are suggestions that Tinder is looking to rebrand more about dating than hooking up. That could make using it more complicated if all you want is a quick tryst. Still, for the hot and young, Tinder will always be one of the best hook up options.
In order to make things a lot easier for you to plan we've put all of our favorite spots in Boston on the map below. As you can see, it isn't too tough to try out multiple places in a night. If you really want to get a lot of success with girls you're going to need to bounce around a bit.
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