Finding cougars in Oklahoma City is even easier than you think. Knowing where to look makes all the difference. That’s a lot of time cozying up to hot cougars instead of looking like a loser at the wrong bars and clubs.
In a city where people are all too willing to smile back even at strangers, you’d surely have a better chance of chatting up attractive cougars. It’s very easy to spot these hot cougars at the Quail Springs Mall or the local Natural Grocers. But you can also explore Bricktown for all its nightlife options or Midtown for the sights and the history.
The Best Places to Find Cougars in Oklahoma City
We're listing more than 30 cool venues for meeting and dating single Oklahoma cougars. However, we still know that not all people will dive through a 5k-word guide just to figure out where to spend the night.
That's why we're starting with a shortlist of four hot venues and dating apps that we know for sure are packed with hot cougars from all over Oklahoma City.
Here they are:
Club One15 keeps all the cougars in Oklahoma City up all night
Whatever your reason for wanting to meet a single woman, the obvious place to head is Club One15. On any given weekend, many of the most beautiful women in Oklahoma City come through these doors. You can dance with them, throw back a few drinks or even sneak off for a private chat.
It takes a little skill to make a good first impression at a club. For one, there is so much noise and so many people, it’s hard to focus. That’s as true for you as it is for everyone else. That means, when you’re at Club One15, it’s smart to pick one woman and give her all your attention. Of course, it is a club, so if things don’t work out at first, there are always more options.
Dating apps are also really good for meeting cougars in Oklahoma City
It's too late for cougars to use dating apps. Everyone has a smartphone now.
More beautiful women go online every day to find dates, especially after the pandemic--it's just easier, and also safer! So if you want to meet an older woman who's right for you, try these sites.
AFF is the top Oklahoma City cougar site if you want to get laid (try it free)
Common sense may say that if you want to get laid, you need to get drunk with some equally drunk singles. In the modern age, that’s not always the case. You might meet some hot and willing cougars at a bar, but it’s usually a hit-or-miss. If you want 100% of actually meeting someone for a sexy, casual encounter, try AFF (which has a great free trial).
Cougars in Oklahoma use AFF to meet guys for a bit of casual romance. They’re not on there to be wined and dined. Instead, they want a guy like you who will rock their world. AFF is a site where everyone wants a good time and a serious relationship is the last thing on their minds.
We've tried a lot of different options and this has been the easiest way that most reliably works to meet cougars to take home fast!
We love AFF because you have a huge chance of meeting a cougar. The majority of AFF users are in the 30+ age range, so you won’t have to worry about meeting any youngsters.
Meet the cougar of your dreams on AFF, and she’ll show you just how friendly Oklahomans can be.
For actual relationships, eHarmony is our favorite way to meet older women (try it now)
We love a good cougar bar as much as the next guy. But there are times when you just want to hang out at home while meeting hot older women. There are also a lot of Oklahoma City cougars who just don't spend any time in bars and clubs any longer. eHarmony (which has a great trial) really helped us out.
While there may be a ton of apps out there, none of them are as good as eHarmony when it comes to helping you meet single cougars. We've spent a lot of time rating and ranking over 100 different cougar dating sites and apps and this is what we really like about it:
They just have the most Oklahoma City cougars using it
While their 7,000,000 plus membership doesn't make it the biggest site around, in our experience they have BY FAR the most real cougars using it. We're talking about attractive, single women over 35 who are interested in dating both younger and older men.
Most women who use eHarmony are ACTUAL COUGARs. You won't find that anywhere else!
If you've tried to use more general dating sites in the past you know how hard it can be to find a real cougar. You have to sift through hundreds of profiles and MAYBE get lucky and find one.
The women are REALLY open to dating younger guys (and older guys)
A lot of women out there feel like there's a social stigma against dating younger guys. It's totally fine if a guy dates a younger woman but when a woman dates a younger guy it's different.
Because of this, a lot of women who are interested in dating younger guys don't advertise it, even on dating websites or when talking to younger guys in public.
With eHarmony, every woman is interested in guys of various ages. You 100% know that every woman you message wants to meet up with guys in your age range. It makes the process so much easier and more enjoyable.
It saves a ton of time and money
Spending any amount of time in a bar is expensive and you never know if any attractive cougars will even show up. If you want to make the most of your time and money a quality dating site or app is the best way to go.
You have to change your approach to change your results!
You shouldn't completely stop going out but being able to meet women 24/7 regardless of where you are is extremely powerful!
Do yourself a favor and give eHarmony's trial a shot here. It's easy to get set up and it is the best option for making a big improvement in your dating life that we've found. Try it
Drop by O Bar if you want to meet classy and attractive cougars in Oklahoma City
Located inside the Ambassador Hotel, O Bar is an upscale and classy place with a fun and relaxed atmosphere that attracts a lot of hot Oklahoma cougars.
The venue is also cool for bringing in a date. The staff is very friendly and the decor is nice and contemporary. Make sure to also check out the rooftop patio. The view is quite impressive at night, and you can easily spot cougars here enjoying their food and drinks al fresco.
Day or night, cougars abound. But the best days to be here are Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday nights. On Wednesdays, they have the Wine Down Wednesday promotion where you can get a glass of wine at just $5.
Top Oklahoma City Cougar Bars and Cougar Clubs
When it comes to meeting cougars, you need to know where you're going. Most bars are filled with women but not all of them are cougar ones, so be careful, especially in Oklahoma, and make the most of your time (and money!) and try our favorite Oklahoma City cougar bars and hotspots first.
We’ve listed some of the best below. If you have any other suggestions for places with lots of cougars, share them with us in the comments.
- Groovy’s - 5705 Mosteller Dr
- Whiskey Chicks - 115 E Reno Ave
- Ned’s Starlite Lounge - 7301 N May Ave
- Republic Gastropub - 5830 N Classen Blvd
- Red Rock Canyon Grill - 9221 Lake Hefner Pkwy
- Friends of Friends - 3705 W Memorial Rd Suite 604
- Red Dog Saloon - 6417 NW 10th St
- Louie's - 9401 Lake Hefner Pkwy
- Henry Hudson's Pub - 3509 NW 58th St
- JJ’s Alley - 212 E Sheridan Ave
- Cock o’ the Walk Bar & Grill - 3705 N Western Ave
These were the best venues to meet hot cougars in Oklahoma City. Make sure to bring your A-game with you. You need to be cool, collected around hot women, especially cougars.
They're experienced and have met a ton of men claiming to be the deal - and lied about it. So they will test you and tease you before accepting your company.
So get ready for stuff like, "Aren't you too young for me," or " really, that's what you make?" The hotter she is the more qualifying she will be. So stay cool, playfully tease them back, and don't explain yourself. That's how you pass their tests.
Meet Cougars in Oklahoma City During the Day
I'm a fan of approaching women during the day.
- It's more natural
- More women shop for groceries than go clubbing
- No competition from other guys
- She's off her guards and doesn't expect to be approached
If you're short on time, hate noisy clubs, and/or want to improve your social skills, then these are the best places to meet single cougars in Oklahoma City during the day:
- Sur La Table - Classen Curve Building P, 5854 N Classen Blvd Suite P-01
- Everything Goes Dance Studio - 1721 NW 16th St
- Penn Square Mall - 1901 Northwest Expy
- OKC Outlets - 7625 W Reno Ave
- Vintage Coffee - 5001 N Western Ave St,
- City Social Club - N Walker Ave
- Bleu Garten - 301 NW 10th St
- Planet Fitness - 4202 Northwest Expy
- OKC Swing Dance Club - 4361 NW 50th St #400
Talking to a stranger can be a bit intimidating with all those bystanders looking at you. The hotter the woman the higher the anxiety.
That's what I used to think.
But the truth is, most hot women are shy and rarely get stopped by guys - who are also afraid - so anything you say will be seen as brave. Also, those scary bystanders don't even care about you and will probably never see you again. So, don't let your mind trick you not to approach the women you like.
The Guide to Cougar Dating in Oklahoma City
Now that you know where to meet them, it’s time to show you how to take a hot Oklahoma cougar out on a date.
This may sound like ABC to you but it’s not. Dating a cougar is slightly different from dating younger women who are probably in it for the experience.
Be it a relationship or just a fling, a cougar knows what she wants, and dating her will depend on whether you understand her blueprint or not.
If you just want to keep it casual take her to a lounge
If both of you want a fling, or if her blueprint says she's open to some bedroom fun on date #1, then begin the night with a cool lounge/bar not far away from home.
Some of these venues are:
- Michael Murphy’s Dueling Piano Bar - 119 E California Ave
- Red Piano Lounge - 1 Park Ave
- Packard's - 201 NW 10th St
- La Brasa - 1310 NW 25th St
- Sidecar Barley & Wine Bar - 13230 Pawnee Dr #200
- Guyutes - 730 NW 23rd St
- The Bunker Club - 433 NW 23rd St
If you're more serious about dating her try a comedy club, piano bar, or fun activity
If for any reason you can't take her to a bar: she's conservative, has trust issues or a distorted body image, or if she just can't find a nanny for the kids, then try sharing a fun activity with your cougar.
This will build chemistry between you, especially if a relationship is what you're after.
Here are a few cool activities to do with cougars in Oklahoma City:
- Museum of Osteology - 10301 S Sunnylane Rd
- Myriad Botanical Gardens - 301 W Reno Ave
- Loony Bin Comedy Club - 8503 N Rockwell Ave
- Blue Note Lounge - 2408 N Robinson Ave
- Ride OKC - 152 S Walker Ave
- Holiday Lanes Bowling Center - 44 SE 44th St
- Brickopolis Entertainment - 101 S Mickey Mantle Dr
If she's very old school you can always do a dinner date
I'm not a fan of talking while chewing so restaurant dates are no-go for me. However, if that's what you/her want then go for it. You'll have a chance to dazzle her with your wallet, and if you're charming enough she will see you as the full deal.
These are some of our favorite upscale restaurants in Oklahoma City:
- The Melting Pot - 4 E Sheridan Ave
- Cheever's Cafe - 2409 N Hudson Ave
- Patrono - 305 N Walker Ave
- Hefner Grill - 9201 Lake Hefner Pkwy
- Mahogany Prime Steakhouse - 145 W Sheridan Ave
A map of all the best cougar dating spots in Oklahoma City
To make things even easier, we made you a map of all our favorite spots for dating and meeting cougars in Oklahoma City. Use it well, and don't forget to email us your results.
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