Sacramento has many social hotspots where young bachelors can mix and mingle with ladies. At the end of the day, you can meet a Sacramento MILF just about anywhere!
Whether you’re dancing at a jazz festival or swiping on a dating app, you can put yourself out there and increase your odds of meeting someone worthwhile in Sactown just by being a little proactive.
The Best Places to Meet Sacramento MILFs
It's fair to say that Sacramento has an "okay" night scene. It's not the best, but not the worst either, at least for the 500k residents living here. So we have a lot of spots to share with you here. But first, we'll kick off this guide with a shortlist of our absolute favorite MILF spots in Sacramento. These are our two most favorite bars along with two dating apps that are popular among the city's older women.
Check these spots first and see how far can you go with them. And if you feel like you want more, feel free to dig through the rest of the guide.
mixdowntown.net
Mix Downtown - Has a Good Mix of Young and Old Sacramento Women
No matter the weather, Mix Downtown caters to all seasons. With their outdoor patio area, they have accommodated the colder temperatures with outdoor heaters and toxic drinks. Get your best gear on and shuffle those feet to the varied tunes that will be played by their extensive arena of DJs.
Mix Downtown is the hip and happening place to be in Sacramento and the MILFs of Sacramento know it too. Check out the long legs, the higher than high heels, and follow their footsteps to Mix Downtown for a party of note.
The Easiest Way to Meet a MILF Has Been Online
3-5 good photos,
An interesting opener,
And a few cool banter lines.
That's all it takes to meet beautiful MILFs in Sacramento - or any major city.
Yes, the world is that small, and women are out there looking for cool men to hang out with. Where?
We tested a few "MILF-friendly" dating apps and found out that these two work the best across America when it comes to meeting older +40 y/o women.
AFF is our favorite way to meet MILFs for something casual or physical (try it free)
The number of times we have started dating a MILF only to find out we had completely different intentions is a little embarrassing. With older women, it can be very difficult to tell if they are just looking for fun or a new husband. When we don't want to deal with all those complexities we use AFF (which has a great free trial).
It’s hard NOT to recommend that guys at least check out AFF (you can try them for free with the links above after all). We have seen a lot of guys find success using it and most of those guys have been pretty average in the looks department. With that kind of success and how little time it takes to use there really isn’t a downside.
AFF is extremely simple and straightforward. All the women using this app are primarily interested in meeting a guy to fool around with. They aren't looking for a free meal or a fiancee and they don't want a boyfriend.
If this is the type of arrangement you are looking for with a MILF you need to try them out. It's really easy to use and you don't really have any downside to trying them out.
The best way to improve your options is to spend a little time in our favorite spots on this list as well as on the apps that actually work. Don't miss out.
eHarmony makes finding a more mature woman for a relationship much easier (click to try it)
One of our favorites ways to meet single older women in Sacramento has been online dating. If you have not tried it you are missing out big time. We have yet to find an easier or faster way to meet a Sacramento MILF than online. We are such big fans that we have actually reviewed and compared just about every single popular online dating site out there.
As you can see, it doesn't get any better than eHarmony these days if you are looking for a MILF. You can try them for free with this special offer and you will see. It is hard to find an easier or faster way to meet a lot of women quickly.
Attractive women in Sacramento don't have a lot of time to spend in bars and clubs (and you might not either). They need to be efficient with their time because they have things to do! You need to do the same if you want to maximize your chances of meeting a hot MILF.
@theparkdowntown
The Park in Downtown Sacramento is Full of Single MILFs to Meet
Yes, this is the spot! Sacramento’s party district just stepped up. The Park Downtown is a hotchpotch of crazy-ass dance clubs, catering to all and sundry, making it one of the top Sacramento hookup bars. So no matter your preference for music, The Park has it. And believe it or not the Sacramento MILFs like all sorts too, so choose a venue and get spotting.
The drinks may be a little on the steep side. But you will know that at the end of the evening you will have found a MILF you’re into.
@mixdowntown
Our Favorite Bars and Clubs to Find Single MILFs in Sacramento
With a place this diverse it can be a challenge to figure out just where to go to meet a MILF in Sacramento. From the best cheeseburgers under the sun to the creamiest ice cream this side of America, Sacramento will have you wondering which activity to choose.
To boot, MILFs can be spotted all over and that means this is your lucky day, right? Head on over to any one of our favorite venues listed here and know that your lonely days are over.
Here they are:
- Der Biergarten - 2332 K St
- Zebra Club - 1900 P St
- Harlow’s - 2708 J St
- Shady Lady Saloon - 1409 R St
- Back Door Lounge - 1112 Firehouse Alley
- Idle Hour - 6816 Fruitridge Rd
- Hilltop Tavern Bar - 4757 Folsom Blvd
- Stingers - 7890 La Riviera Dr
- Pied Piper - 3415 El Camino Ave
- Midtown Barfly - 1119 21st St
Apps Dating Coaches Actually Recommend To Meet MILFs
If you're looking to meet a single MILF you need to try out a couple of these apps. In a post-covid world the majority of women are meeting guys online. If you're not where they can find you you're going to miss out big. Try these first if you want real results:
| Site | Our Experience | Our Rating | Free Trial Link |
|---|---|---|---|
Best Hookup Site For MILFs  | Experience Highlights
| 9 | Try AFF For Free |
Best For Relationships  | Experience Highlights
| 9 | Try eHarmony |
2nd Best For Hookups  | Experience Highlights
| 8 | Try Passion |
@limelightsac
Great Ways to Meet MILFs in Sacramento During the Day
Q: Where's the best place to meet MILFs?
A: Where they hang out the most (i.e., malls, cafes, gyms, and grocery stores)
You can't imagine how much time - and clubbing money - you can save if you decide to approach the beautiful women you see in public places instead of going to clubs and bars. MILFs can be fun and party-loving, but age and kids make it kinda hard for them to be always on the dancefloor. So make it easy for them to meet the cute, charming you and meet them where you find them.
Where in Sacramento?
Here...
- Limelight Bar and Café - 1014 Alhambra Blvd
- Tupelo Coffee and Roasting - 5700 Elvas Ave
- My Cheeky Date
- Fitness System Land Park - 1250 Sutterville Rd
- Starbucks - 1401 Alhambra Blvd
- Yemaya Salsa Dance Company - 1791 Tribute Rd # B
- Selland's Market - 5340 H St
- Arden Fair - 1689 Arden Way
- DOCO - 405 K St
- Sac Dance Lab - 1807 Tribute Rd
@theparksac
Our Guide to Dating MILFs in Sacramento
Let's say you did everything right to this point. You approached your favorite Sacramento MILF, wowed her with your looks and witty tongue, and got her to say "yes" to a date.
Now what?
Date time baby.
It's time to repeat everything you just did again - evoking emotions, spiking curiosity, teasing...etc - in a cool bar or lounge. Why bars? Because they're intimate and everywhere. It's easier to escalate in a bar than a coffee shop or a museum (duh!), and that why our first dating recommendation is a shortlist of cool Sac bars and lounges.
First Date Recommendations
Like I said, the best bar is the one close to your place. So if you have one already then discard this list.
- The Torch Club - 904 15th St
- Seasons 52 - 1689 Arden Way Suite 1065
- Firehouse - 1112 2nd St
- The Waterboy - 2000 Capitol Ave
- Pre Flite Lounge - 1011 10th St
- Revival - 500 J St
- Amourath Patio - 1209 L St
Second Date Recommendations
If she can't spend the night with you for any reason - young Tommy got diarrhea for example - and you don't want to reschedule then you have two options:
- Hop to a nearby cafe or
- Try one of these cool Sacramento activities:
I don't like any activity that distracts the woman from me - i.e, movies and concerts - however, some people tend to like them for some reason so I'll deal you the cards and you pick the ones you like.
Here:
- Capitol Bowl - 900 W Capitol Ave
- McKinley Park - 601 Alhambra Blvd
- Cali Glo - 3443 Laguna Blvd St 130, Elk Grove
- Crocker Art Museum - 216 O St
- Punch Line Sacramento - 2100 Arden Way #225
- Sacramento Zoo - 3930 W Land Park Dr
Map and Dating Guide For Meeting MILFs in Sacramento
When you're looking to really find success you can't just stick to one spot in a night. You need to bounce around a bit and try out multiple places to find one that's really popular that night. Use this map to plan things out so you don't spend all night driving around:
