San Diego is saturated with singles searching for their soulmate or someone to satisfy an itch at least. There are different ways to find a date, like at church, at bars or through friends. But can the best San Diego dating apps finally lead you to "The One?"
But did you know at least 20 percent of all relationships begin online? Online dating carries less of a stigma than it did 10 years ago. And there are plenty of dating apps to choose from, but which app is the best dating app for San Diego?
Your time is valuable and definately limited, you don’t want to waste money on useless apps. We’ll help you separate the sucky from the spectacular. From north to south, whether you’re in Del Mar or San Ysidro, there are singles like you who are seeking someone special. Who knows? Maybe your other half is basking in the Brawley sunshine.
The following is a list of dating apps that we’ve tried and found to be most successful. Give our list a gander and then give one of these apps a shot. Once you’re done, send us some love with a comment about your experience. We hope it will be incredible. There are 1,453,775 people in San Diego and more than 35 percent are single--that’s more than 500,000 single people. Them’s some good odds.
XO is the dating app that tries to make dating fun. Crazy idea right? This app is built around the idea that getting to know people while playing games can loosen people up and lead to more fun interactions. We think they're onto something.
There are a lot of different games you can play on this app and most of them are pretty fun. It's actually a pretty fun experience, compared to most, and it's an easy way to always have something to talk about.
The games themselves aren't hard and it's a great way to get a little friendly competition going. Even if you're not a big game or super competitive this is a pretty fun way to break the ice and start talking.
eHarmony has continued to impress us as the top option for most singles who really want a relationship. They aren't the newest dating site on this list but they certainly know what they're doing and it's made them on of the best dating apps in San Diego.
You need to keep the number 75% in mind when thinking about eHarmony. That's the percentage of marriages that start online that begin on this site. Seriously. 75% of all online dating marriages start here. Out of EVERY site and app. That is a crazy success rate.
A big reason why they have been so successful is they actually help you figure out what you want and have enough users to find people who match those qualities. When you have ten's of millions of users and a great matching system you're going to have a lot of success.
Check out their trial offer at the links above and below and check them out.
Hily is the dating app that takes things from tex to video. While most dating apps are just pictures and text Hily incorporates a ton of videos into your profile. We were a bit skeptical about it at first but it's actually kind of cool.
If you've ever looked at someone's profile and had serious doubts that its legit Hily is a godsend. It's so much more difficult to hide what you really look like in a video compared to an image that anyone can edit on their phone. Catfishers are going to hate this app!
We found that there were far fewer first date "surprises" using this app than other options. Since you already know what someone looks like, sounds like, and moves like you really know what you're getting yourself into, unless it's a super old video.
If you've been tricked before give this app a shot.
Adult FriendFinder has been around for a while but in that time it's consistently been the best hookup app in San Diego (especially for guys). There are plenty of dating sites out there that claim to be good at this. In our experience, AFF and Tinder have been the only ones that can actually back it up.
Tinder is great, and we'll talk about it more later on, but it's mostly the top 10-15% of the most handsome guys competing for the attention of 70% of the women. It's great for them but awful for the rest of us.
AFF is different in a way that makes it the best hookup site in San Diego. Instead of being totally focused on a single profile photo it allows guys to demonstrate their value and get attention from women even if they're not the most photogenic. Everyone on this site is looking to skip the small talk anyway so it's a very unique experience. If you're just looking for something physical it's hard to beat and you can try it for free at the link below.
Hinge started off as an app that connects you with friends-of-friends on Facebook. It's not solely based on that these days but it still plays an important part. In fact, we kind of like to describe it as a more mature Tinder. A lot of the experience is the same but more geared toward relationships than something for one night.
We actually liked Hinge quite a bit when we used it and had some good success. It's pretty popular and does a decent job of matching you up with other users. There just isn't a ton that sets it apart from the best dating apps in San Diego since they aren't the best at anything in particular.
MeetMe is another app that is pushing for connecting via video instead of the more traditional methods. In times like these that can be a great thing for the 50+ crowd. They help create some real chemistry before you even risk something in-person.
MeetMe is also a lot more popular than you would expect. They claim to have 20 million active members, which is a lot, and have many of the usual features you expect from a top dating site.
They are also one of the few free dating apps on our list but you will have to deal with a bunch of ads. Overall, a good option for the older crowd which they tend to attract.
Tinder is the app that everyone knows about and is one of the most tried San Diego dating apps. Sadly, most of us have also not had a good experience using it (why else would you be here?). While it might be the best San Diego dating app for a small percentage of people it tends to fall flat for most.
When you're dealing with a free app that is this popular, especially with those in their early 20's, there is going to be a TON of competition. As we mentioned before, the most attractive guys end up getting the vast majority of the attention leaving most guys empty-handed.
It's a great dating app to practice on and learn what works but don't expect to get great results unless you have great photos and a really good text game.
Luxy is the dating site that is 100% focused on becoming the best San Diego dating app for the "1%". They want they're trying to create a community of super successful people who only want to date people in their same tax bracket. If you're thinking "that's exactly what I want too" this is the app for you.
Naturally, this is going to be a fairly small userbase, even in an expensive place like SD. However, they have a surprisingly decent number of people using the app. They're fairly new but seem to be growing pretty fast.
The app itself isn't anything special. It's decent but this app is mostly about who uses it.
Jdate is an app that I'd be surprised that any of San Diego's Jewish singles haven't heard about (3% of the population here). It's become such a part of the Jewish singles scene that pretty much everyone knows about it.
If you're Jewish, and looking to meet other singles Jews, you need to give it a shot. The app itself isn't amazing but it's going to be difficult to find more people who match the criteria you have.
Do yourself a favor and give in to any resistance you might have of trying it. It might be cliche but it's also one of the best dating sites in San Diego for this particular purpose.
If you are looking for more great guides to finding the right dating apps check these out: