If you’re looking for cougars in Detroit, you’re in luck. There are tons of singles here, and 7 in 10 people you’ll meet are unattached and looking! Fun fact: online dating is popular in Detroit. So many one-nighters, dates, and relationships also start in bars. Women aren’t intimidated to approach you first, so Detroit cougars will definitely warm up to you if they’re interested.
With single cougars everywhere, you might already be making plans to do pub crawls at Corktown. Heck, you could even stay around at cougar favorites like the Organic Food and Vitamin Center or Whole Foods. Where to head first, though? Don’t worry, we’ll help you up your game. You’ll find the best Detroit cougar bars, nightclubs and hangouts listed below.
The Best Places to Find Cougars in Detroit
Hunting for cougars is fun but we know that not everyone is willing to read through a full 4k-word guide just to find a place to meet them - some will do, most won't. Some also might be in town for just a few days and want some quick suggestions. We feel you too.
So we made you this shortlist of four venues and dating apps where you can meet hot Detroit cougars easily.
Here they are:
Dance with Detroit Cougars at Boogie Fever Nightclub
This hip 70’s disco is one that the Detroit cougars adore, especially on Saturday nights!
But don’t pull out your flares and costume wigs just yet. You should know that the Boogie Fever Café & Disco is a pretty classy place. Just dressing up fancily without doing anything else won’t impress anyone.
Instead, you can catch a cougar’s eye by looking your best and doing some sleek dance moves. Of course, you’ll also need some great conversational skills as you chat with a cougar over some drinks.
Here are the additional recommended cougars bars in Detroit for finding a classy older woman. We usually hit up these spots to experience an unforgettable nightlife experience with the beautiful cougars in Detroit.
AFF makes meeting Detroit cougars for casual or physical relationships easiest (try it free)
With the winters being what they are in Detroit, the cougars have to plan ahead. For many months of the year wearing something sexy to a bar or club is a recipe for frostbite. Instead, these cougars go online to meet a guy for a quick fling (when they're in the mood).
We don’t recommend many sites or apps for guys who are just looking for sex but when we do it’s usually AFF. We have just seen so many more guys find what they are looking for compared to the other options out there that it’s hard to recommend another app. Sure, it isn’t perfect, but it’s the best option for most guys out there right now.
This is our unbeatable way to meet cougars to take home around the city!
From our experience, the site they use the most by far is AFF. As a result, that has also been the easiest place to meet cougars in Detroit who just want to get down to business. In fact, out of all the other apps and sites we’ve tried, AFF has one of the biggest over-35 users and a lot of them happen to be women.
If you really want to meet a Detroit cougar who isn't looking for a commitment AFF's free trial is the best place to start. Give the site a shot.
eHarmony is the easiest way to meet cougars in Detroit who want relationships (try it now)
When it comes to meeting a lot of cougars in Detroit quickly, especially those interested in dating younger guys, there isn't a better option than eHarmony (which just so happens to have a great trial). Older women are often just too busy to spend a lot of time in bars and clubs so many of them have been looking online to meet guys. In fact, a lot of them are ONLY looking online these days.
If you're not spending at least a little time on eHarmony you're going to miss out on a lot of opportunities!
There are a lot of dating sites and apps out there (and we've tried just about all of them in our cougar dating site review) but none of them really deliver as well as eHarmony does. Here are a few reasons why we think it works so well:
There are a lot of cougars in Detroit using it
You'll find more popular apps and sites out there but they just don't have the cougars. eHarmony has over 33 million active members and A LOT OF WOMEN on this site are cougars. There is no reason for a non-cougar to even consider signing up!
Instead of scrolling through hundreds of profiles hoping to find an attractive single cougar, especially one interested in dating both younger and older guys, they are all right here. It saves so much time and frustration!
A really good mix of Detroit cougars who want short and long-term
eHarmony does a great job of attracting women interested in both short-term fun and a real relationship. The other top sites out there can be great but tend to attract a very specific type of woman.
If you haven't tried it out yet give eHarmony's trial a shot. You have nothing to lose and you can't expect to get new results without changing up your approach. Guys who really want to find a cougar aren't going to be able to do better elsewhere (in our experience).
Goodnite Gracie is a reliable Detroit cougar bar
A well-mixed martini is the cougar’s drink of choice, and cougars in Detroit are no exception. That’s why Goodnight Gracie’s is a well-known cougar hotspot. It has the reputation of serving the finest martinis in town. Practically all of their drinks are delicious, whether you’re downing a cold-brewed or an old-fashioned martini.
Make sure you dress sharp, though. You’ll then get top marks from the cougars taking their time by the bar. They’re on the lookout for a confident younger man and that might be you.
The Apps Dating Coaches Recommend Most To Meet Cougars
More and more older women are only using apps and sites to meet guys, especially younger guys. You need to be on at least one or two apps now if you want to get the best results you can. These are the apps that give normal guys the best success meeting cougars:
|Site||Our Experience||Our Rating||Free Trial Link|
Best Hookup Site Cougars
|Try AFF For Free|
Best For Relationships
2nd Best For Hookups
Top Detroit Cougar Bars and Cougar Clubs
You can have fun in Detroit with little or no effort. Michigan's largest city has a nightlife of its own, with a few cougars bars that are worth checking out. There's a list below of cool venues that vary in the level of fun they deliver, but they're all loaded with hot Detroit cougars.
We also recommend that you roam around different neighborhoods instead of just sticking to the city center.
Some cougars will prefer a cozy local bar over a hot 9/10 club in the center for many reasons, including age, time, and responsibilities. Not many +40 y/o women will drive all the way across town just to party. She may do it once, but not every week.
So if you find a neighborhood with hot cougars in it, then check the area's best bars. That's where you'll meet more of them.
These are the best cougar clubs and bars in Detroit right now:
- The Habitat - 3050 Jackson Rd, Ann Arbor
- The Sugar House - 2130 Michigan Ave
- Club 14-40 - 1440 Franklin St
- Baker's Keyboard Lounge - 20510 Livernois
- Delux Bar & Lounge - 350 Monroe St
- The Elephant Room - 439 E Congress St
- Queens Bar - 35 E Grand River Ave
- The Well - 1228 Randolph Street
- The Monarch Club - 33 John R St Penthouse
- T V Lounge - 2548 Grand River Ave
There are a lot of cool bars and clubs in the above list, hit whatever you like of them and make sure you bring your best game to the venue. Dress your best, look good and stay charming. Cougars are experienced women who will challenge you before deciding to hang around.
You'll often get teases like, "aren't you too young for me," or "I spend what you make on my coffee." Just hold your ground and don't get phased.
Be chill, assertive, and as calm as possible and you'll get the job done.
Meet Cougars in Detroit During the Day
Meeting women on the street can be a little tricky. Most men feel anxious around hot women and don't know what to say around them. (You shouldn't be one of those)
But there are many advantages to talking to cougars during the day:
The competition is low: She's not surrounded by 5 puffed-up guys buying her drinks. It's just you and her
Your looks won't matter much: A few extra pounds won't matter much if you're calm, confident, and fun
There are a few places worth noting that are especially good in our experience:
- Powerhouse Gym - 18230 Grand River Ave
- Argentine Tango Detroit - 7758 Auburn Rd, Utica
- Detroit Yoga Lab - 69 W Forest Ave
- Dessert Oasis Coffee Roasters - 1220 Griswold St
- Fairlane Town Center - 18900 Michigan Ave, Dearborn
- Anytime Fitness - 735 Griswold St
- Starbucks - 3670 Woodward Ave
Have a quick warmup before you approach the cougars you like. Try to have a few friendly conversations with friendly people - ex, baristas, cashiers, dog owners...etc. The more the better.
Forget about what you have to say and pay attention to your state. Once you become calm enough you can approach a few hot women.
The Guide to Cougar Dating in Detroit
Now that we told you where to meet them, it's time to show you how to date single Detroit cougars, because it can get a little tricky.
Because not all cougars want the same thing. Some will be happy spending the night with you - maybe a few hookups if you were good - while some will be in it for the ring or a man to help out with the kids... People are different.
That's why taking her out will defer depending on your goals...
If you just want to keep it casual take her to a lounge
If your idea of a perfect date night ends in your bedroom then it should start with one, or a few, nearby bars or lounges where you can build intimacy and attraction with your lady before inviting her in.
Here are a few bars and lounges to date single Detroit cougars:
- Exodos Rooftop - 529 Monroe St
- DELMAR - 501 Monroe St
- Bad Luck Bar - 1218 Griswold St
- Vertical Detroit - 1538 Centre St
- Downtown Louie's Lounge - 30 Clifford St
- Chartreuse - 15 E Kirby St D
- Tin Roof - 47 E Adams Ave St
If you’re more serious about dating her try a comedy club, piano bar, or fun activity
Like I said, not all women will be willing to go home with you on the first date. Some will want to know you first before doing anything in bed.
Here are a few cool activities to share with a Detroit cougar other than bars:
- Go Comedy - 261 E 9 Mile Rd, Ferndale
- Mark Ridley's Comedy Castle - 310 S Troy St, Royal Oak
- Garden Bowl - 4140 Woodward Ave
- Campus Martius Park - 800 Woodward Ave
- Detroit Riverfront - 600 Renaissance Center #1720
If she’s very old school you can always do a dinner date
Some people still prefer dinner dates - especially cougars - mostly for the social status. Personally, I don't recommend doing them unless you're comfortable talking while chewing.
Still, everyone has his own taste. And if fine dining is your favorite dish, then these are the best spots in Detroit for eating out with cougars:
- Roast - 1128 Washington Blvd
- Wright & Company - 1500 Woodward Ave floor 2
- The Rattlesnake Club - 300 River Pl Dr
- Prism - 555 E Lafayette St
- Grey Ghost- 47 Watson St
A map of all the best cougar dating spots in Detroit
To make things easier we've put together a handy map of all the spots on our list. Find the nearest spot to meet cougars in Detroit and don't forget to email us your results.
Here you go:
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