Every single man who doesn’t know how to act around women will benefit massively from learning how to have charisma.
Charisma is the ability to inspire devotion in others and influence the people around you. It’s the hallmark of the most successful movie stars and public speakers. And it’s also something women respond to very powerfully.
That’s because having lots of charisma grants you the ability to charm the women around you, so they’ll like you want to be with you. This is exactly why learning how to develop charisma will help you a lot in dating and seduction.
However, becoming more charismatic with women requires quite a bit of practice. And the best thing to start with is approaching women, talking to them and attracting them. That’s why we’ve created an in-depth video course that explains how to do all these things and more!
The most basic definition of charm is the power or quality of giving delight or arousing admiration in other people.
And if women are attracted and admire you, they’ll surely like you and want to spend time with you. This will provide you with ample opportunities to get to know them and seduce them.
However, there are too many men who make the mistake of believing that charming women means impressing them. That couldn’t be further from the truth.
So what does it mean to be charming around women exactly?
It means you possess such a compelling personality that girls are drawn to you like pins to a magnet.
When women spend time in a charmer’s company, they can’t help but be attracted to him, because it feels like he’s the most interesting and exciting person in the room.
But the truth is, he simply possesses attractive qualities that make women go crazy over him. I’ll list these qualities below and help you learn how to possess them.
Let’s start with the external things that make up charisma and finish up with the internal ones so you better understand how to be a charming man:
A huge part of a person’s outer charisma is body language and voice tonality. And this exudes masculinity.
The power of these things to influence, attract and seduce other people should never be underestimated. Even Jordan Belfort, the real Wolf of Wall Street, has said that your body language and tone of voice are two of the most powerful tools to build rapport and influence someone into doing what you want.
Start developing powerful, assertive and confident body language. Do this by standing straight and directly facing the person you’re talking to. Maintain strong eye contact and don’t cross your arms. Then develop an expressive tone of voice and speak like you mean every word you say.
Also, make sure to speak from your diaphragm and not your throat. Speaking from your diaphragm gives your voice more “Oomph!” It makes you sound more manly.
So remember the key of how to be charming: Be expressive with both your body language and with the way you speak. This will make sure people actually remember you. You’ll stand out in a good way, especially to women who’ve met hundreds of boring guys who don’t express themselves well.
Now let’s talk about the inner qualities a charismatic man possesses.
Two of the main characteristics are being genuine and being authentic around other people.
This means speaking your mind and expressing yourself freely without trying to impress others or caring too much about what they think of you.
It also means never lying to others and, most importantly, never lying to yourself. This includes never feigning interest in the things that are completely uninteresting, just to make people like you. You must also never compromise the values and ideals for every woman who comes along and spreads her legs for you.
Apart from the above, charismatic people are also very assertive and decisive.
You should spot great opportunities for fun and for making new friends. Leap at the chance and go for what you want. Also, don’t let others walk all over you; stand up for yourself when necessary. And don’t shy away from conflict, but don’t actively seek it out either.
All of these qualities and many more can make you incredibly charismatic. And as a result, you become irresistible to the vast majority of women. Women want exceptional men in their lives, and they don’t want to settle for dull, timid and uninteresting guys who have no charm.
That’s why if you want to learn how to develop charisma, you should set yourself on the path of developing the above attractive qualities.
Some of these qualities will come with experience and maturity, and others with practice. But they’re not unattainable, and any man can become charismatic with enough time and effort.
A person’s attitude towards life and other people can determine how charismatic he is. That’s because attitudes are infectious and make other people feel what you’re feeling.
So if your attitude’s rotten, you’ll give off a foul vibe. The people who hang out with you usually won’t like you because they’ll feel rotten as well.
But when your attitude’s great and you exude genuine positivity, you’ll give off a very positive, energetic and optimistic vibe.
As a result of that, people around you will feel uplifted and amazing because their feelings will start reflecting your feelings.
So let me ask you this -- how does the vibe in a room change when you walk in? Does it get darker or does the mood feel brighter?
Make sure you brighten up the room with your attitude when you walk in, so that people will find you much more charming and attractive. This is a large part of how to have charisma.
Another thing that makes charming men different from those who lack charm is the attention they give others.
Pretty much everyone likes to feel important from time to time. And when charming people talk to others, they can make it seem like that person is the most important and interesting individual in the world.
They lay on the charm and give that person all the attention and validation they desire without making it seem disingenuous or fake. They are masters of flattery without seeming insincere.
What this translates to when you’re around women is even more attraction and desire. You want to give them genuine, specific and well-meaning compliments.
Such masterful flattery is especially effective on older women who know they’re already past their prime when it comes to looks. When you want to charm them, you must say something sincere, and not another compliment that they’ve heard before. There's a world of hot older women out there looking to be charmed, and you can find them on our favorite apps and sites to meet a cougar.
When you’re talking to women, don’t look around, and don’t check your phone. Instead, focus on them. Give them your undivided attention, hold steady and strong eye contact, nod at the points they’re making and don’t interrupt them.
This may sound like a weird point to touch on. But it’s incredibly important if you want to truly grasp how to have charisma around women.
There are far too many men in the world who don’t respect women enough. These are men who hold a grudge against women and don’t consider them as equals. This often translates to some men objectifying, dehumanizing and even hating women for various reasons. The only reason they want to be around women is to either sleep with them or gain validation from them. And these are the reasons why they can't get a girlfriend.
But if you truly want to be able to charm the pants off women you meet, then being a lover of women is a must.
You have to appreciate the true elegance, beauty and grace of a woman. You must understand what compels women to act with love, caring and even lust towards others. Appreciate what they bring to the world and that they make it a better place. And then love them for everything that makes them unique and special.
Appreciation of the female sex is not something that’s easy to describe with words. And it’s up to every man to find their own reasons for loving the women in their lives and all women in general.
A very common attribute of charming people is their ability to be very good listeners.
You see, just as people like to feel important, they also like to be heard and understood. And actively listening to someone and showing them you understand them as a person can do a whole lot to change their attitude towards you.
When someone listens to you actively and shows genuine interest, it builds rapport and a genuine connection. It then leads to respect, admiration and attraction.
Listening attentively will have a great effect on how charming they perceive you to be, especially if you can make the conversation more fun and interesting. Insert some wit, humor and lighthearted teasing into it to spice things up without interrupting.
Also, make sure to remember her name and use it often in conversation. Remember the various interesting points she made when talking, so that you can bring it up when you see her again. She’ll appreciate that you remembered details about your conversation.
This is all a part of being a great listener and conversationalist, which, along with the other things above, translates to being charming.
It’s not that hard to learn how to be a charming man who can attract women.
If you focus on developing and incorporating the above qualities and traits of a charming man, you’ll be able to attract women more easily. Remember that virtually every man can become more charming by working on himself and his personality. All it takes is some know-how and a lot of practice!