Want to learn how to pick up Mesa girls like a pro? Well, you’ll have to learn which places in the city — and, most importantly, in the nightlife district in downtown — are the best to meet and attract girls your age. We're here to make that so much easier for you!
Whether you live in Sunland Village East, Dobson Ranch or Apache Wells, we have the right solution for you! If you’re a student, you’ll be happy to learn that we’ve also tried and tested a couple of places near Mesa Community College and other colleges in the city.
After all, did you know that 52% of the girls in the city are single? This means that you have many opportunities to meet single ladies!
Here’s a list of the spots where we had the most luck at picking up girls in Mesa. Try a couple of them, and you’ll definitely get a date — or many one-night flings if that’s your thing — in no time.
You already know that nightclubs offer a great setting for approaching girls. After all, alcohol lowers everyone’s inhibitions, right? Here are the ones in Mesa where we had the most success meeting single girls.
Located in Sun Valley Plaza, Denim and Diamonds is hands-down one of the best places to pick up girls in Mesa. It’s always packed on weekends, and the dance floor is huge.
The crowd is pretty diverse, with girls of different ages. There are evenings where they play country music, and there are also dance lessons sometimes. Don’t scoff: Dance lessons are a very effective way to socialize with girls in an environment where they have their guard much lower than in the typical club scene.
At Denim and Diamonds, every Wednesday is Ladies’ Night, so girls enter for free. Don’t miss this opportunity, because we’ve met plenty of girls during this event!
Located in the Emerson Manor neighborhood, this trendy nightclub is always crowded. The crowd is pretty diverse but, trust us, there are many beautiful girls!
Since the club is near Arizona College, people here tend to be mostly college-age folks. So it’s a great choice for you if you want to attract a younger lady or if you’re a student yourself. There are always amazing DJs who know how to make the crowd dance the night away. Plus, the drinks are good and the prices very fair.
Here are other options to meet single girls in Mesa and nearby suburbs. Try them out if the spots above don’t appeal to you:
Finding girls interested in casual relationships — like friends with benefits or one-night encounters — isn’t always easy. Luckily, there’s Adult FriendFinder, a very popular mobile-friendly website focused on no-strings-attached flings.
The site has a gigantic user pool of over 60 million people, many of whom are from Mesa. You’ll never run out of attractive girls to meet! For this reason, Adult FriendFinder tends to work better than other apps, such as Tinder, where you have to filter out the many girls who want a committed relationship and end up having far fewer options. This firmly places AFF on our list of the best sites for finding flings.
We also recommend Adult FriendFinder if you don’t fall into the category of the 15% top-looking guys out there since it’s less focused on your looks than swipe-based apps. On there, girls only want you to be sexually adventurous!
Adult FriendFinder has many fun features to help you connect with other users, like the webcam live chat, where you can have a steamy virtual encounter. It’s a great tool to find out if you truly have sexual chemistry with her before meeting in person.
Trendy bars are among the best places to pick up girls in Mesa. They’re a lot more chill than your typical nightclub. So you can have actual conversations with someone you just met. Here are our favorites:
The Hub Grill and Bar actually has two locations in Mesa: one on the Sossaman Road, and one on the Stapley Drive. Both are very popular with local girls, and you’ll find them pretty crowded during the weekends.
Both locations have over 50 TV screens if you want to watch football matches. If you’re interested in sports, you’ll likely meet many girls who share the same passion. Plus, the bar has a huge beer selection and serves classic comfort food, like mac n' cheese, pizza, tacos and sandwiches.
We particularly enjoy their happy hour specials, which brings the crowd to life!
No, this isn’t an actual research institute, but rather an independent brewery. Beer Research Institute is a casual, relaxed pub in the Mesa Grand Shopping Center. The food is delicious, always made with fresh ingredients, and there’s a great selection of tap beers. Some beers have flirty names, like “Sex in the Morning”, which will help you start a sexy conversation with the girl you like.
The crowd is pretty diverse, too. You can meet a variety of different girls every evening. The laid-back atmosphere also makes it easy to approach girls without coming off too strong.
Here are other great bars and taprooms to go out and meet Mesa girls:
You probably wouldn’t have guessed that a gym could be one of the best places to meet and pick up sexy Mesa girls. However, you should definitely join Planet Fitness if you’re single and looking for a partner!
Located inside the shopping mall Lindsay Marketplace, Planet Fitness is hands-down the most popular gym in Mesa thanks to its low prices, non-judgemental environment and friendly staff.
This gym also offers the opportunity to attend fitness classes for small groups, which is a great opportunity to socialize with Mesa girls.
Located in the Mesa Community College’s library, this intimate coffee shop is great not only to study or relax with friends, but also to meet college-age Mesa girls. The coffee is great, the bartenders are very friendly, and the atmosphere is very relaxed.
If you want to approach a girl in here, make sure that you don’t interrupt her while she’s studying or doing her homework. Wait for a moment when she’s clearly taking a break. Time your approach for when she leaves her workstation to order more coffee or a sweet treat. Also, remember that when a girl is wearing her headphones, she’s very likely not in the mood to chat.
For guys who want a serious, committed relationship, eHarmony is one of the best places to pick up girls in Mesa. Its matchmaking algorithm has been collecting data for over 20 years, and today it’s one of the best and most sophisticated available online.
On eHarmony, you don’t have to swipe, like on Tinder. After a signup process, during which you provide detailed information about who you are and what you’re looking for in a potential partner, the website provides you with several potential matches every day. This helps you save time. You don’t have to scroll through hundreds of profiles or send out dozens of messages that don’t result in a potential match.
The site also has a peculiar communication process, designed to help you create attraction with a girl you like and figure out whether she could be compatible with you or not. It also helps guys who tend to be nervous when talking to a girl for the first time. We’d say this is one of our favorite features.
eHarmony’s stats speak for themselves: 75% of all marriages that began online began on the renowned dating website. In addition, 69% of men and 71% of girls meet their spouses on the platform within a year. So if you want more than just a casual fling, eHarmony is your best bet!
If you feel like you need more options to meet single girls in Mesa, we’ve got you covered! Here are a few other venues that we consider to be some of the best places to pick up girls in Mesa.
This trendy coffee shop is on West Main Street in the heart of downtown, inside the Nile Theater. It offers a delicious vegan menu that attracts many health-conscious girls. You’ll find delicious breakfast bagels, salads and healthy sandwiches. The venue is alway packed, both at brunch time and during lunch break.
The atmosphere is unpretentious, which makes it easy to casually start a conversation with a sexy Mesa girl. This coffee shop may be the best solution for guys who aren’t comfortable approaching girls in bars or nightclubs. During the day, girls don’t expect a slew of guys approaching them. So you’ll have more chances to look original, and less to look like a creep.
Tinder is certainly one of the most famous dating apps out there, with a huge user pool and many features to make looking for a partner easier and more fun. However, it comes with a couple of drawbacks.
First of all, the “swipe” method is certainly intuitive and easy to use (and maybe fun for some guys). Unfortunately, it also means that girls almost exclusively focus on your profile photo when choosing to swipe left or right on you. Bottom line: Tinder can work for everyone, but good-looking guys definitely have an advantage.
Girls, especially the attractive ones, see thousands of profiles of average-looking guys every day, and get flooded with messages from them. You face a lot of competition, and standing out from the crowd isn’t easy at all. So work on taking that perfect photo that will make you stand out.
We’ve seen Tinder work for average joes out there, so don’t be discouraged. However, we still believe that finding matches is much easier on Adult FriendFinder or eHarmony, depending on what you’re looking for.
This historical outdoor concert venue, which officially opened its doors in 1979, hosts a lot of fun festivals and music events throughout the year. It has a capacity of 4,950 people, so there are definitely hundreds of girls to meet during an event (many of which serve alcohol).
When going to a concert at the Amphiteatre, don’t miss the opportunity to approach girls. Dancing makes it easy to “accidentally” bump against a girl you like. She’ll probably know the drill and respond well if she’s into you too.