Shani Jay
Dating Expert & Best Selling Author

Shani is a bestselling author, empowerment coach, and dating expert. She is the author of Bloom, The Babe Bible, Glow Getter, and Light Up Your Life; and her writing has been featured on many internationally recognized platforms including The Huffington Post, Thought Catalog, and Teen Vogue.

Shani’s articles have touched millions and she is extremely passionate about helping men and women form strong and lasting relationships.

Shani Jay

A couple showing signs that their marriage cannot be saved
Top 15 Signs a Marriage Cannot Be Saved According to Experts

If you’re looking for signs a marriage cannot be saved, things are probably rocky (to say the least)...

One of the three loves in life
The 3 Loves in Life that You Will Experience

Did you know there are 3 loves in life that most (but not all) people will experience? Each...

He knows how to be a better lover for his partner
How to Be a Better Lover that Meets All Her Needs... And Yours!

Want to know how to be a better lover for casual encounters, short-term flings, or your long-term girlfriend...

Here's one reason why girls like bad boys
Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys: The Science Behind the Thrill

Why do girls like bad boys? At least, it seems that way. We all know a guy who...

Wondering why no one wants to date him
Why Does No One Want to Date Me? The Real Answers

If you’re wondering, “why does no one want to date me?” or you believe “no one wants to...

A woman surrounded by red flags
Top 16 Red Flags in Women: Before and During a Relationship

Have you ever wondered what red flags in women you want to date (or are dating) you should...

On a great date because he follows good dating advice for men
12 Underrated Pieces of Dating Advice for Men | Beyond Ages

Are you tired of reading all the relationship and dating advice for men out there, feeling confused, and...

How many days is ghosting
How Many Days Is Ghosting? How Long Before You Should Let Go

How many days of not hearing from someone you’re dating is acceptable, and how many days is ghosting?...

He's trying to handle the silent treatment with dignity
How to Handle the Silent Treatment with Dignity

Does your partner sometimes give you the silent treatment and you’re wondering how to handle it with dignity?...

Love bombing her with romantic gestures before ghosting her
Love Bombing Then Ghosting | Why It Happens and What to Do

Love bombing then ghosting someone is a new trend that is as bad as it sounds. You meet...

Woman intrigued by the deep topics he wants to talk about
8 Deep Topics To Talk About That Will Help You Get To Know Your Date

If you want to get to know a woman deeply, then you’ll need some deep topics to talk...

He knows how to make a girl feel special
How to Make a Girl Feel Special: 11 Underrated Ways She'll Love

Are you one of the many men perplexed by the female species? Let me share a secret with...

She is showing the physical signs your girlfriend is cheating
12 Telling Physical Signs Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You

Are you concerned that your partner might be cheating on you? Without knowing the physical signs your girlfriend...

Man who knows if girls like facial hair
Do Girls Like Facial Hair On A Guy? 12 Points You Should Consider

If you’ve ever thought to yourself, “do girls like facial hair?” Wonder no more. We’re breaking it down...

Man struggling with how to understand a woman while on a date
How To Understand A Woman: 8 Things Most Men Are Missing

Women are the nurturers, carers, and the life-givers of our world. We make up more than 50% of...

How to make a girl like you and want to date you
How To Make A Girl Like You (It’s Much Simpler Than You Think)

Ever wondered how to make a girl like you? From afar, us girls can seem kinda confusing at...

Attractive man who knows how to hit on a girl at the gym
How To Hit On A Girl At The Gym (In 7 Simple Steps)

Have you ever wondered how to hit on a girl at the gym? You’d think the gym is...