Shani Jay
Dating Expert & Best Selling Author

Shani is a bestselling author, empowerment coach, and dating expert. She is the author of Bloom, The Babe Bible, Glow Getter, Lunacy, and Empower Her; and her writing has been featured on many internationally recognized platforms including The Huffington Post, Thought Catalog, Zoosk, and Medium. She is also the founder and Goddess in Chief of Revoloon, an empowerment publishing firm for women. As an empowerment coach and workshop leader, she has been invited to speak at several international events wherein she shares her expertise with men and women who want to improve their dating lives and their health (she’s also an RYT-200 yoga teacher).

Shani’s articles have touched millions and she is extremely passionate about providing balanced expert advice for men and women who want to have happy and fulfilling relationships.

Shani Jay

Starting to see the red flags of dating a widow
10 Early Dating Red Flags in Widows and Widowers

Dating a widow or widower who is not ready to move on will inevitably present some red flags....

Starting to see red flags when dating in their 50s
The 10 Major Red Flags When Dating in Your 50s and Beyond!

There are plenty of red flags when dating in your 50s to be mindful of so that you...

He doesn't know how to stop caring about every little thing
How to Stop Caring Too Much: The Art of Letting Things Slide

Are you someone who cares too much about everyone and everything in your world? Have you ever wondered...

Figuring out the effect of mommy issues in men
Mommy Issues in Men and How It Affects Your Dating Life

Mommy issues in men are more prevalent than you might think, and can really affect your romantic relationships...

Union Cafe Columbus Ohio
Top 7 Best Gay Bars in Columbus Ohio to Check Out in 2024

Well, well, well, Columbus sure knows how to party! The city's teeming with a bunch of rainbow-proud LGBTQIA+...

Using the best Bumble openers to charm his matches
Dating Tips
The Best Bumble Openers for Every Type of Guy

Have you recently joined Bumble, or are you struggling to make a strong impression on dating apps in...

Wondering what something casual means on Bumble
Dating Tips
What Does Something Casual Mean on Bumble?

What does something casual mean on Bumble? What does looking for something casual mean in general? There’s so...

Not sure how often to see someone he's casually dating
How Often Should You See Someone You're Casually Dating

How often should you see someone you’re casually dating? And how long should you casually date someone before...

A couple showing signs that their marriage cannot be saved
Top 15 Signs a Marriage Cannot Be Saved According to Experts

If you’re looking for signs a marriage cannot be saved, things are probably rocky (to say the least)...

One of the three loves in life
The 3 Loves in Life that You Will Experience

Did you know there are 3 loves in life that most (but not all) people will experience? Each...

He knows how to be a better lover for his partner
How to Be a Better Lover that Meets All Her Needs... And Yours!

Want to know how to be a better lover for casual encounters, short-term flings, or your long-term girlfriend...

Here's one reason why girls like bad boys
Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys: The Science Behind the Thrill

Why do girls like bad boys? At least, it seems that way. We all know a guy who...

Wondering why no one wants to date him
Why Does No One Want to Date Me? The Real Answers

If you’re wondering, “why does no one want to date me?” or you believe “no one wants to...

A woman surrounded by red flags
Top 16 Red Flags in Women: Before and During a Relationship

Have you ever wondered what red flags in women you want to date (or are dating) you should...

On a great date because he follows good dating advice for men
12 Underrated Pieces of Dating Advice for Men | Beyond Ages

Are you tired of reading all the relationship and dating advice for men out there, feeling confused, and...

How many days is ghosting
How Many Days Is Ghosting? How Long Before You Should Let Go

How many days of not hearing from someone you’re dating is acceptable, and how many days is ghosting?...

He's trying to handle the silent treatment with dignity
How to Handle the Silent Treatment with Dignity

Does your partner sometimes give you the silent treatment and you’re wondering how to handle it with dignity?...

Love bombing her with romantic gestures before ghosting her
Love Bombing Then Ghosting | Why It Happens and What to Do

Love bombing then ghosting someone is a new trend that is as bad as it sounds. You meet...

Woman intrigued by the deep topics he wants to talk about
8 Deep Topics To Talk About That Will Help You Get To Know Your Date

If you want to get to know a woman deeply, then you’ll need some deep topics to talk...

He knows how to make a girl feel special
How to Make a Girl Feel Special: 11 Underrated Ways She'll Love

Are you one of the many men perplexed by the female species? Let me share a secret with...

She is showing the physical signs your girlfriend is cheating
12 Telling Physical Signs Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You

Are you concerned that your partner might be cheating on you? Without knowing the physical signs your girlfriend...

Man who knows if girls like facial hair
Do Girls Like Facial Hair On A Guy? 12 Points You Should Consider

If you’ve ever thought to yourself, “do girls like facial hair?” Wonder no more. We’re breaking it down...

Man struggling with how to understand a woman while on a date
How To Understand A Woman: 8 Things Most Men Are Missing

Women are the nurturers, carers, and the life-givers of our world. We make up more than 50% of...

How to make a girl like you and want to date you
How To Make A Girl Like You (It’s Much Simpler Than You Think)

Ever wondered how to make a girl like you? From afar, us girls can seem kinda confusing at...

Attractive man who knows how to hit on a girl at the gym
How To Hit On A Girl At The Gym (In 7 Simple Steps)

Have you ever wondered how to hit on a girl at the gym? You’d think the gym is...