Hooking up shouldn’t be too tall of a task. It’s the Capitol of Minnesota, after all. It’s not like you’re stranded in Houlton! We’ve compiled a list of the best of hookup options, both online and offline. With this guide, you’re sure to find St. Paul hookups in no time!
We set our own team loose in this city and tasked them with checking out the local bar scene and trying out different hookup options online. Their findings were promising, and we're here to share with you the best places to get laid in St. Paul.
Your chances of hooking up online and in swank bars are almost limitless. Because St. Paul and Minneapolis are travel hubs, they attract residents from across the country and around the world. People of different nationalities, educational backgrounds and ages come to learn at St. Paul’s College or Concordia University. Sometimes, they decide to stay for a while.
Scroll through and find out what our city has to offer for hookups, then let us know what you think. Also, if you know of a place and think we should add it to our list, leave it in the comments below.
We’ll start with the most reliable St. Paul hookup hotspots that have always worked for us. Our crew gave each bar high marks on different factors, and we’ve detailed where you can get laid. Find out why we gave these two thumbs up!
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New Bohemia is a fantastic place to enjoy a wide variety of beers. This awesome beer garden makes this the best place to score hook ups in St. Paul. The beer selection here is definitely hard to beat despite being in the Midwest. However, if you wind up feeling hungry, you can try over 24 different all-natural sausages made from whole cuts of meat. You can even enjoy hand-cut french fries as well.
The communal seating here makes it easy to introduce yourself to someone new. So take advantage of this awesome beer garden to help you meet someone special.
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Are you better with words than you are with moves on the dance floor? The combination of alcohol and people makes bars perfect for flirting!
Arcade Bar is one of our favorite places for ordering a cocktail. This place serves up great drinks and that also attracts the ladies. Girls come here to enjoy the good vibes that come from the laidback atmosphere.
This is a great local bar where everyone likes to come for a drink. Come here on the weekends and you’ll find that the crowd is super amped up and ready to go. The bar also has amazing weekly specials, like free pizza, that makes it perfect for a night out. You definitely want to check out Arcade Bar!
If you’re looking for a place that kinda reminds you of home, welcome to The Local. The pub isn’t within city limits, but it’s so good it’s worth mentioning. It’s almost like every Irish pub you’ve ever sat in except for a few key details that we’ll note. You’ll spot it immediately because, on the exterior, the lower facade is British Phonebooth red and the upper facade is black.
Once you step off the street, the antique light fixtures and polished crimson ceiling tiles draw you in, and you’re suddenly enveloped in a vintage atmosphere, ornate dark wood columns and sage-colored walls.
It’s formerly Cooper’s Pub, but with updated decor and a slightly altered menu (but not too altered! They don’t want to disappoint their regulars). They serve up corned beef and cabbage to pair with any local or imported beer on tap. Happy hour is from 2 pm to 6 pm, so bring your faux Irish eyes a-smiling.
What we also liked about this place is its romantic decor and lighting. Though similar to all other Irish pubs, it isn’t the typical appetite-killing drab golds and green. Set off from the center of the bustle are walled booths called “snugs.” They’re protected by etched glass and kill off most of the noise when this place gets busy. Reserve early if you’re on an intimate date.
Barrio’s bright red sign hangs vertically from the exterior brick wall. Inside, you’re met with a fusion of modern and classic Mexican colors and decor. They’ve got a tequila bar with more than 100 varieties of tequila and mezcal on hand. They make 10 different house margaritas and there’s beer on tap. You can also chow down on chips and guac, street-style tacos, enchiladas and tostadas.
It’s like a mom and pop restaurant with vibrant nightlife, but the best part is that they share their earnings with the community. Each time you pay your check, know that you’re supporting the local boxing gym and helping provide free training to the inner city youth.
We love Barrio’s philanthropy, but we also love the eclectic ambiance, the Happy Hours, and the short list of food to choose from. They’ve got a kick-ass happy hour and a chance to hook up with the lovely ladies who are traveling through our city on business or pleasure. If you don’t get lucky during happy hour, you can enjoy a flavorful and well-made cocktail. Enjoy all that Barrio has to offer.
These are other great bars where you can meet adorable single girls:
With awesome music and drinks all around, a club is the best place to pick up girls. So here are a few of our favorites that have introduced us to some of the hottest girls in our city.
While some of the other dives are okay with being hidden away, the 1029 bar screams for attention. It’s in nearby Minneapolis, but it’s another bar we couldn’t leave out. You’ll want to make the short trip to visit this hookup bar.
It has an accompanying food truck, The Smack Shack, which was featured on Diners, Drive-ins and Dives! And you can see their restaurant in this Minnesota state lottery commercial. They’ve got sports on TV, bingo on Saturday, Bloody Mary Sunday, Karaoke Wednesday, live music, no cover and so much more!
We loved this place because it was the most fun a person could have on a Wednesday night. It’s a fun dive bar and a great place for dates or to hook up. The environment and the drinks create the perfect cocktail for successful St. Paul hook ups. Beware that it’s a popular place and it will get crowded.
They’re on the corner and stay open till 2 a.m. If you’re looking for a super fun dive and a night of debauchery, drop in on The 1029 Bar.
Vieux Carré is a New Orleans-style club in a historic space. This is one of the best places to hear fantastic live jazz music. The performances here are truly memorable and you won’t walk away disappointed. Along with that, you’ll find a sea of perfect 10s on the dance floor.
You can enjoy a wonderful selection of drinks that include craft cocktails, beers and wines to help you get in the mood to dance. Vieux Carré attracts lots of single girls who are interested in swaying to the music. The dark-lit club creates quite an intimate atmosphere that really works in your favor if you’re ready to pick someone up.
If you’re willing to take the drive out to Minneapolis, then you should definitely check out Kitty Cat Klub. This bar and lounge hybrid is one of our favorite places to pick up girls. Lots of girls will drive out here to have a fantastic night out. They also come here to meet guys who want to have a good time.
Here you can catch amazing live music acts, great food and strong drinks. The atmosphere of the bar is quite funky and bohemian - which attracts an eclectic crowd. So if you’re ready to dance and flirt with lots of hot single ladies, then this is the place for you!
It’s another one of those pubs a little outside of St. Paul, but we couldn’t leave it off the list if you want to have an instant hookup tonight. The 331 Club is a Minneapolis hole-in-the-wall hidden gem that you hear about but never get a chance to visit. It’s a dive bar that’s been invaded by the hip and trendy, many of them sporting PBR Tallboys and taking a stab at drunk Spelling Bee. So if you get a chance to dive into this divey dive bar, you’ve got to.
Each night you’re sure to be entertained by live music, drunk spelling bee or trivia. They’re open from 1 pm to 2 am on weekdays, earlier on weekends. They have beers on tap and Brewery Of the Month pints. This bar has a menu, which the adjacent Sheridan room prepares. You can choose tables, patio seating or rest your hiney at the bar. And ladies? That jukebox in the bathroom is broken. Sorry.
The service leaves much to be desired, but the music and the patrons make up for it. We loved this little joint because of the feels you have when you’re here. It’s like you’ve just become great friends with 100 other bar dwellers. The drink and the entertainment provide plenty of opportunities to slide up to someone new and spark up a conversation. Give it a shot, let us know if you agree that it's one of the best bars to get laid.
These are some other great clubs for meeting cute single girls. However, they didn’t quite make the top of our list for one reason or another:
Need a few daytime options when you're sick of the same old bar scene? Here are some spots where you might find hookups in St. Paul.
Are you looking to eat something that’s a little bit out of your comfort zone? Then check out Moscow on the Hill. This is an amazing restaurant for traditional Russian food. The cuisine here is amazing and on top of that, this place attracts lots of cute girls.
Along with being an amazing restaurant, this place also serves up great vodka. The vodka bar and the patio seating make this place super popular during the warmer months. So get ready to have your fill of great food and amazing drinks with cute girls all around. After a few shots of vodka, everyone will also be willing to engage in a little flirtation.
Are you not in the mood to go out and party? Then why not grab an amazing cup of coffee instead? At Quixotic Coffee you can enjoy some of the best coffee in town while meeting hot girls. The free WiFi and the woodsy decor make this a go-to place for anyone who wants to sit and kick it. So grab an espresso or one of their fantastic cold brews and then find a seat. Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself to someone who has caught your eye!
This isn’t just an ordinary supermarket — they’re responsible to the community and the environment. At Mastel’s, you can recycle your used egg cartons and pick up vitamins, supplements and cruelty-free cosmetics. If you pick up a punch card, you’re eligible for in-store discounts after 10 purchases. Listen, we’re not trying to sell you on groceries. We’re giving you valuable ice-breakers.
We found locals and out-of-town businesswomen searching aisle after aisle for the right stuff. So grab your empty egg cartons, make a grocery list and — Who knows? Maybe you’re the right stuff.
There’s a lot of great reasons to sign up for a membership at The Power House MN. If you’re looking for an instant confidence boost then joining the gym is a must. Taking care of your body will have you feeling great and will help you pick up more girls. However, another great reason is that lots of cute girls come here to work out.
So take one of the group fitness classes and introduce yourself to someone new. You don’t have to be shy about meeting someone new at the gym. In fact, it’s a great place to meet likeminded girls who happen to love taking care of their bodies.
It’s different than any other place listed. It isn’t a bar, and it isn’t a coffee shop, rather it’s a gathering of bibliophiles who converge to discuss books. It’s not located in St. Paul. It’s actually not located anywhere; instead, it’s an event that appears where needed, though oftentimes it’s in nearby Minneapolis. They gather in an environment that matches the setting of their chosen text and talk about what they’re reading.
For example, for $35, you’ll get a ticket to a Twins game at Target Field, a copy of Baseball Epic and a seat in a specific section of the stadium. There, you and others on Coffee House Press can talk about the book of beers and brats, or you can agree to meet at another event (or maybe sooner).
If you’re a bibliophile and have almost given up on finding others like you, there’s hope. Hop on Coffee House Press today and find an event near you!
Now that we’ve covered some of our favorites, here are a few more proven places for hookups in St. Paul:
Lowertown Sounds is a free summertime concert series that takes place every Thursday night from June into August. The outdoor event features live music acts that are truly worth hearing. The event attracts all of the cutest single girls from the area, so you won’t want to miss out.
Along with live music, you can also enjoy art exhibits and local food and beverages. The concert starts every Thursday at 6 p.m. in Mears Park. The music acts really bring the park to life and you’ll find that it’s easy to chat up someone new. The music gives you the ultimate ice breaker when it comes to flirting with your next one-night stand.
Tinder is one of those options that really never goes out of style. It is so popular because of how easy it is to use. All you need to do is swipe left or right on your potential matches. However, despite being incredibly user-friendly, there is a pretty big downside. You also need to be pretty eye-catching for Tinder to work in your favor.
So if you’re a good-looking dude who looks great in photos, then you’re in serious luck. You’ll be getting lots of right swipes. However, the only other exception is if you’re a pretty witty guy. Then your Tinder profile will stand out against all the others. So test out Tinder and see how many cute girls you match up with.
It’s a burger bar. What woman would be caught dead trying to hook up at a burger bar? The kind of lady who doesn’t care about appearances, and who doesn’t cut her pizza with a fork and knife. If you’re a vegan then that’s perfect, too because they have alternative plant-based options on the menu as well.
There’s a happy hour from 3-6 p.m., Monday through Friday and every day from 10 pm to close. During Happy Hour, it’s $2 off some drinks and $7 appetizers. It gets crowded at this St. Paul hookup bar, so prepare to get their early and save a seat for, hopefully, whoever you meet.
The Happy Gnome is a St. Paul hookup bar where upscale meets casual. There’s an outdoor patio bar, a chef-driven menu that changes daily and 90 taps of domestic and import beer. They craft their own brews and have seasonal rotations, so expect to do some taste testing in both summer and winter.
We liked The Happy Gnome because it exudes class. If you’re looking for a place to meet your Tinder date after you’ve already sealed the deal, you’ll love The Happy Gnome. You can impress with your knowledge of local ales and spirits if you’re with a beer enthusiast. It’s also a great place for date night or a double-date night because you can order a few items and share them over the lightly-drunken conversation.
The only hitch about The Happy Gnome is there is no happy hour. However, it’s a local favorite for all of the above-listed reasons and more. Find out why they call this place “Gnome Sweet Gnome.”
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