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How to Flirt with a Girl Using 4 Simple (But Effective!) Lines

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A lot of guys have no idea how to flirt with a girl. Most guys usually resort to tired old compliments or cliche lines that will have her cringing. If you have no idea what to say to a girl, then we have some of the best lines you can use

You can use these lines when texting her, or while you’re face-to-face. Either way, these lines are extremely likely to make her more attracted to you, provided you deliver them in a confident manner.

However, in this article, I won’t just be telling you the lines to say to make a woman like you. I will also be explaining the underlying principles of why these lines work. Once you understand this, you’ll be able to come up with your own flirtatious lines that hit the mark and help to boost a woman’s attraction to you.

One of our favorite lines to flirt with a girl is "That dress looks amazing on you."

It doesn’t have to be her dress. You could compliment her earrings, her t-shirt, her haircut, whatever. The point is: you’re delivering her a compliment that communicates you’re into her. You’re showing your intent.

However, there is still an element of subtlety here.

It’s not as forward as: “Wow, you look so beautiful!” “You have an incredible body!” “Your ass looks amazing!” etc. And this is important! Subtlety is the key to good flirting and sparking attraction

You almost want to think of flirting as a dance. You’re pushing, but then you’re pulling away. Then, she does the same. There’s an element of “will we, won’t we?” throughout the whole thing. And this is far more exciting for a woman than 100% knowing for sure that you want to sleep with her. Women enjoy the dance.

Ok, so when you say “that dress looks amazing on you,” that’s quite forward. It takes some confidence to issue a compliment like that, but there’s still an element of doubt. Maybe you just like the dress? And that slight element of doubt is a good thing. Remember that while we go through the other flirtatious lines in my list.

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How to flirt with a girl using a push-pull statement: “I’m not sure what it is yet, but there’s something interesting about you.”

This is an example of a “push-pull” statement. You’re pushing forward by saying there’s something interesting about her, but you’re pulling away by telling her you’re not sure what it is yet.

A modified version of this is “I’m not sure what it is yet, but there’s something I like about you.”

This is a bit more full-on, but it still leaves that element of mystery, which is essential to successful flirting.

Another line that works well: “I don’t think it could work out between us. You’re just not my type.”

Ok, this type of line is sometimes called a “disqualifier” because you’re suggesting there’s no chance of anything happening between you. To someone who doesn’t understand social dynamics, this might not sound like a very good line because there is no statement of intent at all.

But actually there is.

Because it is at least introducing the idea that she could be your type. Perhaps the interaction has initially been very platonic and friendly, then you throw this line in. Now, the idea of you two potentially dating has been introduced.

Also, disqualifier lines are designed to be said with a coy smile on your face. This is how you show her that you’re just kidding. You’re just teasing her and being playful. And, in fact, by playfully mentioning “types” you are subtly communicating your interest in her. It's one of the ways you can be sure she'll flirt back.

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What to say to a girl when you want to be a little risque: "If you keep talking like that, I'm going to have to have to spank you."

This is another line which - if taken completely seriously - is actually scorning her. Right? But it works because of the double entendre of the word “spank.” Spanking is used to punish a naughty kid, but it is also used by a lot by adults in more fun ways.

Bad Girl.” These are examples of double entendres with sexual connotations that won’t be lost on her. So, use them! There are a lot of “bad girls” out there who would actually love the idea of being “spanked” or “whipped” in the bedroom by the right guy.

Again, the key to successfully using these innuendos is to have a coy smile as you flirt with a girl, so she can see you’re being playful. Don't make the flirting mistake of giving her a serious, deadpan start because it will come off creepy.

Also, any form of sexual talk is a bit more risque than the other lines I’ve mentioned in this video. So I would hold off on this type of flirting until it’s more clear that she actually likes you and you have some sexual tension going on.

Flirt with a girl with a subtle line: “What am I going to do with you?”

This is perhaps the most subtle line I have mentioned. It might sound completely innocent, non-sexual and perhaps a bit rude if you say it in the wrong tone. But this phrase can easily be interpreted sexually if you say it with that coy smile we spoke about earlier.

“What am I going to do with you?”

These can spark fantasies of you being dominant in the bedroom - and “punishing” her for being a “bad girl” like we mentioned earlier. You may be surprised at how many women really adore the idea of being dominated in bed - and that’s why telling her off with that playful smile can really turn their legs to jelly.

It's such a good line that it's even subtle enough if you want to flirt with someone at work. So don’t be surprised if she asks: “What are you going to do with me?” with that same coy smile and strong eye contact.

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Knowing How to Flirt with a Girl is in the Delivery

With the right delivery, how can she resist?

Let me know what you think of these flirtatious lines in the comments. Feel free to try them out for yourself. Also, let me know what flirtatious lines you like to use when you’re out meeting women. I would love to hear them!


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