In this article, I’ll show you exactly how to seduce a woman with touch so she’ll want to sleep with you.
Learning this skill isn’t as difficult as many guys think it is. And it’s pretty useful to know how to do it properly if you want to get laid.
That’s because being physical with women is crucial for your success. It establishes comfort and trust. And when done properly, it inspires attraction and ignites passion.
Below I’ll show you some of the best techniques for touching women while also explaining how to be seductive as a man in general.
With that said, you’ll get better at this much quicker if you have many women to practice on. And the best places to quickly meet women you can seduce are on online dating sites. So we’ve reviewed and ranked the top dating sites and apps to help you out.
The crucial tips on how to seduce a woman with touch
Imagine the following: You’re on a date with a beautiful woman. Maybe you meet on the hookup apps that actually work for guys. Maybe it was just at one of the more common places women meet guys when they are looking for sex.
You’re talking, having fun, cracking jokes and everything seems to be going very well for you. She seems to be enjoying your company, and you think she might like to get to know you more intimately.
After a while, you go somewhere more private with her, and then you try to kiss her. Most of the time, she won’t let you do this. And sometimes she’ll even be shocked by what you just tried to do. So why is that often the case, exactly?
The simplest answer is because you weren’t touching her throughout your date at all or you've misread her body language.
You see, women need to become gradually accustomed to your touch for them to be comfortable with it. And if you don’t touch them at all while you’re flirting with them, she will probably reject you when you make a big physical move. And yes, it can happen even if the date has been going well so far.
That’s because your big move will be in contrast to your behavior up to that point. It’s like you went from talking to her from across the table to suddenly leaning in for a hug or a kiss.
So remember this if you want to learn how to seduce a woman with touch: Always be physical with her right from the moment you meet her. Just make sure there’s always context behind your touch, so you’re not doing it simply for the sake of touching her.
And for the love of all that’s decent, do not look at your hand when you’re touching women. Put the focus on her and not on your hand. Make eye contact when you touch her so that she knows you’re not just trying to cop a feel.
Start off slowly and steadily
Before you learn the techniques to seduce women with your touch, you need to know how to use your physicality properly.
So the trick to touching her is to start off slow and steady, and then gradually increase the intensity of your touch.
Touch her at every opportunity you get, but make it subtle. When you meet her, shake her hand or give her a light hug. Then while you’re talking to her and making a point, touch her arm lightly to emphasize what you’re saying. Touching another person's arm holds a lot of meaning.
When you cross the street, hold her hand. And when you’re going into a building or step into a car, put your hand on her lower back and guide her in.
If she says something funny or cool, give her a high-five! When you tell her a story that involves other people touching, demonstrate it to her by touching her too.
After a while, you can take her by the hand and lead her places throughout the date.
Eventually, you’ll start flirting and joking around. At this point, your touch can become much more brazen than before.
You can hug her, pick her up and spin her around, bump her hip, tickle her or nudge her on the side when you’re making a joke. I like to playfully put my arm around women and shake them a bit when teasing them or joking around.
All of this will gradually make women very comfortable with you and your physicality. So when you eventually make more intimate moves, she’ll already be used to your touch.
Here’s how to seduce a woman with touch the right way
Now that you know how to make women get used to you touching them, you’re ready to learn about the techniques.
These are ways of touching women to build up sexual tension. This ensures that the women you touch will become aroused and then start thinking naughty thoughts about you. This will often compel them to want to be more intimate with you, accept your advances and take things further.
At this point, you should both already be pretty comfortable with each other. After all, you’ve been flirting and touching her at every good opportunity you had.
Now you must make your touch more intimate and sensual, instead of brazen and playful. You're done flirting with her, so now it's time to seduce a woman with touch.
For example, take her hand and play with it while you’re talking to her about something. Then gently massage her palm and her fingers to show her that you know how to give her pleasure. After a while, ever so lightly run your finger up her arm to her elbow. This is sure to send shivers down her spine, and she might even touch your chest.
You can also touch her neck and shoulders at this point. For example, say you want to whisper something in her ear. Then get closer to her, put your fingers behind her neck and lean in. After you whisper something sensual in her ear, like how beautiful she is, you can try leaving your hand on her shoulder and continue talking like that.
Eventually, put your arm around her and just savor the moment as she gets accustomed to you being so close.
The longer you have your arm around her, the better. You can even go into a nice shoulder or neck rub if she’s giving you nothing but positive signals so far.
Touch her face and hair to see if she really likes you
After you get really comfortable with her, you’ll want to know if she’s ready to be kissed. And you can easily find this out by touching her hair and her face.
When a woman lets you touch her above the neck, it means she trusts enough and that she’s comfortable with you being so close. So if she’s responsive to you touching her hair or her face, you’ll easily know where you stand with her.
You can create a great opportunity to touch her hair simply by commenting on it in some way. For example, give her a compliment like, “your hair looks really soft.” Then reach out to touch it, and watch her reaction.
There are also numerous ways you can touch her face. One cheesy yet effective way is by gesturing that she has a bit of sauce in the corner of her mouth. When she tries to wipe it off, reach out and wipe it off for her by using your thumb. Allow your hand to stay close to her face as you give her a knowing smile. This is how you can be seductive as a man and show her that you’re really into her.
If she pulls away or swipes your hand away, it means she still doesn’t trust you. It means she isn’t comfortable enough with you for you to be touching her like that. However, if it’s a positive reaction, then it means she really likes you.
Again, watch her reaction and see what she does. If all’s well and she likes it, then you can start making more intimate moves.
Ramp up the sexual tension and kiss her
If you’ve done everything correctly up to this point, she’ll already be very attracted to you.
This is the perfect moment to ignite strong sexual tension with your touch and seduce her.
You can do this in many different ways. My favorite is to sit and pull her closer so she sits on top of me. That way our faces are close, my arms are free to embrace her and run my fingers across her thighs. And then I’ll pull her in to make out with her.
Another way to make your move powerfully and directly is to just put your hand on the back of her head and pull her in very close to you. But don’t kiss her just yet. Hold this position so your faces are mere inches apart, and act like you want to kiss her but tease her about it.
Say something sexy about her and hold steady eye contact, all while still holding her head with your hand. You can also massage her scalp slightly with your fingers to give her pleasurable shivers.
Eventually, she’ll melt from the sexual tension, and you can go in for the kiss.
Going in for more than a kiss
A third way to seduce her with touch would be to pin her against a wall or against the sofa or bed. This is a very aggressive move that some women really enjoy. Then start teasing her with kisses.
At this point, kiss her on the neck and on the shoulders and wherever else you can, except for the lips. This will drive her even more crazy with arousal and anticipation.
When you finally think you’ve teased her enough, go in for that passionate kiss she’s been waiting for. She won’t be able to resist. And if you’re somewhere private, you can start getting her clothes off.
So now you know exactly how to seduce a woman with touch in a way that’s sure to make her want you.
Remember not to hesitate when you’re touching a woman. Because if she sees hesitation and indecision, she’ll think you’re really nervous and unsure of yourself. Make sure your movements are slow, steady and deliberate and you’ll go far!