5 Great Places To Meet Women Who Love Sex (And How To Meet Them)

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If you have a very high sexual appetite, then it’s very useful to learn how to meet women who love sex as much as you do.

Having a relationship where you’re completely sexually satisfied by your partner is very important. Unfortunately, not every woman will have a sexual appetite as voracious as yours.

So, to be happy in your relationship, it’s a good idea to find and meet women who like to hookup and do it as often as you.

There are great ways to find these women if you know where to look. And if you’re just after a casual hookup, there are also plenty of women who just want sex and nothing else.

Where to look for women who love sex

Where does an average guy find women who like to hook up? The answer may surprise you.

No, it’s not a nightclub, a high-end bar or even a dive-bar.

As good as nightclubs are for meeting girls who want to party and hook up with guys, it’s not the best place. Because it’s not the '90s anymore and women don’t frequent these places as much as they did before. In fact, lots of women go to clubs just to dance and flirt with guys while leaving them hanging.

The real answer is online dating sites, which is great because you don’t even have to get all dressed up to start talking to them.

That’s because the best hookup sites and apps have literally thousands of women waiting to talk to men. Whereas you’ll often find only a dozen or so frequenting a bar, and that’s on a good night. We have done an exhaustive test and review of the hookup apps that actually work for normal guys and there are a few worth your time.

Plus, if your goal is to find women who are really into sex, you can’t just go up to all of them and ask them if they’re looking to hook up. Women would only mention that once they’re already comfortable talking to you.

It’s nearly impossible to find this out if you’re approaching women at bars and clubs, unless you’re willing to spend hours chatting to each and every one of them. That doesn't mean it's a bad idea. In fact, we have put together a great guide on where to find quick hookups in most neighborhoods.

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Why dating sites are perfect for meeting women who like to get busy

First of all, you’ll be able to talk to hundreds of women at the same time when you’re on an online dating site. This will save you countless hours you’d otherwise waste going out. Not to mention the money you’d practically be throwing away by paying for the ridiculously overpriced drinks at clubs and bars.

Second, if you join dating sites with specific adult themes, women will often describe their sexual preferences right there in their biographies. They might even send you nudes without you asking!

That way, it’ll be really easy to figure out which lady suits you and your specific preferences. In their dating profile, they’ll list all the things they’re into, and you’ll be able to tell if they’re really into sex as much as you are. And yes, that includes women who don't care about your size too much.

Besides, you’ll spare yourself the awkwardness of asking something like that directly in person. You might even get slapped in the face if you talk about sex within two minutes of meeting someone.

Also, even if some women on dating sites won’t write about their preferences, it’s much easier to find this stuff out while chatting online rather than doing it in person.

That’s because women feel safe from creeps and weirdos on such websites since they can easily block them and ignore them. This makes them braver than usual when it comes to talking to men about naughty subjects.

So all you’ll have to do is browse through some great online dating sites and pick out the women you find really attractive. Then send them a message, chat for a bit and eventually turn the conversation onto more sexual topics.

Once you’ve both agreed to hook up, it’s all a matter of finding the right time and place to do it.

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How to meet women who love sex

Now that you know the “where” part, it’s time to learn how to actually go about meeting these women.

As simple as I may have made it out to be when talking about finding women who love sex, it’s actually not as easy as it sounds.

The reason I say this is that you still have to approach the whole thing with a bit of tact and a strategy.

Otherwise, you’ll end up scaring many women away because you may look like a sexual degenerate who’s only after one thing. And trust me, women don’t like men who are desperate to get laid. Desperation is one of the biggest attraction killers in dating and seduction.

So how do you approach these things with tact?

Here’s what you do:

  1. Don’t make your first message overly sexual.
  2. Focus on flirting, friendly banter, teasing and having fun.
  3. Get to know her and tell her what what you’re looking for in a date.

These steps don’t take a long time to go through. And if you follow them, you’ll usually find out pretty quickly if she’s the right woman for you.

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Don’t come on too strong too early

The first step is arguably the most important one. It can spell the difference between getting an answer or being ignored right from the start.

If your first message is something blatant like “Want to get together?” or “You’re so gorgeous I want to meet you and bang your brains out!” you’ll probably either get ignored or get blocked.

Women on online dating sites get some variation of such a lewd and overly sexual message hundreds of times a day. They promptly label the guy a thirsty creep, delete the message and ignore him.

So be a little bit tactful, and start off with a simple heartfelt and appropriate compliment with your introduction. Look at her profile and her pictures. See what genuinely catches your eye about her. Then write her a personal message, complimenting her on the specific thing you liked about her.

Say something like, “Oh, cool, you’re into Game of Thrones. You have good taste :)”

This will usually get you in the door quicker than if you sent something dull like “Hey what’s up?”

The point is to be unique with your first message and to give her a compliment that is genuinely thoughtful.

That said, you obviously won’t get an answer from all women. Some of them simply won’t like you. That is perfectly fine as everyone’s entitled to their own tastes.

In that case, just move on and message someone else. There are literally thousands of other prospects to choose from!

Flirt and have fun with her

This step is pretty self-explanatory, so there’s not much to say here except that you should be your charming self, have a bit of fun with her and make sure to flirt.

Too many guys make the mistake of being excruciatingly boring when talking to women online. They live in fear of sending a message that comes off as too forward or offensive or presumptuous.

They write simple one-question messages. And when they get a reply, they ask another question. And then another, and another, until the girl gives up and stops replying due to sheer boredom and exasperation.

So instead of doing what a lot of unsuccessful guys do, focus on having a fun, funny or witty conversation instead. This involves some flirting, friendly banter, teasing, telling various jokes, etc.

Basically, show you have some personality. Let her know that you’re interested in having a fun time with her, both online and offline. This will show her you’re a decent, friendly and fun guy and that you’re not just after using her as a piece of meat. Then she’ll have no problems with sharing personal stuff with you. She might even want to have sex with you right then and there!

That brings me to my next point.

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Get to know her and learn what you need

During this final step, you’ll  figure out if she fits your standards. You’ll also make sure she’ll want to meet you later for a date. You might also learn if she's one of those women who love sex as much as you do.

That’s because for women to want to meet you and to talk about sex with you, they have to trust you first.

Sure, some women will talk about naughty subjects and engage in sexting without any trust at all. But usually, these interactions will stay online because women won’t want to meet you in person, even if you're having a great time online.

So if you want to actually meet women who like to bang from online dating, you’ll have to earn their trust. The best way to do that is to show an interest in who they are as people.

You do this by sharing your mutual interests. Eventually, you can talk about deeper topics to find out their passions and their dreams. You might even learn about her whole life story if she trusts you enough. Opening up about this is a huge sign she already trusts you.

That’s when you can start making the conversation more sexual. This will be the perfect opportunity to figure out if she’s into sex as much as you are.

But the beauty of the whole thing is that you’ll be able to have this conversation with many different women at a time. So you’re sure to find at least a few who’ll be perfect for you.

Meeting women who just want sex

The last thing I want to mention is how to meet women who simply want to have sex with no strings attached. These are ladies who don’t want anything serious with anyone and are just looking to get laid. These women just want a one night stand because it's fun.

Trust me, there are plenty of women who are after just sex and nothing else. They might even be so upfront about it that they’ll mention it in their profile.

Even if they’re upfront about it, you can’t just say you wanna hook up and run. Instead, say something like you’re looking to spend a great night with a wonderful woman, but you’re not looking for anything serious. You can give a reason, and it can be anything, to be honest. You can say you’re just not being ready for a relationship or that you’re not going to be staying in town for long.

The reason doesn’t matter because the only thing that really matters is that you’re completely upfront about what you want.

Just be direct about what you want

Simply put, there are other people who are looking for similar things you’re looking for. And the best way to find them to simply let them know you’re also up for the same thing: whether that's a casual fling, a one night stand or hooking up where you won't get caught.

My favorite line to say is the following: “I’m not really looking for anything serious. And I’m not just after mindless sex either because I actually have to like the person to want to sleep with them. But so far I see you’re amazing and I’d like to meet you tonight. Who knows where things may lead. But one thing I know for certain, we’re going to have a wonderful time together!”

This leaves everything pretty much ambiguous. And it lets her know you’re open to both serious relationships and casual sex. This line works on women who want both and neither because it leaves everything open to “fate” so to speak. Or as I like to call it “Whatever happens, happens!”


Now you know where and how to meet women who love sex. As well as those who are just looking to get laid and nothing else.

Internet dating has opened up a whole world of opportunities for people looking to get intimate with someone. So don’t miss out on this, and join all the other people who are already having fun meeting new people for a steamy date.


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