Our 2021 XMilfs Review: Were There Really Any Hot MILFs Around?

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The internet is an incredible invention that helps bring people together. And by bringing people together, I mean helping you find hookups online. Sadly, along with legit sites are scammy sites that will do you zero favors. In fact, these days, it can be hard to find a site that has what you’re looking for. Fortunately for you, this is exactly why I’m here. I want to make your search easier with this Xmilfs review.

You should generally never invest in something that won’t end up helping you in any way. So, that’s why I took the time to check out XMilfs and see whether it’s a site you should consider for your next hookup. As usual, I looked at this site from every angle and this is what I found.

How we reviewed Xmilfs
To ensure I review all sites equally, I’ll first use the website’s free account (if they’ve got one) and see whether I can get anything out of it. My main goal is to find out whether I can meet someone with this free account. I’ll use it for a couple of days and once I’ve done all I can with it, I’ll upgrade to one of the paid versions it offers.

For the first few days, while still on a free account, I won’t write a description or add a profile picture. I leave my profile blank to see whether I’ll get spam messages. Messages that are sent to you when your profile is still blank are almost always spam. I mean, who really wants to hook up with someone they haven’t seen and don’t know anything about, right?

Once I’ve let the blank profile sit for a few days, I’ll then add a description and a few pictures. I then use it as I would any of my own personal dating apps. I invest a considerable amount of time so that I can get the best results I possibly can. When trying to meet and hook up using the paid account, I also explore the website’s other premium features. I use them so I can find out whether they’re worth the money.

The Full XMILFS Review: Is It Worth It?

Below you’ll find everything you need to know about XMilfs, as well as a comparison between Adult FriendFinder. Seeing as Adult FriendFinder is not only the most dependable but one of the best sites out there for hooking up, we like to use it as the gold standard other sites should aspire to.

Anyway, if you want to look at the numbers real quick, here’s how XMilfs ranks up.

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Overall

Our team rates each site objectively based on many hours of independent research, the features each site offers, and how it compares with other sites. The ratings are the opinion of our editors and their extensive experience.

1 9.5
Quality of Women

Our opinion of how attractive the typical woman is that uses this site and how easy they are to connect with compared to other sites.

1 9
Popularity

How many people are using this site to actually meet people compared to other sites.

1 9
Usability

How easy is this site to use and how quickly can an average person begin meeting people compared to other sites.

3 10
Privacy & Safety

Does this site take proper precautions to safeguard its members, their identity, and their data.

2 10
Effectiveness

Our opinion of how easily an average person will be able to achieve their dating goals with this site compared to other sites.

1 9
Value

Will the time and money spent using this site pay off for an average person based on the opinions and experience of our editors.

1 10
Our Recommendation

At first glance, XMilfs just looks like any other average hookup site out there. Its first impression doesn’t really catch the eye. In fact, it’s here where I started noticing that I might not really enjoy my experience.

In the beginning, you kind of hope that it’ll all work out, however, once you start using the site for a while you start realizing that you might have made a mistake spending your time on this site.

You get a lot of spam messages

First of all, you literally can’t do anything on a basic level membership. You can’t reply to messages nor can you reply to chats if you don’t upgrade to gold membership. In fact, you can’t even read messages in your inbox if you haven’t upgraded.

There’s a 3-day trial plan where you can see how it all works, but 3 days wasn’t enough to bag a down MILF. Just keep in mind that you’ll definitely have to pay from the jump if you want somewhat of a good experience on this platform.

Site upon login

On a basic level membership, all you can do is view incoming chats and messages. You can’t even match with other member profiles without having to upgrade to a paid membership. You can look at quickies, but once you match here, you’ll still have to upgrade to effectively communicate with each other.

In short, the short stint I had with the basic level account is not something I’d want to repeat.

Basic level membership is extremely limited

Much of what has been said in the previous paragraphs involves how unpleasant using the basic level account is. Once you set up the account, you’ll immediately start getting incoming chats and messages from other members. You won’t be able to read the messages in the inbox nor will you be able to reply to both messages and chats.

However, you’ll be able to read incoming chats but that’s about it. You can’t even add new friends without upgrading, although you can select “yes” to quickies. Unfortunately, once again, you can’t speak with any quickie you match with until you pay for an upgrade.

You can't do much on a free membership

It would’ve been nice if they could at least have given new users like 10 free texts to test out how well the site works. That being said, I guess the 3-day trial plan was meant to address the people like me who would’ve loved a free way to test the waters.

The site’s member profiles are kind of misleading

A lot of MILF profiles on the website look very fishy. All the pictures, all the descriptions, almost everything I came across looked fabricated.

Sample profile with barely any information

Profile that doesn't look legit

While XMilfs.com might look like a place where you can land some horny, DTF milfs, it’s not. It didn’t feel or look like a site where you can actually hook up. Yes, members chat and text in weirdly suggestive ways. However, most profiles look way too enticing to be true and some are just plain empty.

I doubt I’d have managed to legitimately talk to a MILF if I stayed any longer than I did, let alone get to meet up and do the dirty.

XMilfs will send potential “friends” and “quickies” your way but they lead nowhere

As much as you’re constantly getting quickies and friends sent your way, most of the members on the site don’t look real. The site admins have filled the platform with unconvincing profiles to entice users.

You can get matches with other members in two specific ways. The first one is by scrolling through the quickie profiles and the second way is by accepting new friends under the “Friends/Favorites” tab. This section looked promising, however, you can’t accept any friend requests sent to a basic level membership. There are plenty of quickies I said yes to. But it was silence after that.

Quickie feature, which is similar to Tinder

Even though I spent more than a month on the site just trying to find one person who was willing to hook up, I got nowhere. Chances are the average person who’ll use XMilf.com won’t achieve anything either.

Why I’d rather use Adult FriendFinder

If you’re in search of an online hookup platform that’ll give you some good results, I’m sorry to say this, but XMilfs isn’t one of them. Even though Adult FriendFinder isn’t exclusively for milfs, you’ll do a lot better on this site.

Truth is, XMilfs has nothing on Adult FriendFinder. In fact, there several other dating websites that are way better than this one. As much as not many of them are exclusively for milfs, you’ll still have better luck bagging one on another site.

Adult FriendFinder, for one, is a platform that’s already been tried and tested. It has millions of people that have subscribed as active members. Most profiles are legit because the site admins know how to sieve out scammers and catfishers.

Secondly, the Adult FriendFinder members are very responsive and a lot of them want to both meet and hookup as quickly as they can. As with any other site, you can get ghosted when the interest fizzles out. But more often than not, you’ll at least establish that you’re talking to a real person.

If you’re going to spend money trying to hook up online, then you might as well put your cash in Adult FriendFinder. Furthermore, if you’re the type that doesn’t usually pay for upgrades and you like using free accounts, don’t worry. There are free trial runs on Adult FriendFinder as well.

Pros and cons of XMilfs

During my unfulfilling time on XMilfs.com, I managed to come up with a few pros and cons. Here’s what I found

Positives
Negatives
  • Easy to use
  • Doesn’t bombard you with many adverts
  • You can get your fill of explicit photos just by browsing
  • Basic level membership is heavily restricted
  • Most of the profiles don’t look legit
  • A lot of spam chats and messages
  • Could use some more interesting features

The site a basic overall design that doesn’t have any annoying features

The XMilfs platform has a nice and basic overall appearance and the site is generally easy to use. It has a rather straightforward homepage. It shows you the women near you as well as the women who recently posted “tweets.” This isn’t linked to Twitter, by the way. You can also directly search for the type of member you’d like to hook up with on the homepage and “tweet” to members as well.

Site design

If you want to do deep searches, you can do that by clicking the “Search” tab. Here you can choose to search the members near you, the people online now or the newest arrivals. You can generally do a much more detailed search under this tab.

Messaging on XMilfs: not at all fruitful

One of the most common signs you’re on a bad site is when you get a lot of messages as soon as you register on the platform. This is, sadly, what happens as soon as you register an account on XMilfs.com. In fact, a lot of the conversation starters looked a little too fabricated for my liking which made me question the site even further.

Overly forward opening messages

That being said, the messaging wasn’t too complicated. You can either send a member mail or have a private chat with them directly on the platform itself. You don’t have to be friends to start a chat or send an email. These texts and/or chats can be sent to anyone.

However, your messages will not be sent if you’re on the basic level account. You’ll have to upgrade before you can send mail or even chat. Furthermore, you can’t even read messages in your inbox if you’re using a basic level membership.

How much does paid membership cost?

Membership prices

Xmilfs.com has a 3-day limited trial plan that costs $2.97 per day. With this plan. You’ll get 10 profile views and 10 messages on each one of those 3 days. Other than that, the price structure is kind of a basic one and is the same as what you’d expect to come across on many other hookup sites that offer subscription services.

Limited Trial Membership: $2.97 per/day (3-Day Trial)

Gold Membership: $11.65 per/month (6 months)

Silver Membership: $16.65 per/month (3 months)

Monthly VIP Membership: $29.95 per/month (1 month)

All the above-mentioned plans, except the Trial Membership, are recurring. This means that you’ll automatically be billed once the membership lapses. You can pay via credit card or make payments via online check.

XMilfs Review: Frequently Asked Questions

We’re now wrapping up the review. But, before I go, I’m going to answer some of the questions that are frequently asked about this particular site.

What is XMilfs.com?

XMilfs is a hookup site that generally caters to straight guys looking to meet MILFs. It was founded in 2018 and has been around for about two years or so. However, as I learned, there doesn’t seem to be any sign of real MILFs on the site.

How do you log into the site?

X<ilfs has a straightforward log in procedure. All you need to do is type in your username (which will be generated by the site) and then type in your password.

Can you send free messages on XMilfs?

No, you can’t send free texts on XMilfs. Although, when you pay for the Limited Trial Plan you get 10 “free” messages for 3 days, which is still not exactly free because you’ll have to part with about three bucks. To send chats or mail, you’ll have to upgrade your account.

How do you delete your account?

You can remove your profile by either; one, deactivating the account (which is basically just hiding your profile from other members) or, two, close the account completely. The first option will merely hide your profile and you can reactivate the account whenever you like. The second option is more final. The delete account option can be found in the “Account Settings” tab located at the top of the homepage.

How to delete your account 1

How to delete your account part 1

How to delete your account part 2

How do you cancel your membership?

If you pay for a premium membership, you’ll have to keep in mind that these plans are recurring. You have to cancel the membership to stop being billed. Membership can be canceled directly on the platform.

How much does paid membership cost?

XMilfs has a 3-day limited trial plan that costs $2.97 per day. With this plan. You’ll get 10 profile views and 10 messages on each one of those 3 days. Other than that, the price structure is kind of a basic one and is the same as what you will come across on many other hookup sites that offer a subscription.

Limited Trial Membership: $2.97 per/day (3-Day Trial)

Gold Membership: $11.65 per/month (6 months)

Silver Membership:  $16.65 per/month (3 months)

Monthly VIP Membership: $29.95 per/month (1 month)

Is XMilfs Legit?

Although I didn’t spend a lot of time on this platform, I doubt it would have been helpful if I stayed any longer. The time I spent was enough to tell me all I needed to know about XMilfs. I’m not convinced that it’s something that can be trusted, let alone relied upon. In my opinion, you shouldn’t waste your time with it.

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