9 Places You Can Meet Older Women Fucking Younger Men

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Those looking for older women fucking younger men pretty much all have the same problem: finding the right places where they hang out. In this article, I’m going to clear that particular problem right up with nine places you can ALL find older women fucking younger men. These places are right there in your city. The women are waiting, begging for you to turn up.

When I wanted to meet a cougar, I found it impossible. The biggest problem I had, and I suspect it’s the same that a lot of you have right now, is that my social circle was so young. As such, we went to clubs packed with students with not an older woman in sight. Just lots of foam, lots of $1 shots, and lots of willing teens who probably weren’t even legal. It was not what I wanted.

Eventually, I got bored with the same routine. I got tired of meeting immature women I wasn’t interested in. I wanted to meet older, more experienced women who could give me what I wanted.

As luck would have it, I had a cousin a bit older than myself who’s, shall we say, the outlier of the family. He’s the guy I look up to in a lot of ways — perennial bachelor, makes good money, and always has a woman on his arm.

I’ve always wanted to be him. So I struck out from my usual crowd and asked my cousin to take me to the bars he goes to in order to meet women. As it turns out, he didn’t even go to bars!

“Bars are a good place to meet women, don’t get me wrong,” he told me. “But if you want to find older women fucking younger men, you have to think outside the box.”

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How to find older women fucking younger men

It wasn’t what I wanted to hear. I just wanted to find a sophisticated bar where women go to pick up younger men, have a few drinks and have a good time. But apparently bars aren’t the only place to meet women. While I had to go to my cousin for the best spots to pick up older women, you don’t have to have that connection. Instead, here are nine places to go if you’re looking for older women fucking younger men.

Night Classes

Fancy going back to school?

Aww screw it – fancy finding an older woman who wants to fuck you and don’t mind learning a bit of biochemistry at the same time?!

No one said the hunt for a cougar in the city would be easy and a night class certainly won’t be that. But I’ve taken a night course and while my intention wasn’t to find older women, what I can say is that it was a veritable feasting ground for any guy who quite likes the idea of an older woman.

The great thing about night classes is that you can be pretty sure that the women there are going to be at least one of the following:

1) Smart

2) Ambitious

If you find these traits sexy in a woman, you’re onto something here!

Night classes are generally made up of mature women — probably 27 years old and over. These women might have been to school before or they might not have been, but they’re at an age now where they want something a bit more. Either that or they’re here for the exact same reason as you – they’re looking for a pick-up.

The best thing about night classes? It’s super duper easy to get a woman’s attention. If you’re struggling to catch her eye in class, answer a question out-loud when the lecturer pitches one. Get yourself noticed. Try and get her attention and give her a smile when your eyes lock. After class, initiate conversation on the way out — make sure you do this on the first night — and make your move as soon as possible.

I would ask her how she thinks the class went. Don’t tell her your thoughts first, let her reveal hers. For example, if she says “Oh, I found it a bit tricky to be honest. How about you?” tell her that you found it quite easy and that you’ll help her out. All she needs to do is give you her number. If she says she found it a breeze? Tell her you found it difficult and ask if she’d be willing to explain some things. Much like the opposite, your aim is to get her phone number and get together.

Once you’ve opened a door like this, it’s up to you to keep it going. You don’t have to make massive advances there and then, but show up the following week with a plan of action.

Top tip: Show up to class early. Hopefully some women will do the same. Now is your chance to sit/stand next to one of them and introduce yourself before the class starts. Then, you can follow-up with them once the class is over. “How did you do with that test?”

Adult FriendFinder makes meeting older women for a fling as easy as possible

In the world of hookup apps there are only two players worth considering: Tinder and Adult FriendFinder. Tinder has it’s uses if you are only looking for women under 28 and you just happen to be a pretty good looking guy. If you want to meet more mature women and don’t happen to be a male model Tinder is often a very frustrating experience.

On the other hand, Adult FriendFinder has a significantly older userbase and a huge number of active members (over 90,000,000 worldwide). When it comes to deciding which app to use you need to go with the one that gives you the most chances to meet women. We review the best hookup apps every year and they have been a top choice for a while now.

They have a free trial so you don’t have to pay anything to use the app which is always nice. You don’t have to just take our word for it, give it a shot and see what we mean. There isn’t a better app for actually finding women for some short-term fun.

Bars

My cousin ruled out bars, but we don’t need to. If you don’t have time to learn a new subject, go for a beer instead. Bars are an obvious place to meet older women, but you have to make sure to pick the right ones.

I’m not going to go into too much detail with this one, as you’ll have a good idea of where the best bars that older women go to in your town are. If you’re not sure, Google is your friend.

The best time to catch them? Fridays after work (immediately after work) are prime time. They’ve just gotten off the clock and they’re heading to the bar for a few drinks with their colleagues.

The next best times are Saturday afternoons and early evenings, as well as public holidays.

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We like to suggest online dating to anyone interested in dating an older woman because it is just so freaking easy. You can spend all night a club or bar drinking $10 drinks without any attractive single cougars showing up (though you can often find success at the right spots) or you can spend a few minutes a day online and never walk away without options.

A lot of women can be shy about wanting to sleep with a younger guy and Cougar Life gives them a great way to fullfill their desires without having to really put themselves out there.

Coffee Shops

Early in the morning, you’ll find coffee shops are swelling with older business-women who need their caffeine fix while they fire off a few emails.

Take your laptop along, look businesslike, and find a way of striking up a conversation with her.

Homeless Shelters

I know what you might be thinking:

“But dude. Isn’t it a bit unethical to go volunteering just to find older women fucking younger men?”

If you put it like that – maybe.

But look, you don’t have to go volunteering in order to find older women. There are plenty of alternatives on this list. But if you’ve been volunteering before, or if you’ve got a compassionate side and have always wanted to give it a go, now is your chance. You can kill two birds with one stone here.

And, yes, older women LOVE guys who care and who are prepared to help others. Visit homeless shelters, offer your services, get stuck in, and finesse that hot, big-hearted volunteer who has needs of her own.

The Park

Taking a walk with your dog to a popular park has always been a great way to meet women. You see it in the movies and in television shows, and it’s not fictional — it totally works in real life.

Taking a dog for a walk to a park makes you ripe for conversation. Dogs are fantastic ice-breakers and women just love to meet young guys with cute dogs they can stroke and talk about.

But you’d better have some funny stories ready. When she asks what’s his name, give your dog a funny explanation as to why you chose that particular name. Create humorous anecdotes about your pet. Remember that he usually growls at women when they first meet, but not her? Your dog is the perfect opportunity to learn more about each other, gauge everyone’s sense of humor and come off as a big softy at heart.

If you don’t have your own dog, I wouldn’t recommend that you go out and buy one, totally turning your whole life upside down in the process. But if you can borrow a friend’s dog, you can still get in on the fun. That fact alone can be the start of an interesting anecdote.

Top tip: Don’t take a scary bull mastiff that wants to eat her dog. I’d go for a manly, elegant dog, such as a labrador or a golden retriever if possible. Failing that, anything ridiculously cute will melt her heart, while anything unusual will get her talking.

If you can’t borrow a dog for your own selfish needs, it’s still not an issue. One time, I took a stroll into a busy park while filming an episode for my YouTube channel. I came across an attractive woman walking her dog, and got the dog on camera. Meanwhile, I stroked it, let it lick my face – and got talking to the woman.

The end result? I got her number.

Dogs and parks = so much win.

A Jogging Trail

Similar to a park, you’ll meet plenty of outdoorsy older women interested in younger men on popular jogging trails. She’s looking to stay fit and blow off a little steam from the stress of work and it’s perfect to start a little conversation.

The best time to go is on a Saturday morning when she’s finally got a day off work. Find someone to jog alongside and make a comment on the weather, the scenery, the location, how long you’ve been jogging for — anything that will grab her interest.

Gyms

Remember my cousin from earlier? Instead of the bar, my cousin took me to the gym.

Me? At a gym? Looking for women? Are you kidding me!?

All kinds of question ran through my head. Did I have to workout? Would I have to run a few miles on the treadmill? Would I be able to sneak a whisky-and-coke in there for my nerves? Who knew that looking for women would be so hard?!

I wasn’t sure of what I was getting myself into and I’ll admit that I was skeptical. But you know what, my cousin was right.

Every town, city, village, sea port and so on has a gym. However, gym’s aren’t always the easiest place to meet people. You’re doing your thing and working up a sweat and women are doing their thing. Which is why I recommend you sign up to a class, such as Zumba.

Zumba classes are aimed at women, but guys can join too. The demographic is usually always older. And these women are fit, healthy and sure wouldn’t mind meeting an equally fit and healthy (but younger) male. With the ratio being so much in your favor, you can quickly become a favorite in class and get attention. So get to it.

Singles Nights

Young people tend to avoid singles nights because they know that they’re always full of older people. I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve been invited to a singles night and the invitation always comes from a woman in her 40s.

The women that are there are often older, more experienced and very willing to meet younger men. In fact, you’ll probably be the youngest, hottest guy there. You’ll clean up. The best thing about singles nights is you already know the women are up for it, because that’s exactly why they’re there!

You can use Google to find singles nights in your area, or sign up to an online dating site, which regularly invites users to local singles nights.

A Cruise

I’ve put this one last, because not all of you are going to be able to afford a cruise. However, if you can afford it and are looking for a vacation for next year, a cruise should be on top of your list if you also want the perfect hot spot for older women fucking younger men.

Forget Ibiza or Belize — get on a cruise.

As the guys on this forum point out, there are more single older women on cruises than men because women outlive men and prefer to take the safe option when it comes to vacationing. On a cruise, everything is there for them: food, entertainment and so on.

You’ll certainly have plenty of cruise options to choose from, but to improve your chances, opt for a singles cruise.


These are 9 places you can meet older women fucking younger men. Don’t want to work too hard at it? Take a walk to a park. Don’t mind learning while on the prowl? Take a night class. With all these options in mind, choose ones that suit your lifestyle and always prepare some conversation before going in.

Good luck.

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