Finding older women fucking younger men can be difficult. Many ladies are afraid of getting labeled a cougar. And even if they’re attracted to younger men, they will keep their desire a secret. Additionally, most younger guys have a social circle of people their age.
However, don’t worry! There are actually plenty of confident older ladies who aren’t ashamed to act on their desires, no matter what other people think. Only, you’ll have to find the best places in your city to meet them.
Where to Find Older Women Fucking Younger Men
To meet cougars rather than girls your age, you have to think outside the box. It’s pretty unlikely that the bars and clubs you visit with your friends are filled with older ladies who dream about hooking up with a younger stud.
Instead, you’ll have to find out which places in your city are popular among older women. This guide lists places where you can meet ladies who are interested in steamy relationships with younger men. Are you ready to meet the cougar of your dreams?
Choose the right bar where older women go
Bars are the first to come to mind when it comes to meeting women. And for a good reason! The ladies go there to have a good time, socialize and maybe meet a new man. In order to be lucky, however, you must choose the right bar. There’s no point in going to a college bar if you want to meet older women!
Look for bars in your city on Yelp and pay attention to how women rate them. This makes it very easy to find out which venues are most popular among the ladies. If the bar you’re interested in has a Facebook page, you can find other reviews and photos there.
The best time to meet older women in bars is Friday after working hours. This is definitely prime time, as the ladies want to de-stress. So they hang out with their friends and colleagues. Other good times to meet older women are Saturday afternoons, early evenings and public holidays. Don’t bother going late at night, as you’ll mostly find younger people.
We have a guide to help you turn a woman on with words. Use it the next time you find yourself in a bar full of mature women.
AFF is full of older women fucking younger men (try it free)
Many young guys who fancy cougars mostly look for hookups and aren’t necessarily interested in a serious relationship. If this is the case for you, you must definitely check out AFF (which has a great free trial), which better than Tinder for meeting older women. The website has a huge pool of over 90 million active users. It’s also popular all across the country.
It’s also worth noting that users on AFF tend to be older than those on most traditional dating apps like Tinder. This increases your chances of finding a hot cougar in your city. In our experience, AFF is easily the best site or app out there to meet older women looking for something casual.
So many older women are ONLY looking online these days when they want to meet a guy that you just can't avoid it. We've tried out over 100 different sites and apps in the past two years and AFF is the one that consistently works best for guys, especially average guys.
Check out AFF's free trial and see what we mean.
The gym is another great place to meet older women fucking younger men
Surprisingly, your local gym can turn into a great place to meet older women fucking younger men. For example, you can try signing up for a class that mostly caters to women, like yoga, Zumba and Pilates. At these classes, the demographic is usually older.
That doesn’t mean that you can’t find a hot cougar on the treadmill or the bench, though. The most important advantage of meeting women at the gym is that you’ll be sure they have great bodies!
While most college-age women go to the gym in the afternoon, most older ladies go in the evening, after their working hours. We’d also add that many women go to the gym on their lunch break, so you can try going during these hours as well.
So, how do you approach an older lady at the gym? We have a guide for how you can approach women at the gym and create attraction. This guide outlines some ways you can catch her eye. Once you’ve already built up some rapport, you can also try our tips for how to hit on a woman at the gym. Don’t worry because these guides were written by women who hate the stereotypical jock approach!
Passion is another great option to find something casual or physical
When it comes to being efficient with your time and money, it’s hard to find an easier way to meet older women interested in younger guys than Passion (which you can try for free). With millions of members looking for something casual younger guy, the scale is unmatched.
Every year we try out, review and compare all the top sites out there for finding single older women and Passion has been one of the best option for a few years now. If you actually want to make the most of your time, you need to check out their free trial.
We like to suggest online dating to anyone interested in dating an older woman because it’s just so freaking easy. And since lot of women can be shy about wanting to sleep with a younger guy, Passion gives them a great way to fulfill their desires without having to really put themselves out there.
Go to an evening class
Evening classes aren’t just for learning new hobbies and sports—they’re also for socializing. There are classes where the demography is typically older—especially those for cooking, ballroom dance and pottery.
Ballroom and Latin dance classes offer an excellent excuse to do what the seduction experts call “kino escalation” (i.e. touching the woman in a non-sexual way). Think about it: when dancing, you have to stay close. That’s a good thing because it gets her accustomed to your touch.
As she gets comfortable with you holding her waist, you can progress toward sexier forms of touch. You can play with her hair, hold her hand or caress her back. It's one start to getting an older woman into bed!
As for cooking and craft classes, these ensure that you’ll meet women who have at least an interest in common with you. This makes it very easy to break the ice and start a conversation without coming off as creepy. Bonus points if you find a class where most attendants are female, so you’ll face less competition.
However, beware that not all settings make it easy to find older women fucking younger men. Relationships and hookups between a cougar and a younger man are still a taboo in many communities. Don’t get discouraged if women at your cooking class don’t see you as boyfriend or fling material. Instead, just choose another course where you can find like-minded people.
The park is full of older women who want to fuck younger men
Taking a walk with your dog to a popular park has always been a great way to meet women. You see it in the movies and in television shows. It’s not fictional—it totally works in real life.
Taking a dog for a walk to a park makes you ripe for conversation. Dogs are fantastic icebreakers and women just love to meet young guys with cute dogs they can befriend and talk about.
But you’d better have some funny stories ready. When she asks what’s his name, give your dog a funny explanation as to why you chose that particular name. Tell humorous anecdotes about your pet. Remember that he usually growls at women when they first meet, but not her? Your dog is the perfect opportunity to learn more about each other, gauge everyone’s sense of humor and come off as a big softy at heart. That rapport is enough to get her feeling all warm and fuzzy around you--a great way to start off some great sex with older women.
If you don’t have your own dog, I wouldn’t recommend that you go out and buy one, totally turning your whole life upside down in the process. But if you can borrow a friend’s dog, you can still get in on the fun. That fact alone can be the start of an interesting anecdote.
Top tip: Don’t take a scary bull mastiff that wants to eat her dog. I’d go for a manly, elegant dog, such as a labrador or a golden retriever if possible. Failing that, anything ridiculously cute will melt her heart, while anything unusual will get her talking.
If you can’t borrow a dog for your own selfish needs, it’s still not an issue. One time, I took a stroll into a busy park while filming an episode for my YouTube channel. I came across an attractive woman walking her dog and got the dog on camera. Meanwhile, I stroked it, let it lick my face and got talking to the woman.
The end result? I got her number.
Dogs and parks = so much win.
A jogging trail is full of fit cougars
Similar to a park, you’ll meet plenty of outdoorsy older women interested in younger men on popular jogging trails. She’s looking to stay fit and blow off a little steam from the stress of work and it’s perfect to start a little conversation.
The best time to go is on a Saturday morning when she’s finally got a day off work. Find someone to jog alongside and make a comment on the weather, the scenery, the location, how long you’ve been jogging for — anything that will grab her interest.
Soon enough, when you chat with her you'll start to see signs an older woman wants to have sex with you. Some sexual tension and all those endorphins are a fantastic combo!
Singles Nights
Young people tend to avoid singles nights because they know that they’re always full of older people. I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve been invited to a singles night and the invitation always comes from a woman in her 40s.
The women that are there are often older, more experienced and very willing to meet younger men. In fact, you’ll probably be the youngest, hottest guy there. The best thing about singles nights is you already know the women are up for it because that’s exactly why they’re there!
Older women fuck younger men on cruises all the time
I’ve put this one last because not all of you are going to be able to afford a cruise. However, if you can afford it and are looking for a vacation for next year, a cruise should be on top of your list. It’s the perfect hot spot for (affluent) older women fucking younger men. The whole atmosphere of a singles cruise is just sexy enough that it's sometimes all women need to want to have sex with younger men.
Forget Ibiza or Belize—get on a cruise!
As the guys on this forum point out, there are more single older women on cruises than men. That’s because women outlive men and prefer to take the safe option when it comes to vacationing. On a cruise, everything is there for them: food, entertainment and so on.
You’ll certainly have plenty of cruise options to choose from. But to improve your chances, opt for a singles cruise.
These are 9 places you can meet older women fucking younger men. Don’t want to work too hard at it? Take a walk in a park. Don’t mind learning while on the prowl? Take a night class. With all these options in mind, choose ones that suit your lifestyle and always prepare some conversation before going in.
Good luck!
