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There comes a point where nothing seems to be going your way. Like in the Friends song, “Your...

Plenty of Fish has been around for a while, and that’s a good thing—we now know what works...

Do you know why guys say that Snapchat is a terrible place to meet women? That’s because they...

Considering literally millions of singles are using Tinder, it's normal to wonder, "Is Tinder worth it?" After all,...

One of the most attractive features of a woman are her eyes. And by making eye contact with...

Tinder is a heavily photo-based dating app. People swipe based on your first photo and not everyone bothers...

Let’s be honest: telling a girl she’s pretty is a cliché. She will usually respond with an awkward...

Dating can be confusing at times. What's a sign of attraction from one woman can be a non-verbal...

All men want to learn how to be irresistible to women but very few can actually do it....

Do you want to learn how to respond to “hey” on Tinder? Your response will depend on your...

You often hear about younger women dating older men and people say, "Oh, she's just in it for...

Love at first sight isn't really a thing, despite what movies might have you believe. But if there's...

What do girls like to be called? Honeybun? Sugar lips? Cupcake? These are some of the cheesiest things...

Want to learn how to make a girl jealous? It may seem like a devious act to stir...

“Do girls like introverts or just overconfident, aggressive alpha males?” It’s the age-old question that seems to have...

“I just want to know, am I wasting my time or does she really love me?” When you...

Do you want to learn how to command respect—and not just from women, but from other men, too?...

If you’re using Bumble, you may wonder how to respond to women - you may get a simple...

Are you wondering how to help your girlfriend get over her ex? This guide explains a range of...

Is knowing how to ask for a second date just as important as asking for a first date?...

Ever wonder how to make a woman feel comfortable? Putting a woman at ease isn’t always the easiest...

Wondering how to keep a conversation going on Bumble? Not everyone is a master of conversation on this...

You’re talking to this girl you approached at a bar or met through your friend group. You’re telling...

A great relationship should be filled with memories and experiences you can look back on and remember all...

Do you want to learn how to craft the best compliment for a girl on her photo? If...

Ever wondered why a married woman is attracted to another man? Perhaps you might be the husband of...

“I’ve never had a girlfriend. What does that say about me?” If you’re asking yourself that question, this...

“Is she in love with me?” If you’re asking yourself this question, then the good news is that...

So there’s this girl you’ve been getting to know for a while now. Maybe you’ve gone on a...

Interested in getting back together with your ex? You’re not alone. Plenty of guys (and women) entertain the...

You’ve been having a pretty good text conversation for a while now. You’re past the getting-to-know-you stage, and...

Tinder is currently the most popular dating app out there - and with good reason. Having the ability...

Looking to learn what to do if your girlfriend wants a break? It’s a pretty common scenario: Things...

At one point, she meant the world to you. But life happened. And now you want to know...

Why is she acting distant all of a sudden? She said she liked me, and now she barely...

When you’re texting someone you’re really into, sometimes you just want to blurt out all the compliments you...

When you’re head over heels for a woman, nothing hits quite as hard as realizing she just wants...

You’re probably wondering, “Why would I want to know how to end a conversation when I’m clearly into...

Too many guys are so focused on getting a girlfriend that they don’t know how to keep a...

“Why does my ex-girlfriend keep contacting me?” If you’re asking yourself this question right now, then your answers...

A guy likes a girl, she likes him back – or that’s how it seems – then she...

After listening to my recent interview on the Figuring it Out podcast on how to write dating profile...

Meeting women online is so much easier these days thanks to all the apps. But the problem is...

Every man should learn how to be a smooth talker. There are many perks to it that you...

Hey Em, You said there are two things that make a good first message: noticing what I have...

When a girl replies to a message, it’s a fucking victory.  You spend so much time and energy...

First, know that you are not alone.  Online dating only masquerades as the simpler way to date –...

Here’s how to get her to meet you if she’s always “busy”…and how to know when to move...

You asked her to meet in person...she said yes.  Sweet success! First, congratulate yourself.  You fought the good...

All the marks of a worthy man: - Crafting a great first message - Writing an awesome online dating profile...

You may think online dating is as simple as posting a decent profile picture, writing an accurate self-summary,...

Your written profile is gold mine of opportunity.  A lot of guys overlook it.  Here's why you shouldn't, plus 25...

A first date filled with awkward silences.  She takes a drink.  You take a drink.  She glances at...

Hi Em, Most of my messages have the attributes you discussed in your articles on messaging. So my question...

Hi Em, How do you "cold call"?  That is to say, send a message with basically NOTHING to...

Ahhh, Tinder.  Despite its reputation as an app for hooking up, it’s now also used by women who...

Hey Em, How long do I have to message a girl before asking her to meet me in...

Tinder is like the manic pixie dream girl of online dating -- frenetic, free, and you can't believe it's...

Some days, online dating feels like a terrible page of Where’s Waldo?  I see so many guys’ profiles, but...

Preparing for a first date can be incredibly stressful for most guys. If you feel that way you're...

John, thanks for sharing! One thing that would make your message better would be asking the type of...

Hey Andrew!  You're definitely right about one thing:  You’ll win or lose a woman’s attention with your profile...

If you’ve read any of my articles or eBooks, you’ll know by now there are 2 things I...

Thanks for your question, Derek! Yep, that is a frustrating experience and we’ve all been there! If her...

In sales terms, your well-crafted first message to a woman is the cold call. When she visits your...

Part of learning how to write a good online dating profile is learning what not to write. This...

Tom, you’re in good company: tons of guys have asked me about the best kind of username to...

Want to learn what to do when you get rejected by a girl? You might feel angry, depressed,...

Want to learn how to stop obsessing over someone—or more specifically, the girl you like? If you can’t...

Does your woman want a time-out with you—or worse, a breakup? If so, then you might have heard...

Have you ever started seeing a woman and had lots of chemistry, then all of a sudden she...

Are you wondering how to show a girl you’re serious about her? If you’ve been dating someone, you...

“Why doesn’t she love me anymore?” Bro, we’ve all been there. We’ve all felt the “light switch effect”...

What should you know if you want to learn how to build sexual tension over text? It might...

Everybody is all hyped by Tinder and Tinder hacks, and why shouldn't they? Going online is the most...

“She blocked me out of the blue.” “We were back from a date, next day she’s gone” “I...

You go in for the kiss, she leans back and tells you she wants to take it slow....

Are you looking to learn how to win a girl over another guy? We’ve all been there: You’re...

“Is it a bad thing to want to know how to be a player?” This is what my...

Women are prone to hiding their feelings during the early stages of dating. That’s why it’s important for...

Women tend to be extremely subtle when it comes to showing guys that they’re attracted to them. If...

It’s so important to be able to recognize the signs you’re being played by a woman. If you...

It can be so frustrating when a girl takes forever to text back. Whenever a girl takes 24...

If you’re wondering how to flirt on a date, this is the guide for you. Below, you’ll find...

Welcome to our list of 7 bad men’s haircuts that drive women away. In this article, I’ll be...

No man wants to date a high-maintenance woman. The question is: how can you tell before it’s too...

In the grand list of what turns women on, an attractive appearance surely appears near the very top....

Few things are as nerve-racking as going on the first date with someone you like. You’re both a...

While there’s no guaranteed way to get a girl to like you, there is a best way. We...

Do you have a hard time figuring out when women are attracted to you? If you answered yes,...

Should you date a friend’s ex-girlfriend? Is it ever the right thing to do? If so, how should...

When you demonstrate pre-selection, it’s like playing the single life on “easy mode.” For whatever reason, women seem to...

Being attractive to women isn't just about who you are, it's also about what you do. You can...

If you’re like most men, you enjoy the sight of a beautiful woman, you may even ogle her...

Are you tired of always making the first move?  Well, here’s the good news. There are lots of...

There are many things to love about girls who are dedicated to fitness. Aside from having an attractive,...

Would you believe there are certain chase trigger words that can create such attraction in a woman that...

Emotional attraction triggers give you the best chance to make women attracted to you. Of course, women are...

If you’re tired of leaving the bar, party, coffee shop — any venue, really — without the girl...

Men often complain that it’ll take an entire lifetime to figure out women, such is their complicated nature....

Every guy has at least a little bit of approach anxiety before going up to a single woman...

Many single men ask themselves: How do I find a woman? It’s difficult to get good advice on this....

We're not about having sex with every hot woman you meet. We're about reclaiming your power as a man. We're...

In this guide, you’ll learn 5 of the most powerful push-pull attraction techniques to make women obsess over...

Natural game is the art of behaving like a natural. You see it in guys who have always...

Valentine’s Day is the biggest hit-or-miss day of the year. It’s a great day to meet new women....

Getting a woman into a private conversation is a crucial waypoint in every interaction. It's vital that you...

You’ve met the most amazing woman. She’s smart, funny and undeniably hot. You desperately want to get to...

Looking back on over a decade of experience there are 10 lessons I've learned that will help most...

A “would you rather” question can add some spice to any conversation with your boyfriend. On top of...

If you’re looking for a simple icebreaker or an easy way to get a little closer to someone...

Man or woman, if you have a crush on someone who’s single, you don’t want to keep it...

One of the biggest joys of life is getting to know your crush on a deeper level. And...

“Would you rather” questions are great ways to spice up a conversation with your girlfriend while simultaneously getting...

You’ve heard it in the movies: Women are enigmas. They are mysteries that can never be solved. Men...

Whether you’re looking for a relationship, a date or a fling, you probably spend a lot of time...

Approaching an older woman you find attractive isn’t always easy. In fact, it can be downright nerve-wracking. It’s...

Now that dating apps and websites have become the norm, knowing how to talk to women on Tinder...

A lot of men fall for an older woman and end up screwing it up because they’re too...

There will always be gold diggers who are out to land a man — any man — with...

You did it. You got the number of that gorgeous woman you’ve been lusting after. Now it’s time...

In this day and age, learning how to flirt with a woman over text is probably one of...

If you’ve been dating for any length of time, you likely already know that no two women are...

Do women really like guys that don't care? I'm not talking about not caring about her feelings, wants...

Rewind to 30 years ago and the best way to know if a girl is into you is...

Are you sick and tired of bouncing from one failed relationship to the next without ever finding your...

I have 4 powerful methods for how to get women to think about you after you’ve been on...

If you’re wondering about the signs a girl wants to be approached, then this guide is for you....

A lot of guys have no idea how to flirt with a girl. Most guys usually resort to...

Let’s say you meet this gorgeous woman. She’s charming, friendly and pretty much everything you want in a...

Do you have no idea how to tell if a girl likes you? Need a little help figuring...

When you’re out with your friends and you see a group of girls looking your way, how do...

If there’s one question we always get asked by single men who try to put themselves out there,...

This is a topic that comes up often with my guy friends and one I find so interesting....

If you struggle with approaching a group of women, you’re not alone. Even as a woman, I totally...

“Men are easy. All they want is sex.” It’s an old trope we hear repeated so often we...

Breakups are an unfortunate fact of life but that doesn’t make them any easier to handle, right? Learning...

Hands down one of the easiest ways to keep a conversation going is to ask questions. It’s simple...

Sending that first text to a crush is crucial. You want to make a good impression. You want...

Ending a long term relationship is never an easy thing to do. Figuring out how to break up...

When you see her, your heart starts to pound. Your palms get sweaty and your mouth goes dry....

Honestly, if you catch yourself regularly wondering how to know when to break up with your partner, we...

If you think all good first date ideas require you to spend a ton of money, think again....

A handsome face and bulging biceps are all well and good, but what a girl ultimately wants, is...

Attraction is about more than getting physical. Sure, when two people are attracted to each other there is...

Don’t you just hate the awkward silence on a date when the conversation stalls? You know, those times...

If you’re looking for ideas of sweet things to say to a girl, you’re in the right place....

There’s no better way to get to know someone than by asking questions. But did you know that...

After selecting the right photos, your bio is the second most important thing in your profile. If you’re...

If you’ve ended up here in search of the best Tinder pick up lines I have some great...

Are you fed up of constantly dating women that aren’t right for you? Perhaps you’re frustrated that you’re...

Do you find yourself wondering, "How does Tinder work?" Or are you looking to give Tinder a try...

When a girl calls you a “friend”, will all the sexual tension you’ve been feeling suddenly dissipate? Probably...

If you’re about to meet the girl of your dreams for a date, you want it to be...

It’s a sad day when you want to know how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating. In...

If you want to get to know a woman deeply, then you’ll need some deep topics to talk...

Hey, you considerate stud you! Not only do you want to date a woman over 40, but you...

So you’ve been on a few dates, you’re into her and she seems to be enjoying it just...

As a journalist, I often find myself neck-deep in research. The commission may require an understanding of quantum...

Let’s face it; most men wondering how to be a good conversationalist do so because they want to...

When it comes to dating and interacting with the opposite sex, it’s normal to have some insecurities. A...

Are you one of the many men perplexed by the female species? Let me share a secret with...

Are you concerned that your partner might be cheating on you? Without knowing the physical signs your girlfriend...

If you’ve ever thought to yourself, “do girls like facial hair?” Wonder no more. We’re breaking it down...

A happy, healthy relationship makes us feel great about ourselves and fills us with hope for the future....

Difficult breakups have a way of making us feel like all these negative emotions are permanent. In that...

Wondering why you’re not good at picking up women? Do you get friendzoned at lightning speed whenever you...

Being cheated on sucks, but sadly, it’s a very real possibility in the dating world. So if you’ve...

Figuring out how to forget your ex is rarely a simple task. But contrary to a lot of...

Most guys can agree that the opposite sex is oh-so alluring. At the same time, some men also...

Wondering if picking up women at a club is the right choice for you? Well, according to the...

Women are the nurturers, carers, and the life-givers of our world. We make up more than 50% of...

If you don’t have much experience talking with women, the idea of approaching a girl can be daunting....

When a relationship ends, getting over it takes time. The kindest thing we can do for ourselves in...

Have you been feeling ignored by the opposite sex lately? Maybe you’re having trouble standing out from other...

If you’re wondering how to get girls, you’re not alone. It’s a common adage that women are a mystery...

Women aren’t really that hard to understand, but unfortunately, many men can’t quite seem to figure them out....

Are you looking to get back with your ex? Maybe you had an insane connection with a woman...

Modern men often wonder how to be dominant in a relationship, or whether they even should. After all,...

Filled with emotions and confusion, breakups can be complicated. Text messages often make this even more difficult, especially...

If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of desperation, you’ve seen firsthand just how unattractive it can...

Knowing what to do when your ex texts you can be difficult. That single message can mean any...

No breakup is easy to deal with and some are certainly more difficult to get over than others....

It doesn’t matter how serious the relationship was, learning how to cope with a breakup is always hard....

Okay, let’s be clear here: wondering how to be friends with your ex after a breakup doesn’t necessarily...

If you’re wondering how to meet girls in college, you’re in the right place. This guide reveals the...

Ever wondered how to make a girl like you? From afar, us girls can seem kinda confusing at...

Whether you’ve been dating for a while or you’ve just met, knowing how to make her want you...

If you’re like most men, you probably fall into lust relatively easily. When a sexy lady enters your...

Have you ever wondered how to hit on a girl at the gym? You’d think the gym is...

Ever tried picking up girls at the bar, failed miserably and wondered what on earth you did wrong?...

There are no two ways about it, going through a breakup is hard. It’s undoubtedly leading you to...

It’s finally time to learn how to woo a woman if you don’t have a lot of time...

Why don’t girls like nice guys? It’s a question I find being asked often by guys of all...

If you’re still hurting after a recent breakup, it can make you feel a whole range of emotions....

If you’ve just started dating a woman and you’re into her, she might be the first thing on...

If you’ve just gone through a breakup, things can feel pretty rough. Even worse, it’s normal to feel...

One major element a lot of men are missing in their dating life is that they just don’t...

So, you’ve found out you have herpes. You may be worried about what this diagnosis will mean for...

Today I’ll answer the age-old question of “How do you get a girl to like you?” I’ll show...

Want to know how to get a girl horny over text? It’s all about creating the right environment...

Whether you’re new to Tinder or you’ve only ever dabbled, it can seem complicated and nerve-wracking. It makes...

If your friends are anything like mine, you’ve probably heard how “Tinder is impossible for guys”. That “Women...

With Tinder being one of the most popular dating apps out there, you’re probably wondering why. You might...

After the photos, your bio is the first thing women are going to see in your profile. Knowing...

A struggling marriage can make for a painful and confusing period in your life. Trying to figure out...

If you’re the type of guy that loves to shower your girlfriend with gifts, that’s honestly great. If...

Joni Mitchell was right -- “you don’t know what you got ‘til it’s gone”. While she was referring...

Do you always find yourself asking, “Why can’t I get a girlfriend?” You know you’re a pretty cool...

It’s over and done, but you still have feelings for her. That’s the tragedy when you don’t know...

Whether you’re looking for love or more of a short-term arrangement, you need to know how to flirt...

Why do women like older men? Why are women more likely to date an older guy than a...

Hollywood leads us to think that the only way to attract beautiful women is to be equally attractive...

It’s easy to think that men who captivate women and attract them instinctively know how to be charming....

It’s time to learn how to not give a fuck when it comes to women and dating. This...

Not knowing what to text a girl you like can get incredibly frustrating. You’re attracted to her and...

Even if you’re wondering how to be a bad boy, you’re probably not looking to become an actual...

Something a lot of guys want to learn is how to get out of the friendzone, especially if...

It’s time to learn how to get the girl you want even if you don’t have amazing looks....

Most guys don’t know how to win over a girl even if they tried. In fact, too many...

If you’ve been single for a while now, you might be asking yourself this question. If so, you’re...

The question of “Why do girls like jerks so much?” is a pretty common one when it comes...

Every relationship has its up and downs. A healthy one can usually overcome most obstacles. However, at some...

Getting that first date set up is often the hardest part. From there, all you need to do...

It’s time to learn how to get a girl's attention successfully and then keep it. Many guys struggle...

Snapchat is such an underutilized app in the dating world. More prominent in younger age groups, the majority...

In the world of online dating, your profile is your opportunity to make that first impression. First impressions...

With dating apps and websites becoming the norm, learning how to talk to girls online has become an...

We’ve all seen those weird, creepy messages from guys on Instagram, right? Cringey comments like “mmm, so sweet...

Guys often wonder about the right time to initiate a more intimate relationship with a girl. You may...

Today I’ll talk about how to make a girl want you and reveal what girls want in a...

“Netflix and Chill” means inviting someone home to watch a movie, and then hooking up with them while...

Learning how to break the ice with a girl on Tinder is possibly the most important skill you’ll...

Having great conversation skills isn’t just important for your dating life. Learning how to keep a conversation going...

If you want to be successful at dating, I’ll show you how to hit on a girl and...

Have you ever wondered “What do girls like in a guy?” In this article, I’ll tell you exactly...

Today I’ll show you how to win a girl’s heart if you want her to be with you....

If you’re planning on going out and meeting many beautiful women, then you’re in for a treat! That’s...

Dating can seem difficult and overwhelming sometimes. With so many made-up rules and “facts”, it can even start...

So you’d like to know how to ask a girl if she likes you. But you don’t want...

So what does “hit me up” mean when you hear it from a woman you’re interested in? I’ll...

In this guide to a fantastic first date, I’ll go over the most important things you need to...

If you ever wondered “What do women want in a man?” while trying to figure out how to...

If things go well on your first date, eventually you’re going to have a second one. And if...

Having an awesome dating life is all about knowing how to be attractive to women. Because you won’t...

If you’ve ever struggled on dating sites or at the bar, you’ve likely been asking yourself, “What do...

You should want your dates to be memorable. One of the best ways to do that is knowing...

Lowkey flirting is all about plausible deniability. Maybe you’re into someone you work with or perhaps it’s someone...

Everybody deserves to feel special and appreciated. Anyone that can make us feel that way is going to...

If you’ve been dating anytime recently, you’ve had to deal with texting back and forth. One of the...

If you message a woman and she doesn’t respond, it’s not the end of the road for you...

Let’s talk about how to make a girl laugh so she has a great time and becomes more...

If you’re one of the many guys who wonder: “why don’t women like me?”, it’s time for a...

Take it from me, one of the biggest turning points in your dating life will be when you...

Knowing what to text a girl after getting her number can be a little tricky. If she's hot,...

As a man in the world of Tinder, starting the conversation is usually up to you. Just like...

Knowing what to text a girl after hooking up with her can feel so difficult. With a sea...

In the age of Tinder and WhatsApp, many guys ask me how to respond to a canceled date...

The generally accepted wisdom on bars and clubs is they are the ideal place to pick up women....

Whether you're in a club, using one of our recommend dating sites, or on social media, flirting effectively...

When it comes to flirting and making new contacts with women, the coffee shop can be just as...

Just a few years ago, a phone number meant a phone call. But these days, when you ask...

Do you lack confidence and wonder how to not be insecure? Do women seem terrifying to you? Perhaps, when...

How you deal with love is the easiest way to determine just what kind of man you are....

Today I’ll talk about how to flirt with women and what real flirting is all about. I'll refrain...

The question of how to be more manly has become somewhat taboo in recent times. For whatever reason,...

In many ways, Facebook has taken the place of clubs and bars — when it comes to picking...

One of the big themes in dating, even before you get to the dating stage, is knowing what...

The old adage that a picture speaks a thousand words is true in so many cases. Tinder is...

It’s time to learn how to seduce women successfully this year! A new year brings change as well...

It’s one of the best feelings in the world. You’ve finally found the woman of your dreams and...

It’ll be no great surprise to learn, if you want to get to know a woman, you’ll need...

Facebook can be a great platform to meet attractive older women when used properly. But how do you...

It’s time to learn what to talk about with a girl if you want to have successful conversations...

With so much advice available online, learning how to talk to girls on Tinder can feel daunting. A...

Arranging a Tinder hookup isn’t as easy as it used to be. In fact, most people simply know...

It's time you learn how to ask a waitress out the right and proper way. We have all...

Being and looking masculine is all about the level of responsibility you take for your own appearance and...

If you've been wondering how to get a girl at a party but don't know the best way...

Are you having trouble finding your groove and want to learn how to approach a girl in the...

If you want to succeed at being an alpha male, you first have to understand exactly where it...

If you're a student and want to figure out how to approach a girl in college the best...

Knowing how to make a girl smile and laugh is probably one of the most important skills you...

Today I’ll show you how to approach a girl at a bar in a way that’s intriguing and...

Struggling with how to approach a girl? It might help you to learn you’re actually in the majority...

If I asked you to imagine what is an alpha male, it probably wouldn’t take too long for...

Men have been wondering what’s the best way to get a girl since the Paleolithic period. The art...

One of the worst parts about being interested in someone is worrying the feeling’s not mutual. Many guys...

It happens all the time. A woman smiles at a man and suddenly he thinks she's totally into...

Is romance dead? You’d think so, considering many guys don’t know the sweet ways to ask a girl...

Some can just ask women out anytime, anywhere and without a care in the world as to what...

The worst thing about being embarrassed around women is it makes you seem creepy. As if you weren’t...

If you'd like to be in our next mailbag and see your question answered by our experts, get...

One of the most perplexing dating quandaries you can find yourself in is deciding if and how to...

A lot of guys seem to think that dating a woman with kids is difficult. In a way,...

It can be hard to see the signs a girl is interested in you, especially online.  You may...

If you’re wondering what to talk about with a girl when texting her before your first date, then...

Cougars have got a reputation for being predatory. This is because older women who like younger guys know...

When you live in the big city it can be easy to get stuck in a tiresome routine....

Starting a conversation with a woman who’s older can seem intimidating. Women who are older are often more...